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#1 cherries52

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Posted June 09 2008 - 01:10 PM

Okay, so I've recently started rubbing my bf's perineum(taint) while giving him a handjob and he really likes it. He is completely uncomfortable with anything having to do with his ass, so this is as much as I can do to stimulate his prostate(no internal stimulation). Anyway, I was wondering what exactly does this do for a guy, other than intensify the orgasm? I've heard that if done along with a hj or bj it can make him come faster, but he's heard it actually delays orgasm and makes the guy last longer. So which is it- does it speed up the orgasm or make him take longer to come? I've also heard it can cause him to have a bigger load. True or not?

Also, can a guy come just from rubbing his perineum? My bf said he doesn't think he can, but he's never tried it by himself and we haven't had time to really see. I've read online of guys coming just from prostate stimulation, but does it have to be internal stimulation, or is it possible to orgasm just from external stimulation?

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Posted June 09 2008 - 01:11 PM

Try fisting him. He'll scream like a chimp.
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#3 sushiosoyum

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Posted June 09 2008 - 03:23 PM

Direct stimulation of the prostate = absolute pleasure. It is the man's G-spot. I venture to say no guy has had a real orgasm until his little button has been pressed ;)

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Posted June 09 2008 - 03:37 PM

I love that "button" yummy yummy

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Posted June 09 2008 - 03:43 PM

lol "button"

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Posted June 16 2008 - 09:36 AM

If you can get your finger inside and put it RIGHT on the prostate. Then move the finger back and forth.

The male g-spot is a lot like the womans. If he is on his back. Put the finger
in and apply pressure up. Then move the finger side to side.
Do this while giving a HJ or BJ and the orgasm will last much longer than a normal male orgasm.

If he has never done this... Or won't tell you the truth... He may not be turned on by it at first.
The postate needs to be stimulated for a little while before it becomes pleasing.
It can feel a little invasive and uncomfortable at first. A young straight male might have some homo phobic demons to deal with.
He may REALLY want you to do it but is scared what you might think of him.

When I was 20 years old a girlfriend did this to me. (g-spot rub during a HJ)
I was in a dazed fog for days.
I am telling you the orgasm is more intense and last longer than the regular male orgasm.
It was a real eye opener.
She would give me handjobs with lots of oil.
After a while the oil was always expected.
Then one time when she knew I was going to cum... soon... In went the finger.
Before I could think or protest I was having the greatest orgasm of my young life.( and yes a much bigger load)

Forgive me for being long winded, but you may have to take matters in your own hands.(no pun intended)

Turn it into play. No more BJ's till he lets you play with his prostate.
If you have anal sex with him... Tell him you want his... it's only fair.
Maybe you can tie him up?

If you have not engaged in anal sex yet... Offer yours... as trade for his.
Just tell him
"be careful and go slow cuz your so big he could hurt me".
Say something like that... In your best venerable little girl voice.(lol)

Well anyways....good luck and don't stop trying.
The orgasm is longer, more intense and a bigger load.
So it is worth the effort.

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Posted June 17 2008 - 10:21 AM

Okay, so I've recently started rubbing my bf's perineum(taint) while giving him a handjob and he really likes it. He is completely uncomfortable with anything having to do with his ass, so this is as much as I can do to stimulate his prostate(no internal stimulation). Anyway, I was wondering what exactly does this do for a guy, other than intensify the orgasm? I've heard that if done along with a hj or bj it can make him come faster, but he's heard it actually delays orgasm and makes the guy last longer. So which is it- does it speed up the orgasm or make him take longer to come? I've also heard it can cause him to have a bigger load. True or not?

Also, can a guy come just from rubbing his perineum? My bf said he doesn't think he can, but he's never tried it by himself and we haven't had time to really see. I've read online of guys coming just from prostate stimulation, but does it have to be internal stimulation, or is it possible to orgasm just from external stimulation?



People can have orgasms from almost any kind of stimulation so I guess it would be possible. The reason is is pleasurable is because the prostate is very close to that area and he will recieve pleasure from massage. think of it in terms of licking around your areola. granted it's not your nipple but it feels good just the same. The feeling of pleasure will be increased greatly if you can work him from the inside.

Traditionally he should orgasm faster because of the added stimulation. It's like saying you'll last longer if your nipples 'and' clit are stimulated instead of just your clit. The answer is probably not. You'll tend to cum quicker.

You can cum from just prostate stimulation but it's more quantity than quality. The process is called 'milking'. Look that up Google "milking prostate" It's not always a good thing to do and will sometimes result in inability to orgasm for a short period of time.

