straight guy wants to suck

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by anonmaleuk, May 19, 2008.

  1. anonmaleuk

    anonmaleuk Member

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    Does anyone else have this feeling?
    I consider myself pretty straight and have never touched a guy. I love the female form , get very aroused by sexy women, and really dont seem to fancy men at all.
    BUT I fantasise a lot about taking a guy in my mouth. I don't really think of the whole male body, just more or less a disembodied cock which i suck. For this reason i find the gloryhole fantasy quite powerfully erotic.
    I love getting sucked, and reckon i could do a good job myself, but i absolutely wouldn't want any of the other contact that goes with gay sex.
    Is this a common feeling other straight men share? Have you acted on this feeling?
     
  2. scub

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    uhm. well i heard of similar stories.. but i will say anyone who thinks, wants to, or sucks a cock isn't str8.. and is at least bisexual..

    this has been debated many times and most people find it hard to consider someone who sucks a cock a str8 person.

    a lot of people want to consider themselves "straight" in fear others are going to classify them as gay, but it still doesn't them str8. they're just denying who they are.

    I fuck men, but i can't see myself getting fucked by them, and i still classify myself as bisexual, not str8. it's probably because i'm comfortable with and there is no denying i like men ass.. just like i do women.

    I whacked off some guys when i was younger and back then i always classified myself as str8, but once i got a little older, i still had the same feeling, so i accepted that i probably wasn't completely str8...
     
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  4. Joey*

    Joey* Freaky Supportr Dude

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    I agree with scub,
    I had a similiar problem for along time.I wanted to consider myself straight (even after several encounters with men).Considering myself anything but straight totally blew my mind.How could I not be straight?.Was a question that always came up when I thought about it.Growing up the way I did it was quite a bad trip learning to accept I was Bi/gay,and stop denying it.It's not surprising the large amount of fear it brought to me.Being scared of others not accepting me(I'm still not totally out yet either).So think about it objectively,be honest with yourself and try not to be afraid.It's ok not to be straight.

     
  5. dymatize

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    Its called orally/manually bi.
     
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  6. justmeman

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    I know how you fell I'M GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING I fantesise about acock in my mouth and in my but when i masterbate (it helps me cum) and i realy want to try it UOTE=anonmaleuk]Does anyone else have this feeling?
    I consider myself pretty straight and have never touched a guy. I love the female form , get very aroused by sexy women, and really dont seem to fancy men at all.
    BUT I fantasise a lot about taking a guy in my mouth. I don't really think of the whole male body, just more or less a disembodied cock which i suck. For this reason i find the gloryhole fantasy quite powerfully erotic.
    I love getting sucked, and reckon i could do a good job myself, but i absolutely wouldn't want any of the other contact that goes with gay sex.
    Is this a common feeling other straight men share? Have you acted on this feeling?[/QUOTE]
     
  7. topper

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    I felt the same way and had that curiosity. If the perfect situation didn't pop up, I would have never tried it. I'm too paranoid about disease and would never do anything with a stranger in a glory hole or whatever.
    For a couple of months, I was doing things with a very, very close friend who was (is) gay.
    He is making his move to get into a relationship with another gay person, so I ended ours. It wasn't a problem at all. We both established this point when we first experimented.
    I will admit that it was pretty cool to be able to explore my fantasies, especially with my wifes permission. Living out the fantasy of sucking his cock was fun while it lasted. Unless I met another married guy who shared the same feelings, I wouldn't even make an attempt to continue my exploration. Basicly, I satisfied my curiosity and that is that.
    Fact is, I have always been straight and I don't have any types of desires for men. My situation was unique and I took advantage of it.
    If I never did it again, I could still live off of my experiences. My curiosity is satisfied. Too bad, my wife doesn't feel the same way about letting me do things with other women. I have more opportunities than you could imagine and have turned down many offers with women, who didn't care if I was married or not.
    At this point in my life, it's........Been there, done that.
    If you have the opportunity to explore your fantasies, safely, go for it. I have no regrets. Now I know.
    Other than that, you guys and I could still fantasize over gay porn and whack it. Nothing wrong with that.
     
  8. BlowJoe44

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    I too think about sucking cock, licking balls licking another guys cum from a pussy, oh ya
    I could never kiss a guy. But the feel of acock and balls is a big turn on.
     
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  9. Joey*

    Joey* Freaky Supportr Dude

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    It blows my mind hearing so many guys who think about cum,cock,and balls etc.,and be so turned off to a relationship with a guy or even kissing a guy,lol.
    I find it funny,ironic and absurd.
    There's usually a person attached to those cock and balls.Just in case you people forgot.
    I'm sorry but I find it really rude.I'll just leave it at that.
     
