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#1 Pussy Boi

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Posted February 10 2008 - 12:41 PM

:nopity: when i lost my virginity at 17, getting fucked was a piece of cake for me. at age 18, i started to express my sexuality more freely and jumped on every boy i could. now i am in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend.

:& now for some strange reason, i can't take dick any more. i have no STD and i am completely find. i am so use to being a bottom and i am not that experienced when it comes to topping. however, i have a butt fetish and really want to top right now. i know i am versatile / versatile bottom. it just really hurts when i am getting fucked and just want to know why?

:leaving: does it hurt when you are getting fucked? how does it feel? how can you get pleasure from that? i cum from the back !!! do any one else do this?? holla

#2 MollyBoston

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Posted February 10 2008 - 12:47 PM

Hope you don't mind if a girl drops by! It does seem weird that you used to be fine on the bottom but now suddenly it hurts. I suppose you've already considered things like
- Are you with a new guy who's just bigger, and
- Are you not using as much lube/foreplay as you used to?

Is it possible it's in your head? Like, if you're more into topping these days, maybe you're not relaxing as well when you bottom, so it's harder to take it?

For me sometimes it hurts, and there are definitely some days it hurts worse than others - I think if I'm not in the right mood for it. (Or, again, if we haven't really prepped adequately for getting a dick in there lol)

Hope you get more responses from guys - I know that'd be more helpful for you.

#3 Pussy Boi

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Posted February 10 2008 - 01:24 PM

thank you for answering my question. as you was the only one who was willing to answer, i appreciate that and say fuck off to everyone else!! that is true though.

my boyfriend now is a bisexual top - so he only penetrates. i really want to penetrate him as i am not that experienced in that area but he won't let me. i always feel as though i am not manly enough to penetrate a guy. i am not feminine but i am not masculine either. i feel like a big loser.

:) thanks for your in-put though

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Posted February 11 2008 - 12:37 PM

*enjoys anal play*

I take it slow and easy at first, with tons of lube... but eventually, I want to be pounded. :P
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#5 Indecision

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Posted February 13 2008 - 10:04 AM

Anal sex is as much mental as it is physical.

The most important thing that needs to be done is for you to relax. You have to relax the muscles in the anus for you to enjoy sex. I am mostly a bottom and normally never have a problem taking a guy in (yum). That being said had many b/f’s (Long term relationships) where we never ran into this kind of problem. Now after my LTR’s ended I had a few one nights with some guys and guess what? It hurt. Even though I have been having sex for years I just didn’t feel comfortable with these new guys and I could fully relax.
Of course the more obvious answers are foreplay. Have your partner get you all worked up with some sucking/playing before you guys attempt anal. The easiest way to begin is for your partner to lay down and you sit down on him. In this position you can determine how fast/slow/deep you want to go and it really helps relax you. I normally always start off this way then we change positions shortly after.

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#6 bjking77

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Posted February 20 2008 - 09:08 AM

anal sex for me is heaven, and oral!!! i like using lots of lube to take it slow, but as soon as we are led down i like getting pounded until he cums.....

#7 jkrish41

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Posted February 24 2008 - 06:28 AM

I like to get pounded as hard as possible, and he has a big cock so when he does it may hurt a little but it does feel goood

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Posted February 24 2008 - 07:39 AM

Hope you don't mind if a girl drops by! It does seem weird that you used to be fine on the bottom but now suddenly it hurts. I suppose you've already considered things like
- Are you with a new guy who's just bigger, and
- Are you not using as much lube/foreplay as you used to?

Is it possible it's in your head? Like, if you're more into topping these days, maybe you're not relaxing as well when you bottom, so it's harder to take it?

For me sometimes it hurts, and there are definitely some days it hurts worse than others - I think if I'm not in the right mood for it. (Or, again, if we haven't really prepped adequately for getting a dick in there lol)

Hope you get more responses from guys - I know that'd be more helpful for you.

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#9 whereami

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Posted February 26 2008 - 11:28 AM

I'm a total bottom. But it seems I have more fun when I play on my own with toys. It feels like fucking heaven when I'm ass up,face down & sliding my dildo in & out of me,usually with a mirror to watch myself do it. I also have a butt plug that is REALLY thick at the base that,with practice I can work inside of me & ride really hard.


