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Girls: Does a large penis "hit the spot" easier?


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#1 Pippo33

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Posted April 08 2008 - 02:57 PM

[font="]So I have a pretty average penis (6 inches) and I can get my girlfriend off pretty damn easy (multiple orgasms are a regular occurrence...sorry, just had to brag there). BUT, she likes some positions more than others. When I asked her why, she said, "Because they just hit the right spot". This got me thinking...

Would having a larger penis mean that you'd "hit the right spot" easily and more often?

If not, why do you think it is that some girls (yourself included) get turned on by a larger penis? Is it specifically a question of feeling, or is it more psychological eg. Getting turned on by a large penis because it's reflective of his masculinity?[/font]

#2 sarahrei

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Posted April 08 2008 - 03:31 PM

I've found that yes, a bigger penis does his the spot more often then not. I'm engaged to a guy with a huge dick.

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Posted April 08 2008 - 04:50 PM

My man is just over 8" hard, and I've never been able to come vaginally. So to those of you who can, kudos, but imo having a huge dick doesn't automatically set you up for g-spot orgasms; it must be how you use it!

#4 Pippo33

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Posted April 08 2008 - 05:02 PM

Interesting, i posted this question originally cause what i've read suggests that girls don't get much stimulation past about 3 inches deep into their vagina (thats where the g-spot on average stops), yet there are girls out there who really get off on a huge willy. So it makes me think that it's a psychological thing.

#5 Pippo33

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Posted April 08 2008 - 05:05 PM

Keep posting everyone!! This is really interesting stuff!!! Even guys who have stories to tell of their experiences of either having a small, average or large penis....lets learn something here!!

#6 sarahrei

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Posted April 08 2008 - 07:06 PM

Every girl is different, some women love having their cervix hit, which is farther then 3 inches deep let me tell you. It's not a psychological thing for me. I've been with guys that have small dicks, and get no feeling, average dicks, little feeling, big dicks, and well, I'm marrying him

#7 Pippo33

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Posted April 08 2008 - 11:12 PM

So it's the cervix hey? That makes sense...

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Posted April 09 2008 - 07:18 AM

Well all 3 of my dildos are over 9 inches so that must say something!!!!

But my boyfriend has a very small dick ????!!

I do sometimes wish it was longer as I never feel it deep inside me like I do the dildos..

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Posted April 09 2008 - 11:55 AM

If you are talking about hitting the G Spot, it is about 2 inches in on the topside of the vagina, way up under the pubic bone. The only kind of penis that can hit it directly when erect is a short, sharply curved upwards one, when in the missionary position, having a pillow under her butt and your upper body vertical and lower body horizontal. This will allow the head to stimulate the G Spot directly. A guy who has an erect penis which goes downward can also reach it frm the doggie style position.

This is a situation where bigger is not better.

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Posted April 09 2008 - 12:34 PM

I'm not so sure I agree Cutted (which is saying something!) My boyfriends dick is thick, and long, and he hits my g-spot just fine, I'm a squirter, and he's got me there a few times with just standard missionary, it's very dependent on the person.

#11 Pippo33

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Posted April 09 2008 - 08:21 PM

Well all 3 of my dildos are over 9 inches so that must say something!!!!

But my boyfriend has a very small dick ????!!

I do sometimes wish it was longer as I never feel it deep inside me like I do the dildos..

Is sex still enjoyable with your boyfriend Bexx??

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Posted April 09 2008 - 10:47 PM

[font="]So I have a pretty average penis (6 inches) and I can get my girlfriend off pretty damn easy (multiple orgasms are a regular occurrence...sorry, just had to brag there). BUT, she likes some positions more than others. When I asked her why, she said, "Because they just hit the right spot". This got me thinking...

Would having a larger penis mean that you'd "hit the right spot" easily and more often?

If not, why do you think it is that some girls (yourself included) get turned on by a larger penis? Is it specifically a question of feeling, or is it more psychological eg. Getting turned on by a large penis because it's reflective of his masculinity?[/font]


Honey, no it isn't true in my case, it is seriously technique, you sound like you know what you are doing by what your GF has said to you about hitting the spot..

#13 Pippo33

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Posted April 09 2008 - 10:56 PM

Honey, no it isn't true in my case, it is seriously technique, you sound like you know what you are doing by what your GF has said to you about hitting the spot..

You know, it's crazy really. I'm pretty sure i speak for most guys when i say whatever size you have, it isn't big enough. That is, even though i know i can do a good job with the equipment i've got, a part of me just wants more inches.

I read up on some research that found guys who perceive themselves as having a larger than average penis, basically had a higher quality of life. Therefore, size pervades into every facit of a guys life...girls know this, that's why they invented the phrase "it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it"....

