Girls: What is the best way to gape an ass?

She's probably not getting enough action for it to just gape open. And I'm guessing the two of you don't really want her to have that issue.

I like anal, but if mine started to gape, I'd quit anal sex. It would be very unattractive for me to just shit without wanting to.

 

My wife has been a practicing gaper for a while. She's getting better at it. She uses the push out method though, like she's pooping. After a good anal session, she can work it and get some good gapes but it doesn't always stay open. Her asshole seems to be good for anal sex, she's never had any pain and can do it anytime but the gape isn't all there yet.

Gaping before? Hmmm... That would be hot. I'll have to have her try that out. She usually just spreads her cheeks and in I go!

Must have her try this out!

 

That just doesnt happen. it's a myth that a lot of anal causes pooping problems. My wife has been getting buttfucked regularly for years and years. I assure you that she shits just fine. She did used to worry about this when we first started almost daily anal sex and would always ask me if her asshole feels too loose or whatever. It never did. She poops when she needs to with no issues.

 

That's so hot! I never knew you could pre-gape. But it kind of makes sense. I can almost imagine the feeling of it opening all on it's own.

 

You've got that right Myttia - the part about relaxing, not pushing that is.
My wife gets a real good gape going after she has had an orgasm or 2 and is really relaxed altho I don't think she is even aware she is doing it.
I find this to be hugely stimulating - looking at her beautiful gaping asshole before shoving my dick back in again.

As for the person who started this thread I would recommend that he lavish praise on his GF's ass, telling her how beautiful her asshole is as he fucks it, etc.
Does she orgasm from anal? If not this could be why there is no gape.
A good way to get a gape going is to repeatedly pull out and reinsert - gently and with plenty of lube of course.

So Myttia, you are able to gape 1/2" at will? That's amazing!
I think there is a scene in John Waters' film Pink Flamingos where a man opens and closes his asshole.

 

yeah about that, it'snot much, feels huge at the time - likethere's a tension on the outside pulling open instead of closed! its pretty neat, feels very different, and its so hard to control, cuz its involuntary on the inside sphincter... but im so excited...

do other girls experience that - when you think about your boy back there your insides get all quivery? (This sometimes comes in handy say a couple hrs and a shower before hand lol, just start tensing and relaxing back there thinking about him, involuntarily almost, and then have the urge to get all super clean there in case we end up playing )

 

Hello I can talk of how to train and play anally.To get the big gapes that you see in porn. First hand because I am a web based porn. star. I am very open minded about sexual things like this and can talk about it very openly.So if you have a question ask away!!! Yes the poster that said to use dongs verses plugs is right. Also it helps a lot to get the females more into it and able to relax too....If they plan to set some personal time before anal play like this ...meaning getting a home enema kit and learn how to clean their body.This will do two things one ...she will know it will turn out will be a clean exp and not a messy one ..and she will get to know her anal cavity .How to relax the muscles. Some times help to get better cleaning using a special type of soap to mix into the water... use warm to wrist water...cold will cause cramps and too hot will burn....also use the douche nozzle instead of the anal one .Because the douche one is made round and not a blunt .Plus it going in easier,is more comfortable to use and go's a tad deeper so not to lose as much water...once clean start out with your fingers or small toy ...if using fingers make sure u cut and file smooth your nails!!! once she has relaxed some keep working up using bigger toy ...go slow n use lot of lube... you will be shocked just how open her ass can get in a day of play time! Once she is use to anal play she can insert a dildo right after cleaning and wear it for a while so she will already be loosen up come play time! Usually even with very radical play the ass will close back up in just a few hours.

 

Wow, thanks. I'm an anal virgin but at least I know what to do now if I want to try.
If my guy has erection issues though, anal will be harder to accomplish than vaginal right?
Where do you purchase the kits from?

 

Hello I can talk of how to train and play anally.To get the big gapes that you see in porn. First hand because I am a web based porn. star. I am very open minded about sexual things like this and can talk about it very openly.So if you have a question ask away!!! Yes the poster that said to use dongs verses plugs is right. Also it helps a lot to get the females more into it and able to relax too....If they plan to set some personal time before anal play like this ...meaning getting a home enema kit and learn how to clean their body.This will do two things one ...she will know it will turn out will be a clean exp and not a messy one ..and she will get to know her anal cavity .How to relax the muscles. Some times help to get better cleaning using a special type of soap to mix into the water... use warm to wrist water...cold will cause cramps and too hot will burn....also use the douche nozzle instead of the anal one .Because the douche one is made round and not a blunt .Plus it going in easier,is more comfortable to use and go's a tad deeper so not to lose as much water...once clean start out with your fingers or small toy ...if using fingers make sure u cut and file smooth your nails!!! once she has relaxed some keep working up using bigger toy ...go slow n use lot of lube... you will be shocked just how open her ass can get in a day of play time! Once she is use to anal play she can insert a dildo right after cleaning and wear it for a while so she will already be loosen up come play time! Usually even with very radical play the ass will close back up in just a few hours.http://richelinnchambers.com

 

Yes ,if he has erection issues it will be harder to do .That is until you learn your body. Once you do that it will become easier. The way you can do this is to ...set aside some private time by yourself with no distractions . Use lots of lube,start small..learn your body..what it likes and how to relax....It is not like you become loose it is more like you gain more muscle control. So you in fact know how to expand your muscle to accept him in easier and contract them too to be able to (suck) his love rocket....You will see that just by knowing it is going to be a clean exp.,using lot of lube ,what you learn in your private times... That anal can become very exciting,rewarding exp.for the both of you! The kits can be found at any drug store outlet ,even Wal-mart has them located by the fiber/laxatives .It comes packaged in a small box. Cost is cheapest there too bout 6 bucks. Also helps if he starts out by having you lay flat face dn on bed and use some lite warm oil ,to rub your booty checks with and every so often slightly put them apart.....winks ....have fun ,be safe thanks for the post. http://richelinnchambers.com

 

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You are a little late...

 

Richelinn maybe we can get together sometime and let me tongue the inside of your asshole the whole night.:drool5:

 

Thanks for the invite Zep...I do like that a lot! winks

 

Yes I had seen where is topic was a old posting ...but thought that many would still like to have more info on it. So I thought I would try to try to revamp it.

 

Fair enough. Just watch your posting, I guess.

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Oh see how this now. I was thinking that you had to add your link every time.I am still new to some of this.. linking thing and how it all works... I do thank you for allowing the link to be had. I really do enjoy reading all the different post on this site .I make post on subjects that I feel like I can add to the info. of the said topic. That others have a interest in to intrigue them . To read,enjoy,and join in -posting on said topic. That is why I don't really let it matter to me when the or. posting date was. Because you have many who are viewing it for the first time ... So they must be seeking info . on that topic. same as the or poster did..

 

My pleasure......Richelinn.

To me it does not matter weather the thread is old or not, important is the contributions. If you don't spice it up than it will be dead and boring and people will keep on posting the same topics over and over that's already been discuss......so it does not matter bringing up old threads.