does anal sex hurt for you? what does it feel like?

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  1. Pussy Boi

    Pussy Boi Member

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    :nopity: when i lost my virginity at 17, getting fucked was a piece of cake for me. at age 18, i started to express my sexuality more freely and jumped on every boy i could. now i am in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend.

    :& now for some strange reason, i can't take dick any more. i have no STD and i am completely find. i am so use to being a bottom and i am not that experienced when it comes to topping. however, i have a butt fetish and really want to top right now. i know i am versatile / versatile bottom. it just really hurts when i am getting fucked and just want to know why?

    :leaving: does it hurt when you are getting fucked? how does it feel? how can you get pleasure from that? i cum from the back !!! do any one else do this?? holla
     
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  2. MollyBoston

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    Hope you don't mind if a girl drops by! It does seem weird that you used to be fine on the bottom but now suddenly it hurts. I suppose you've already considered things like
    - Are you with a new guy who's just bigger, and
    - Are you not using as much lube/foreplay as you used to?

    Is it possible it's in your head? Like, if you're more into topping these days, maybe you're not relaxing as well when you bottom, so it's harder to take it?

    For me sometimes it hurts, and there are definitely some days it hurts worse than others - I think if I'm not in the right mood for it. (Or, again, if we haven't really prepped adequately for getting a dick in there lol)

    Hope you get more responses from guys - I know that'd be more helpful for you.
     
  3. Pussy Boi

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    thank you for answering my question. as you was the only one who was willing to answer, i appreciate that and say fuck off to everyone else!! that is true though.

    my boyfriend now is a bisexual top - so he only penetrates. i really want to penetrate him as i am not that experienced in that area but he won't let me. i always feel as though i am not manly enough to penetrate a guy. i am not feminine but i am not masculine either. i feel like a big loser.

    :) thanks for your in-put though
     
  4. Tyger Lily

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    *enjoys anal play*

    I take it slow and easy at first, with tons of lube... but eventually, I want to be pounded. :p
     
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  5. Indecision

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    Anal sex is as much mental as it is physical.

    The most important thing that needs to be done is for you to relax. You have to relax the muscles in the anus for you to enjoy sex. I am mostly a bottom and normally never have a problem taking a guy in (yum). That being said had many b/f’s (Long term relationships) where we never ran into this kind of problem. Now after my LTR’s ended I had a few one nights with some guys and guess what? It hurt. Even though I have been having sex for years I just didn’t feel comfortable with these new guys and I could fully relax.
    Of course the more obvious answers are foreplay. Have your partner get you all worked up with some sucking/playing before you guys attempt anal. The easiest way to begin is for your partner to lay down and you sit down on him. In this position you can determine how fast/slow/deep you want to go and it really helps relax you. I normally always start off this way then we change positions shortly after.

    Goodluck
     
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  6. bjking77

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    anal sex for me is heaven, and oral!!! i like using lots of lube to take it slow, but as soon as we are led down i like getting pounded until he cums.....
     
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  7. jkrish41

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    I like to get pounded as hard as possible, and he has a big cock so when he does it may hurt a little but it does feel goood
     
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  8. ESRUOS ENO

    ESRUOS ENO Senior Member

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    I like her...smile...
     
  9. whereami

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    I'm a total bottom. But it seems I have more fun when I play on my own with toys. It feels like fucking heaven when I'm ass up,face down & sliding my dildo in & out of me,usually with a mirror to watch myself do it. I also have a butt plug that is REALLY thick at the base that,with practice I can work inside of me & ride really hard.


    However,I have rarely had a "good" experience of getting fucked by a real cock. It's either uncomfortable,hurts a litte bit or I'm just in a hurry to get it overwith. Not that I do a lot of fucking,usually I just give head. But if I feel up to it I'll put out. I think there's only been one time where I really enjoyed being fucked by a cock & he fucking huge. I've smaller cocks & it wasn't that great,even hurt a little bit. The guy I pay with now,I haven't fucked yet but I hope to soon.
     
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  10. MollyBoston

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    Have you had a lot of sex, whereami? I think that's pretty normal - I mean, if you're in charge of whatever's up your ass you can make sure it's always the right speed etc., whereas if someone else is in charge they end up like pounding away at all the wrong times lol...that one guy who felt good, it probably had more to do with him being good at reading what you wanted than the size of his cock.

    Did you mean "play" instead of "pay"? lol

    Oh, and One Source - thank you *blush*
     
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  11. whereami

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    Ooops,yes sorry. I meant play! :p Usually I'm good about grammar!

    If you're asking about anal sex,then I wouldn't say I've had a LOT of it. More with just fucking myself of course. I would say in all,maybe a total of.....hmm 8-10 guys? Even that sounds like a lot but it's probably about right. But I've definitely sucked more cocks than I've had in my ass.

    I've never been a fan of getting pounded so when I do get fucked,I pretty much always ride him. I really don't know what it is. The one guy that I did find enjoyable,I met in a hotel room,it was completely anonymous. I was super fucking horny,anxious,thrilled & nervous all at the same time about meeting him & he was fucking huge. He fucked me in front of a full length mirror. That was about 5 years ago & I've never had it like that since. I've even had much smaller cocks than his & it actually hurt a little bit,just wasn't enjoyable at all.
     
  12. InterestedParty

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    I've gotta say I feel like a rauchy slut sometimes, but I LOVE it when a guy with a big cock uses me like a punching bag. Just the the feel of my ass getting stretched and the deep sensation of warm cum flooding my ass makes me scream with pleasure. Bring it on, baby!!
     
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  13. Lucryster

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    Doesn't hurt me at all. I absolutely love it. Bext part of sex to me feeling his dick deep inside of me.
     
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  14. mrpwonder

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    I'm a top 99% of the time. I like to pound a nice ass, but also enjoy it when he rides me. When I have bottom both with a guy and a women with a strap-on I'm usually on my back with my legs behind my head...:)
     
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  15. bjking77

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    Im new in anal and im gunna be doing it soon with this guy so can anyone tell me to go about it? Like how to relax, if it hurts, how to enjoy and how to do it with another guy
    I would be most greatful =]
     
  16. profezzor_x

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    Wow, that just got my dick rock hard... And I haven't even topped anyone yet.
     
  17. ddhorny1

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    How many times were you fucked before you started getting real pleasure out of it?
     
  18. BobbyGayBoi

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    The very first time.

    Hugz
    Bobby
     
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  19. BobbyGayBoi

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    Bottom boi. Doesn't hurt -- pure pleasure, awesome. Cum about half the time just from the prostate stimulation. Been taking cock since I was 12 and would miss it if I didn't get my twice daily meat.

    Hugz
    Bobby
     
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  20. Colimon

    Colimon Cheesus Christo

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    :pNo, I've had no real pain during anal sex because of the condom and lube. It makes me sooo much more horny! If I've had enough sexual stimulation before the anal sex, I cum from it! It's a wonderful thing if it's done right
     

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