However,I have rarely had a "good" experience of getting fucked by a real cock. It's either uncomfortable,hurts a litte bit or I'm just in a hurry to get it overwith. Not that I do a lot of fucking,usually I just give head. But if I feel up to it I'll put out. I think there's only been one time where I really enjoyed being fucked by a cock & he fucking huge. I've smaller cocks & it wasn't that great,even hurt a little bit. The guy I pay with now,I haven't fucked yet but I hope to soon.
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Posted February 26 2008 - 12:01 PM

Have you had a lot of sex, whereami? I think that's pretty normal - I mean, if you're in charge of whatever's up your ass you can make sure it's always the right speed etc., whereas if someone else is in charge they end up like pounding away at all the wrong times lol...that one guy who felt good, it probably had more to do with him being good at reading what you wanted than the size of his cock.

Did you mean "play" instead of "pay"? lol

Oh, and One Source - thank you *blush*

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Posted February 26 2008 - 03:50 PM

Have you had a lot of sex, whereami? I think that's pretty normal - I mean, if you're in charge of whatever's up your ass you can make sure it's always the right speed etc., whereas if someone else is in charge they end up like pounding away at all the wrong times lol...that one guy who felt good, it probably had more to do with him being good at reading what you wanted than the size of his cock.

Did you mean "play" instead of "pay"? lol

Oh, and One Source - thank you *blush*


Ooops,yes sorry. I meant play! :P Usually I'm good about grammar!

If you're asking about anal sex,then I wouldn't say I've had a LOT of it. More with just fucking myself of course. I would say in all,maybe a total of.....hmm 8-10 guys? Even that sounds like a lot but it's probably about right. But I've definitely sucked more cocks than I've had in my ass.

I've never been a fan of getting pounded so when I do get fucked,I pretty much always ride him. I really don't know what it is. The one guy that I did find enjoyable,I met in a hotel room,it was completely anonymous. I was super fucking horny,anxious,thrilled & nervous all at the same time about meeting him & he was fucking huge. He fucked me in front of a full length mirror. That was about 5 years ago & I've never had it like that since. I've even had much smaller cocks than his & it actually hurt a little bit,just wasn't enjoyable at all.
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Posted March 27 2008 - 08:38 PM

I've gotta say I feel like a rauchy slut sometimes, but I LOVE it when a guy with a big cock uses me like a punching bag. Just the the feel of my ass getting stretched and the deep sensation of warm cum flooding my ass makes me scream with pleasure. Bring it on, baby!!

#13 Lucryster

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Posted March 29 2008 - 02:02 AM

Doesn't hurt me at all. I absolutely love it. Bext part of sex to me feeling his dick deep inside of me.

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Posted May 20 2008 - 12:36 PM

I'm a top 99% of the time. I like to pound a nice ass, but also enjoy it when he rides me. When I have bottom both with a guy and a women with a strap-on I'm usually on my back with my legs behind my head...:)

#15 bjking77

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Posted July 22 2008 - 12:58 PM

Im new in anal and im gunna be doing it soon with this guy so can anyone tell me to go about it? Like how to relax, if it hurts, how to enjoy and how to do it with another guy
I would be most greatful =]

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Posted July 22 2008 - 02:09 PM

I've gotta say I feel like a rauchy slut sometimes, but I LOVE it when a guy with a big cock uses me like a punching bag. Just the the feel of my ass getting stretched and the deep sensation of warm cum flooding my ass makes me scream with pleasure. Bring it on, baby!!


Wow, that just got my dick rock hard... And I haven't even topped anyone yet.
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#17 ddhorny1

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Posted July 27 2008 - 03:35 PM

How many times were you fucked before you started getting real pleasure out of it?

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Posted August 08 2008 - 03:36 PM

How many times were you fucked before you started getting real pleasure out of it?


The very first time.

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Posted August 08 2008 - 03:39 PM

Bottom boi. Doesn't hurt -- pure pleasure, awesome. Cum about half the time just from the prostate stimulation. Been taking cock since I was 12 and would miss it if I didn't get my twice daily meat.

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#20 Colimon

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Posted August 09 2008 - 11:19 PM

:pNo, I've had no real pain during anal sex because of the condom and lube. It makes me sooo much more horny! If I've had enough sexual stimulation before the anal sex, I cum from it! It's a wonderful thing if it's done right

#21 Si69

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Posted December 19 2010 - 02:14 AM

Well I've been mostly a top but have been fucked sometimes. The most recent was last week - the first time someone entered me for years, tho' as it was a new relationship and I expected it to happen I had been practicing with my wife's dildo.

I enjoyed the feel of him inside me - a little bit of pain at first but nothing much. It felt nice, but I didn't feel him cum - that would have been nice. Just nice to have someone in your arms on top and inside you who is randy & aroused ............. hmm, getting aroused now..........excuse me....

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Posted February 20 2011 - 08:00 AM

Does your wife know that you use her dildo? dillys can be very personal things, maybe you should try to score your own.
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Posted February 20 2011 - 08:22 AM

yes, she does - it's a joint one, but we sterilise it regularly.

