I second the slurping technique. It's one of the differences between a pro blowjob and an amateur one. Even though I'm more of a giver than a taker in bed, and therefore blowjobs quickly bore me. There's one more technique though, that I think distinguishes a pro bj from an amateur one. Inexperienced blowers usually just go up and down mechanically, whereas experienced cocksuckers make a wave-like motion with their heads which varies the lip pressure and direction of the cock in the mouth. The exact same motion applies to a pro level handjob, which can happen at the same time as a bj. The third technique of course is deepthroat. But, that's sheer practice and perspiration for most girls. ----- Edit: Then there's the obvious one, inexperienced cocksuckers forget the balls. There's also the cute thing very experienced cocksuckers do which is popping the cock out of the inside of their cheek. This chick did that to me last week, and I thought it was a little show offy. Either way, you can forget a girl who's had less than 100 cocks in her mouth doing that, even though it's very simple. ----- Edit2: Inexperienced girls also forget to play with the tongue around the whole cock, balls, and....*drumroll* ass.
I'm confused on the slurping part, can you explain more or something I can practice before I do the real deal on my new guy? Does this work on making him cum hard too? I heard guys like to cum hard... (whatever that means) Always looking for tips, so thanks for the post
Nice thread! It's nice when people care enough to share knowledge! I do the slurping, but what my man prefers above all things is when I'm simultaneously sucking and licking his frenulum and using my hand at the base. He also loves when I take his frenulum with lips and tongue and massage it. He goes mad with pleasure. He likes it to last, so, I edge and edge. He's disappointed if I make him cum too fast. Sometimes I go for long balls sucking to give him time to get off the edge, so that I can start over.
Thank you for the tip!! I actually joined this forum just so I could thank you to take the time to post this! No wonder porn stars are so slurpy now..I get it now! I realize that I actually did this myself, but I did it as more of a suction/deep slurp when the dick hits the back of my throat...but I thought it gave more enjoyment from the suction vs the vibrations....but that totally makes sense! So I tried it last night on my hubby and this morning on my bf...I think they both enjoyed it more than usual (but it didn't make them cum), so thanks for adding a new technique to my bj repertoire!
Sounds like an interesting love life. Does your b/f swing by soon as hubby goes to work, and/or do you have an open marriage? Not judging, it's just the matter of factness of your statement that's piqued my curiosity.
Yes, my love life is amazing..I can't complain! I have a hubby that loves to lick and fuck (but doesn't really appreciate bjs), and a bf that loves and loves and loves bjs (mine in particular), and a wifey that takes care of my hubby. We are poly.
I have my tounge periced and I can work magic around the rim of his shaft and he cums instantly...i can prolong it with my finger tips to hold him back until I AM ready for him to cum...he loves this.
Don't fucking do this it makes me pee on command be careful i say that too "stop or ill cum" im actually about to pee!
For the record. There are no such things as "Bisexual". There are either straight people or perverts. Which one are you??
each time i give head to my bf.. i aim to make him cum.. but he tells me he never came while gettin head.. ofcourse i tired new things but nothing. So if this technique dnt work is there anything else i can try?
I actually joined to be able to post my thanks! I came across this while googling...how to give good head...it was the only actual specific tip...the rest were generic "stroke ...squeeze etc" Tried it a coupla nights ago....and it went just like u said...within half a min (!) He asked me to stop or he would come! I'm now hooked and waiting for more tips from john....surely there are more things I can do in the bj dept....?
First time poster, I have been lurking for awhile I just wanted to say thanks! The hubby and I are trying to spice things up after 12 years of marriage. I am happy to learn something new!
I have tried a few new ways over the past few years to spice up or sex life to. Oral sex with her was not acceptable thou - she lives in a time warp when it comes to that type of sexual act. So I just try & find other new ways to get her aroused instead. Some ideas work, others are soon disapproved of totally or at least altered to be approved of by her.
Gonna try this tonight! Have a hubby with DE issues. I LOVE to give him long, extended BJ's, just can't seem to get him to the cum stage. He says he's "right there" but we just can't seem to make it happen. Trying is such fun tho...