  10. *__flower__*

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    You said you like to be sucked, so I think yours is just a reflection of what gives you pleasure. You are probably just curious.
    You gotta think how you feel. You consider yourself straight, and that's what matters.
    Think about this: is it just imagination, or if you were with a guy would you REALLY suck him?
    I know a lot of girl who like to think about women but they would never even kiss one.
    This makes me think you are just curious. Maybe you have to try, or to see if you would do that.
    By the way, don't worry. "Gay" "lesbian" and "bisexual" are just labels. This doesn't compromise who you are. You have to do what makes you feel good.
     
  11. anonmaleuk

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    yes, i'm sure there is an element of bi to me. i don t deny that. i just mean that i fancy women as a whole, physically and emotionally, and yet this cock sucking idea is totally cock-focused.
    but these are interesting responses. thanks!
     
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    I'm the same. I've always wanted to suck a nice cut cock. LOVE women but for some reason cut cock also makes me hard. Rear end shots too.

    I say it's pretty normal, don't worry about it!
     
  13. peterODB

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    I have sucked on cock, liked licking on some balls, enjoy eating pussy filled vaginas or just pussy, fucking pussy, and have my ass filled up. I'm not into kissing another man, the closest i get is an embrace(hug afterwards).
     
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  14. topper

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    I think it's pretty normal. I feel the same way. I have been sucked and have returned the favor, several times, but I have no desires to kiss, hug or do anything but cock stuff.
     
  15. Dominico

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    do u guys hear urselfs wat!! u guyts make no sense thats not normal for a guy wanting to do that i think the the other guy said ur scared to come out that u may like guys becuz i dont like gurls but i luv kissing but never have sex wit them u guys sound a little bakwards!
     
  16. topper

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    There are guys who like guys and guys who don't. I have no desire to get all kissyface with some guy, but I have had mutual masturbation and bjs from another guy. He is a cool dude and good old friend. I won't kiss him or cuddle, but I will suck his cock and he sucks mine.
    I'm not a cheater, nor do I need to deal with another woman. My wife approves(she is bi too). It's nothing but a silly blowjob and nothing to get concerned about.
    If the right situation came about for other guys, I'm sure they might satisfy their curiosity to suck a cock or get sucked,but I bet they still wouldn't want to kiss or hug the guy.
    In fact, in about a half hour he is comming by to help me with my pool heater. We will fix the heater, have a few beers, give each other bjs and maybe have another beer. No kissing or hugging involved. Can't you see the simplicity of it. It's a great alternative. I only wished my wife would give me a bj anytime. I would gladly eat her pussy anytime. With another like minded guy, we just enjoy it for what it is, mutal easy pleasure.
     
  17. Dominico

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    i'm sorry but that sounds so backwards i let me str8 firends read this and they said this even sound backwards sorry if i'm not getting it, this is ludacris lol
     
  18. sushiosoyum

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    OP:

    Before I realized I was bisexual I had the same minimal interest in men outside of the disembodiment of the penis from who it was attached to. Back then, I considered myself heterosexual because I only occasionally fantasized about sucking a nice cock. Before I knew it I was slowly taking a much closer look at men in my heterosexual porn. I found I loved certain cocks (and balls) more than others. Soon I loved the male form, his entire form, just as I do with women. After a few experiences with men I realized the obvious: I was bi!:cheers2:
     
  19. Shale

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    I find quite interesting the comments by:

    Topper, "There are guys who like guys and guys who don't. I have no desire to get all kissyface with some guy, but I have had mutual masturbation and bjs from another guy. He is a cool dude and good old friend. I won't kiss him or cuddle, but I will suck his cock and he sucks mine."

    PeterODB, "I have sucked on cock, liked licking on some balls, ... I'm not into kissing another man, the closest i get is an embrace (hug afterwards)."

    and BlowJoe44 "I could never kiss a guy. But the feel of acock and balls is a big turn on."

    I can understand a guy being this way, sorta like the prostitute that will get down and personal with every part of your body but will not kiss you. Don't know exactly what that is about tho. Does it somehow separate physical pleasure from the intimacy?

    I have had sex with guys and even prostitutes where kissing them was not even considered. However, I recently reunited with an old buddy and of the things I found most enjoyable in our afternoon together was lying next to him and kissing him.

    "...he fell asleep at one point and it was really a pleasure just to lay there, entwined with his young bod (while he snored away).

    BTW, he kisses great. A lot of guys aren't into kissing, but he just readily goes for it with passion. What can I say, it's in his kiss. Deep, entwining tongues, but not overly aggressive, just soft, casual familiarity; sensually exploring terrain that we've explored before."

    http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=300947
     
  20. mrb79

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    I can relate so well, and am happy to see others can too. I am happily married and straight (I can't describe how much I love women), but I might be considered bi just for this: I like penis. I am not attracted to men - body or face - whatsoever, have no desire to kiss or touch a man, but penis turns me on. I like to see them in porns, etc and want to play and suck. And I never thought anyone else would have felt that way, but apparently I'm not alone :)
     

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