Rubbing his perineum/prostate massage?

Don't know how, but I'd love to try... on my boyfriend. Most amazing orgasms I'v ever had were during anal sex - totally different kind of orgasm than in my pussy, & a thousand times more intense! So, I wonder what "untapped potential" exists for a man in that area. Would love it if he'd let me see just how intense his orgasm could get with a little 'extra' stimulation. Don't think ever go for it though.

 

I have always wanted to do this to a man, and finally found one who will not only let me, but he practically begs me for it. If done right, it's also very good for the prostate gland I make sure to do it to him as much as I can, because I love it too. He cums so hard and so much it's unreal!!

Some guys think prostate massage is "gay" or if you go near their ass in any way they fear you'll think they are gay. This is not true, of course, but I have yet to figure out a way to convince a man this is not true if he doesn't already know it.

 

Good first post. You are right a lot of men fear that admitting any interest in anal stimulation signifies that they are gay. I felt that way for years, but its not so. Many women enjoy anal stimulation too, does that make them gay?

I have no interest in sex with men but still have discovered that anal stimulation can be enjoyable, and adds to the areas of sexual stimulation that it is possible for most men and women to enjoy. It is especially fun doing it together. Just one more tool in the sexual toy box.

 

I've been reading on other forums about the use of wands or toys.

Anyone have any thoughts on the best ones, or the best method, when using a wand or toy while doing prostate massage/stimulation?

Your thoughts and ideas are greatly appreciated!

Thanks.

 

Awesome! Thank you for sharing. The anus is a very sensitive area and one that I think goes overlooked when it comes to men. In my opinion, every man should at least give it a try. If it feels good, why not?

Thanks for your reply

 

While stimulation of the prostate is enjoyable, for some men having anything in the anus kills an erection. I was surprised to experience that myself, but have found numerous other men who experience the same thing. It still feels good but for some of us it is hard, or should I say not hard, to enjoy both at once.

 

Something like this, where the head is angled so you can focus it toward the prostate and it has a built in vibrator close to the head. It has really good reviews, I'm ordering one. http://www.amazon.com/Sinclair-Institute-Vibrating-Prostate-Massager/dp/B008AJKJEK/ref=pd_sim_hpc_2"]Sinclair Institute Select Verve Vibrating Prostate Massager

I bought one of these recently, and the bumps are nice, the texture is a little rough and it has a great vibrator, but the vibrator is located so far from the head not much of it carries through to the tip. Still it would be a lot of fun with a partner. http://www.amazon.com/Rocks-Off-Limited-Cheeky-Black/dp/B0044U3V3K/ref=cm_cr_pr_pb_t"]Amazon.com: Rocks Off Limited Cheeky Boy Black: Rocks Off: Health & Personal Care

 

When I lost my Gay virginity (receiving), this was something that took me really by surprise. As soon as I was penetrated my own raging erection vanished to totally flaccid, yet each thrust he made brought about the sensation of the "Point Of No Return" which is experienced just before you climax, but it just kept going, with the sensation steadily increasing (unlike with masturbation / sex where you rapidly build up to a sudden release) until I couldn't take any more & I climaxed, complete with ejaculation from a totally flaccid penis, with no contact having been made to it whatsoever. A really weird experience the first time round.

I'm not certain of the technicalities behind all this, but I suspect it's prostate stimulation itself that causes the loss of erection, which means, of course, that the penetration has to be made at just the right angle to hit the prostate. This would mean that when you see Gay porn videos with the recipient retaining his erection, despite his exaggerated reactions, his prostate is not being stimulated at all.

 

Just an update. I highly recommend the http://www.amazon.com/Sinclair-Institute-Vibrating-Prostate-Massager/dp/B008AJKJEK/ref=pd_sim_hpc_2"]Sinclair Institute Select Verve Vibrating Prostate Massager. Only $17.

It has a great smooth texture, easy to clean, nice bumps, the vibrator is strong at the head and variable with dial at the opposite end, AA batteries are strong and last a long time, overall it is a great toy, probably better when used on you by a partner. The only criticisim I have is that the shape of the handle is so uniformally round, it is hard to know what direction the curve and head is facing when it is inserted.

 

I'd love a woman to fist me, any one local to stockport/

 

I can absolutely attest to this being tried and true! My hubs cums like a fire hose whenever I do this to him! )

 

Never felt anything much from paranium massage, other than "wow, your close to my ass, and that's good" for me, having a woman inside me brings on a trifecta- 1.psychlogically, it's a turn on. 2. anal stimulation is a turn on, 3. when it's on the prostate, the orgasm is much more intense than anything else I have felt.

 

My wife fingers my perineum all the time when giving me a HJ or BJ. Then, when she is in the mood, she pops a finger inside my arse and moves it in and out as fast as she can (always with lube).
It is a combination of just feeling amazing and also knowing that it is at the ruder end of the spectrum of things to do in bed that make me love it.

 

I'm not interested in anything but penile action and scrotum fondling

 

Well then you are seriously missing out! Even just a finger inside can be so stimulating...mmmm.

I don't do it all the time, or every time, and I always make sure he is up for it and comfortable with it (I don't want him just going in my ass whenever he feels like it!), but when I do, it's incredible for both of us.

 

The best is someone else's finger hitting your prostate and a blow job.

 

Diane, so does he ejaculate from anal only?
I am able to orgasm from anal/prostate only but I do not ejaculate. But if I get anal stimulation while being masturbated....then yes... I will cum hard/far and a lot.
Just curious on others experience with anal/prostate only orgasms.

 

Jim...I really want to try that. I need to tell her I need this!

For me so far the best is having a wife that can give me multiple prostate orgasms (full body writhing clenching the sheets...) then follow it up by deep passionate intercourse.

 

My gf does it and its mind blowing

 

I need sum help here..lately I've been seeing my bf lay on his side with his hands behind his back touching like his ass...he says its a
itch all the time. Could he have found his secret spot.?? If I question it he stops...he then gets nervous headache and sweating. Does he need to finish. I go to room and in less than 5 minutes he's snoring away...nothing can wake him up..please help ..