I'm venting, i know...*sigh*

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Posted April 09 2008 - 11:05 PM

Every girl is different, some women love having their cervix hit, which is farther then 3 inches deep let me tell you. It's not a psychological thing for me. I've been with guys that have small dicks, and get no feeling, average dicks, little feeling, big dicks, and well, I'm marrying him

marrying for penis size...Im sure it will last

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Posted April 09 2008 - 11:09 PM

The cervix is that nice little squish where it gets tight again after you get really deep... hitting it after doing some of the other more obvious stuff can really take things up a notch.

#16 Pippo33

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Posted April 09 2008 - 11:12 PM

Yeah, i sometimes feel it hitting the cervix. Feels good for everyone involved...

#17 sarahrei

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Posted April 10 2008 - 06:07 AM

marrying for penis size...Im sure it will last



Wow that was a needed bitch comment....jealous much? :mad: :mad: ever heard the saying, if you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all....yeah put that to use....


I never said that I was only marrying him for the size of his dick, though it helps.


Holy shit, people these days.

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Posted April 10 2008 - 06:58 AM

Is sex still enjoyable with your boyfriend Bexx??

It is to a certain extent because I love him, I know it wont ever be mind-blowing. We are talking very small here, never measured it but it fits in my hand easilyPosted Image

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Posted April 10 2008 - 07:02 AM

It is to a certain extent because I love him, I know it wont ever be mind-blowing. We are talking very small here, never measured it but it fits in my hand easilyPosted Image

So love conquers all sizes....that seems to be a running theme. I wonder if there are many girls who say they couldn't love a man with a small penis....? Here's my opportunity to find out....?? Well...could you love a man with a small penis girls??

#20 sarahrei

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Posted April 10 2008 - 07:03 AM

I've loved a guy with a small dick. As long as he's good at forplay we are just fine.

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Posted April 10 2008 - 07:06 AM

I've loved a guy with a small dick. As long as he's good at forplay we are just fine.

So you've loved a guy with a small penis, and now you love a man with a large penis. So penis size doesn't have all that much bearing on whether you can find love then....that's comforting.

#22 bexxx

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Posted April 10 2008 - 07:10 AM

Course it doesn't - I'm sure there are girls who would look at my bf's dick and think no way, or just laugh but get to know him and they'll be begging to suck it!!

#23 Pippo33

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Posted April 10 2008 - 07:18 AM

Course it doesn't - I'm sure there are girls who would look at my bf's dick and think no way, or just laugh but get to know him and they'll be begging to suck it!!

A girl laughing at the size of your penis is probably worst possible thing i could ever think could happen to a guy. Conversely, a chick saying "wow" when she saw your dick would be the best thing that could ever happen to a guy. There are two documentaries floating around on the net. One is about men with large penises and one about a man with a very small penis. The one about the man with the very small penis is heart wrenching. He tells stories of being teased by friends in school and having girls laugh at his penis when he brought them home from the pub. There is one amazing scene where he interviews his girlfriend and asks her "do you wish i had a larger penis?" and she says "Yes" and then pauses after he looks uncomfortable and says "only because it would mean you'd stop obsessing over it".....fair call girlfriend lady, fair call.

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Posted April 10 2008 - 10:03 AM

Sarahrei - It does not matter how thick or long it is - to reach the G Spot it must be strongly curved upward (missionary) or downward (doggie) when erect. That is why the best way to reach the G Spot is with your guy's index and middle fingers, which can curve upwards as much as needed.

It may be that some women's pelvic bones are not as curved inward on the underside as others, and the G Spot is more easily reached, but I have not found that woman yet, after 20+ adventures in this area.

I'm not so sure I agree Cutted (which is saying something!) My boyfriends dick is thick, and long, and he hits my g-spot just fine, I'm a squirter, and he's got me there a few times with just standard missionary, it's very dependent on the person.



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Posted April 10 2008 - 02:17 PM

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Wow that was a needed bitch comment....jealous much? :mad: :mad: ever heard the saying, if you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all....yeah put that to use....


I never said that I was only marrying him for the size of his dick, though it helps.


Holy shit, people these days.

It was only a joke, but the way you responded makes me think it struck a nerve?? Now give me a rant about that one...

Go back and read your comment, you implied you were marrying him for his genitalia...

...people these days.

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Posted April 11 2008 - 06:30 AM

It may have been a joke, but it was easy to misinterpret. I actually thought you were serious at first.

#27 sarahrei

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Posted April 11 2008 - 08:11 AM

As did I. Normally if your joking in text you put something like lol or a emoticon to let people know that your kidding.

You didn't and came across as a bitch. But whatever, if it was a joke thats fine.

#28 MotherLoveBone

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Posted April 11 2008 - 01:12 PM

its called sarcasm...i find that the "lols" actually make sarcastic jokes far less funny

#29 sarahrei

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Posted April 11 2008 - 03:42 PM

Sarcasm is hard to pull off online. My ex was sarcastic online, and everyone always thought that he was mad

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Posted April 11 2008 - 03:58 PM

Really it depends on the motion. Ive only had one guy, but ive used many different sized toys and even a very large one doesnt feel very good if the motion is awkward.

This may sound cliche, but size doesnt matter to me.