I have been having lots of fun with a women lately, I want to blow her bloody mind. I want opinion on the best way to go about this, from touching, kissing, oral, sex including top positions. I have plenty of ideas myself but only a fool thinks he is perfect. What does it for you, ill pick the ones i like and use them !!!
I would have to write a thesis on the subject to really tell you what I think you should do. I'm not about to do that. Forget about everything you have seen on pornographic movies or what you have read on toilet walls. I don't think I am even close to being a master. I can give you some hints to what I think women like though, and what turns them on. Women like in a man, what men like in a women. Take your own personal hygiene seriously. I make sure I'm really clean and well groomed, that doesn't mean you have to be a queer eye or metro. ( Ok it does ) LOL !! Wearing clean and smart clothes, women like that. Of course women like a man to be fit and healthy. Before "making love" I make sure my mouth is clean and my teeth are brush and gargle with mouth wash. Make sure you ears are clean some women hate dirty ears. Make sure shes not tired and don't pressure her for sex, use the carrot not the stick ( no pun intended or implied) LOL !!! I always take my time, I start with their head by running my fingers through their hair makeing sure I don't pull it out ( their hair must be clean ) this has a cathartic affect which relaxes them, followed by a lot of foreplay, gentle slow passinate kissing, gently suck their bottom lip, this has to be practiced to get good at it, then gently kiss, nibble caress them all over their body, backs of their arms, their neck ( very sensitive erogenous zone ) the way you tell if a women is turned on by it is you look for "goose bumps" on their skin that means its working. When you have done all this start again ... repeat ... Caress their enitire body with your hands, your hands must be as gentle and subtle as the wings of a butterfly, that glide over their bodies ever so gently, tummy, backs, sides of their torsos, derriere, backs, front, sides of their legs, feet ( avoid tickling them too much, don't pay too much attention to any one part ( as much as we want to ~~ ). Pay special attention to the front, back and sides of their thighs, inner and outer, circular caressing ( when your arms start to ach, change over to your other arm ) keep this up for as long as you can, I know its hard and your eager to just put it in and start humping but you must be patient, they will appreciate what your doing and it will make them wet ( their vagina is preparing for your penis). The difference between average sex and really hot sex is the foreplay, the longer you can prolong this the better it will be. If your foreplay is "affective" and "prolonged" and you increase a womens sexual tension enough she will eventually have a "real" orgasm. 1. excitement 2.plateau 3.orgasm 4.resolution. Through these different theoretical stages, each is marked by different things that happen to the "breasts", vulva , vagina, etc. Only thru trial and error will you learn how to be a great lover. Wait until she is begging for you to enter her, never think of yourself, put her first and you will never be asking her for sex, you'll be saying not tonight love I am too tired. LOL !!! Its not luck its good foreplay, being considerate, educating yourself, learning about the menstraul cycle because they are horniest mostly before and after their period "rags", these kinds of things will make you a better lover and she will be impressed by your knowledge and skill. Women like oral but I'm not really into that but I should be. see how you go with that ... I hope it helps. BG.
lol, thanks for the sex advise the other stuff though i'm not sure i need, did you see how old i am, but its appreciated maybe the younger lads can use it.
I find that missionary position allows me to do the most creative stuff. I put a pillow under her butt, and like to have my weight resting on my knees and on my arms extended on each side of her, with her legs up near her chest, and my upper body in a near upright position. I can watch what I am doing, and do a set of 100 rapid thrusts, with the coronal ridge of my penis stimulating the upper side of her vagina as I thrust in and out, and then I rest by lying prone on top of her (my body weight is on my elbows), with slow thrusts. I also like the "sets of nine". PM me for instructions if you don't know what it is. Also give her a G Spot orgasm - pm me for that too.
i cant pm sorry or i would can you just send it to me and i'll read it, i dont think i have beeen a member long enough
"Sets of nine" - get in the missionary position, put a pillow under her butt, and then do eight shallow thrusts (2-3 inches in) then one deep thrust, to the hilt, then seven shallow and two deep, then six shallow and three deep, until you are doing nine deep ones. Then repeat from the top if you can. This technique is a winner, since the first three inches or so of both organs are the most sensitive, and deep thrusts stretch both organs in the most sensual way.
I do sets of ten. One time I tried sets of twenty, but I found it distracting (all that mental counting) so I had to abandon it.
hmm, something my boyfriend does that really turns me on is kissing below my belly button, like the line where your pants are, idk how else to explain that lol, but yeah thats always really nice