U may be right tho - I'll maybe get her a new one.

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Posted April 24 2011 - 11:36 AM

OMG thers not much that beets a good hard fuck *drool*

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Posted July 14 2011 - 05:21 PM

If he's big - yes. If he's small - no. If he's just the right size - perfect. Oh geez. I love it. I love it. I love it.

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Posted July 31 2012 - 10:27 PM

I love getting my ass fucked but do not do it that much.

My best friend started fucking me when I was 13 years old and when he first shoved his cock in my ass, it hurt like crazy for about 4 or 5 minutes. His cock was only about 6" long but it felt like somebody shoved a baseball bat up my ass.

When he stuck his cock in me even though it hurt, I kept his cock inside me. He knew that I was in pain so he just laid there and did not move. I actually thought he had ripped me open but after a couple of minutes the pain started going away and it actually started feeling really good. The longer he fucked me the better it felt and by the time he came inside me I was loving it.

I loved it so much that the very next day I went to his house again and wanted to get fucked. I was very cautious as he stuck his cock in me and he went very slow but there was actually no pain at all and I felt nothing but pleasure.

Ever since than I have never felt any pain at all from getting fucked other than that very first time.

My friend fucked me constantly throughout high school right up until we were about 20 years old but than we just stopped because he moved away.

I loved getting fucked and missed it very much and missed sucking on his cock as well. I went about 4 years without even touching another guys cock but I needed it incredibly bad so when I found out about bathhouses I went to one right away and it was the most erotic time of my life. My very first night there I sucked off 4 guys and let another 2 fuck me as well. And even after 4 years without getting fucked there was no pain as I started getting fucked again.


I dont' usually let strangers fuck me but if I'm sucking a cock or getting sucked off and the guy starts playing with my ass, that's all it takes and I need him to fill my ass with his cock.

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Posted November 29 2012 - 05:03 PM

Hi new here and somewhat new to being by. This comment makes me horny as all hell! Hope im not stepping on this thread. It's been ahwile and never been topped by the real thing. That's why i replied here. this sounds great.

Bottom boi. Doesn't hurt -- pure pleasure, awesome. Cum about half the time just from the prostate stimulation. Been taking cock since I was 12 and would miss it if I didn't get my twice daily meat.

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Posted November 29 2012 - 05:08 PM

Hi new here and somewhat new to being by. This comment makes me horny as all hell! Hope im not stpeeing on this thread.

Bottom boi. Doesn't hurt -- pure pleasure, awesome. Cum about half the time just from the prostate stimulation. Been taking cock since I was 12 and would miss it if I didn't get my twice daily meat.

Hugz
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I love getting my ass fucked but do not do it that much.

My best friend started fucking me when I was 13 years old and when he first shoved his cock in my ass, it hurt like crazy for about 4 or 5 minutes. His cock was only about 6" long but it felt like somebody shoved a baseball bat up my ass.

When he stuck his cock in me even though it hurt, I kept his cock inside me. He knew that I was in pain so he just laid there and did not move. I actually thought he had ripped me open but after a couple of minutes the pain started going away and it actually started feeling really good. The longer he fucked me the better it felt and by the time he came inside me I was loving it.

I loved it so much that the very next day I went to his house again and wanted to get fucked. I was very cautious as he stuck his cock in me and he went very slow but there was actually no pain at all and I felt nothing but pleasure.

Ever since than I have never felt any pain at all from getting fucked other than that very first time.

My friend fucked me constantly throughout high school right up until we were about 20 years old but than we just stopped because he moved away.

I loved getting fucked and missed it very much and missed sucking on his cock as well. I went about 4 years without even touching another guys cock but I needed it incredibly bad so when I found out about bathhouses I went to one right away and it was the most erotic time of my life. My very first night there I sucked off 4 guys and let another 2 fuck me as well. And even after 4 years without getting fucked there was no pain as I started getting fucked again.


I dont' usually let strangers fuck me but if I'm sucking a cock or getting sucked off and the guy starts playing with my ass, that's all it takes and I need him to fill my ass with his cock.


Omg, this sounds exactly like what i wish a guy would try on me. I bet it feels amazing.

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Posted December 07 2012 - 11:14 AM

It hurt at first, but after a few times it got less painful and now I enjoy it, especially when my prostate is massaged which makes me climax quickly.

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Posted December 09 2012 - 10:18 AM

I always used dildos b4 I tried real dick so I was loose enough to not feel pain and dildo was thicker and longer than most guys. So real cock feels nice in me now.