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Posted June 17 2008 - 01:40 PM

Cherries,
Responding to your post about prostate stimulation. Being a male I can tell you that is one of the best feelings a man can receive. External stimulation of the perineum/prostate is great for foreplay. Internal stimulation is better. What it does for me is that it gets me harder and I usually come more.
What I can tell you is that I am a big anal stimulation fan and I don't feel less man if I get anally stimulated. Usually being on 4 and having my wife's fingers, tongue or a toy really does a lot for me.

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Posted January 09 2011 - 12:20 AM

yeah, it's a great feeling - my wife uses two fingers on my prostate while wanking/sucking me. Don't think we've found my g-spot yet but she's working on it....................:sunny:

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Posted July 30 2011 - 03:43 AM

does anyone knows how to do a prostate massage?

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Posted July 30 2011 - 03:45 AM

does anyone knows how to do a prostate massage?


Yeeeeeeeeessssssss I Do......:drool5:



Cheers Glen.

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Posted July 30 2011 - 03:49 AM

teach me then ;)

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Posted July 30 2011 - 04:24 AM

Yeeeeeeeeessssssss I Do......:drool5:



Cheers Glen.

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Posted July 30 2011 - 04:48 AM

LMAO! I never knew there was such a thing!
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Posted August 01 2011 - 04:58 AM

I discovered pm in the last year. My wife started doding it to me but her fingers were not very long. Can be really good and if you are with a three then the best is to both ride someone and fuck someonelse at the same time - incredible sensation :)

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Posted August 02 2011 - 12:11 PM

my question is are you just fingering yourself or fingering and handjob together?

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Posted August 03 2011 - 10:52 AM

It's together. Although I think it's possible to cum just from prostate stimulation. But it's better together, it's like the male version of clitoral AND vaginal stimulation. The orgasm is much different and in fact I find my penis is limp during the orgasm even though it's much stronger, deeper, and looooonnngggeeerrr.

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Posted August 04 2011 - 12:59 PM

When I lost my Gay virginity & received Anal for the very first time, I was overwhelmed at how powerful the ensuing orgasm was from his penis pressing directly against my prostate - even moreso because, as with every time I am penetrated (as with men I penetrate) I can never maintain an erection, so the orgasm occurs through a totally flaccid penis.

Whenever I masturbate I frequently apply pressure to the area between the scrotum & the anus, as this is the region where the prostate is situated and, as a result, can greatly intensify the orgasm.

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Posted August 14 2011 - 07:46 AM

A slim "G-spot" style vibrator can really help. Insert it with the bend toward the base of your penis. You'll know when it finds the prostate. A gentle massage with the tip of the vibrator while you masturbate leads to mind-blowing orgasms.

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Posted August 17 2011 - 05:27 PM

does anyone knows how to do a prostate massage?


Google Aneros then buy one. Thank me later! I use the "Progasm". If you're new to anal start with the regular Aneros after getting used to your finger(s).

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Posted August 26 2011 - 09:05 PM

Don't know how, but I'd love to try... on my boyfriend. Most amazing orgasms I'v ever had were during anal sex - totally different kind of orgasm than in my pussy, & a thousand times more intense! So, I wonder what "untapped potential" exists for a man in that area. Would love it if he'd let me see just how intense his orgasm could get with a little 'extra' stimulation. Don't think ever go for it though.

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Posted September 10 2013 - 05:15 PM

I have always wanted to do this to a man, and finally found one who will not only let me, but he practically begs me for it. If done right, it's also very good for the prostate gland :) I make sure to do it to him as much as I can, because I love it too. He cums so hard and so much it's unreal!!

Some guys think prostate massage is "gay" or if you go near their ass in any way they fear you'll think they are gay. This is not true, of course, but I have yet to figure out a way to convince a man this is not true if he doesn't already know it.

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Posted September 11 2013 - 09:09 AM

I have always wanted to do this to a man, and finally found one who will not only let me, but he practically begs me for it. If done right, it's also very good for the prostate gland :) I make sure to do it to him as much as I can, because I love it too. He cums so hard and so much it's unreal!!

Some guys think prostate massage is "gay" or if you go near their ass in any way they fear you'll think they are gay. This is not true, of course, but I have yet to figure out a way to convince a man this is not true if he doesn't already know it.



Good first post. You are right a lot of men fear that admitting any interest in anal stimulation signifies that they are gay. I felt that way for years, but its not so. Many women enjoy anal stimulation too, does that make them gay?

I have no interest in sex with men but still have discovered that anal stimulation can be enjoyable, and adds to the areas of sexual stimulation that it is possible for most men and women to enjoy. It is especially fun doing it together. Just one more tool in the sexual toy box.

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Posted September 12 2013 - 03:25 PM

I've been reading on other forums about the use of wands or toys.

Anyone have any thoughts on the best ones, or the best method, when using a wand or toy while doing prostate massage/stimulation?

Your thoughts and ideas are greatly appreciated!

Thanks.

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Posted September 12 2013 - 03:27 PM

Good first post. You are right a lot of men fear that admitting any interest in anal stimulation signifies that they are gay. I felt that way for years, but its not so. Many women enjoy anal stimulation too, does that make them gay?

I have no interest in sex with men but still have discovered that anal stimulation can be enjoyable, and adds to the areas of sexual stimulation that it is possible for most men and women to enjoy. It is especially fun doing it together. Just one more tool in the sexual toy box.


Awesome! Thank you for sharing. The anus is a very sensitive area and one that I think goes overlooked when it comes to men. In my opinion, every man should at least give it a try. If it feels good, why not? :-)

Thanks for your reply :)

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Posted September 15 2013 - 02:27 PM

While stimulation of the prostate is enjoyable, for some men having anything in the anus kills an erection. I was surprised to experience that myself, but have found numerous other men who experience the same thing. It still feels good but for some of us it is hard, or should I say not hard, to enjoy both at once.

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Posted September 15 2013 - 03:16 PM

I've been reading on other forums about the use of wands or toys.

Anyone have any thoughts on the best ones, or the best method, when using a wand or toy while doing prostate massage/stimulation?

Your thoughts and ideas are greatly appreciated!

Thanks.


Something like this, where the head is angled so you can focus it toward the prostate and it has a built in vibrator close to the head. It has really good reviews, I'm ordering one. http://www.amazon.co...ef=pd_sim_hpc_2"]Sinclair Institute Select Verve Vibrating Prostate Massager

I bought one of these recently, and the bumps are nice, the texture is a little rough and it has a great vibrator, but the vibrator is located so far from the head not much of it carries through to the tip. Still it would be a lot of fun with a partner. http://www.amazon.co...f=cm_cr_pr_pb_t"]Amazon.com: Rocks Off Limited Cheeky Boy Black: Rocks Off: Health & Personal Care

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Posted September 16 2013 - 10:17 AM

While stimulation of the prostate is enjoyable, for some men having anything in the anus kills an erection. I was surprised to experience that myself, but have found numerous other men who experience the same thing. It still feels good but for some of us it is hard, or should I say not hard, to enjoy both at once.

When I lost my Gay virginity (receiving), this was something that took me really by surprise. As soon as I was penetrated my own raging erection vanished to totally flaccid, yet each thrust he made brought about the sensation of the "Point Of No Return" which is experienced just before you climax, but it just kept going, with the sensation steadily increasing (unlike with masturbation / sex where you rapidly build up to a sudden release) until I couldn't take any more & I climaxed, complete with ejaculation from a totally flaccid penis, with no contact having been made to it whatsoever. A really weird experience the first time round.

I'm not certain of the technicalities behind all this, but I suspect it's prostate stimulation itself that causes the loss of erection, which means, of course, that the penetration has to be made at just the right angle to hit the prostate. This would mean that when you see Gay porn videos with the recipient retaining his erection, despite his exaggerated reactions, his prostate is not being stimulated at all.

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Posted September 26 2013 - 03:08 PM

Something like this, where the head is angled so you can focus it toward the prostate and it has a built in vibrator close to the head. It has really good reviews, I'm ordering one. Sinclair Institute Select Verve Vibrating Prostate Massager

I bought one of these recently, and the bumps are nice, the texture is a little rough and it has a great vibrator, but the vibrator is located so far from the head not much of it carries through to the tip. Still it would be a lot of fun with a partner. Amazon.com: Rocks Off Limited Cheeky Boy Black: Rocks Off: Health & Personal Care



Just an update. I highly recommend the http://www.amazon.co...ef=pd_sim_hpc_2"]Sinclair Institute Select Verve Vibrating Prostate Massager. Only $17.

It has a great smooth texture, easy to clean, nice bumps, the vibrator is strong at the head and variable with dial at the opposite end, AA batteries are strong and last a long time, overall it is a great toy, probably better when used on you by a partner. The only criticisim I have is that the shape of the handle is so uniformally round, it is hard to know what direction the curve and head is facing when it is inserted.

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Posted September 27 2013 - 03:01 AM

I'd love a woman to fist me, any one local to stockport/