Girls: What is the best way to gape an ass?

Hello everyone, Im 23 from the US, and i was wondering the best way to gape my girlfriends ass, we always do it and it never seems to get any bigger, so i was wondering if any of you know anything i dont. Whenever we do it her asshole closes right afterwards. and most of the time she doesnt even want to show me and gets up in a way i cant see it.
Any help??
Thanks

 

obviously dosnt want you to see...cant say i blame her.

 

Why are you trying to accomplish something she doesn't want. Be happy she lets you do anal with her.

 

Gaping assholes are caused by repeated streching and trauma to the sphincter muscle. All the porn stars with gaping assholes have very little muscle control from repeated extreme anal strecthing. This isn't a joke. They'll have incontinence problems. Anal is fine if its done gently, but there is a chance to damage the musclature and tear the colon lining if you are shoving huge things up there or trying to "gape" her ass.

 

Talk cork

 

You have to make her comfortable enough to spread it open and relax for you. Hell, she does it before you fuck her, I don't see why it's an issue after.

 

the reason its closing is because shes pinching her hole, even if just a little. if she pushes out while you pull out it gapes it doesnt take a long time like jackass said

 

Correct, a normal length anal session will produce a "gaper". obviously the larger the tool, the bigger the gaper. Tell her to push out hard when you pull out and it will open up nice for ya.

 

Most women are shy about that sort of thing, her first reaction when you pull out is to clinch her muscle closed, next time you have anal sex do it with her on her back with a pillow under her hips and legs spread and pushed up around her chest, after you cum tell her to reach down and spread her ass checks for you and push out instead of closing up. If she can deal with the feeling of shame in doing something like this it will stay open, she must be up for it. Tell her how great she looks like that, open only for you. Works for me. It would work better if she is a submissive type and is used to displaying herself to you.

Peace

 

I agree with Overlymature, If she is allowing you to have anal sex (and a lot of women dont) then why are you pushing her boundarys and making her uncomfortable? She may well withdraw those priviliges all together.

 

Says your 19......

 

or she might shit on you by pushing too hard

 

You hit a key word here.. A woman must be willing to submit!!

 

Is there such a sextoy (?) that can be inserted & allows the gape to stay open & is still visible without it closing ? Something like a glass type dildo that magnifies the inside as well as the outside? There's some type of medical type instrument that's used to do internal vaginal inspections that keep the vagina open for as long as needed?

 

Many .... Glass butt blugs are sexy and pretty ... Still a woman/man that is willing to submit to you is the best way to get the desired effect!!! Just my opinion... Wanting to give in to what your partner wants and being open to yourself sexually is really the only way for both engaged to be pleased intimately ....

 

are you a detective? :bobby:

 

yes. saw this, pretty hot, but even the biggest one wont get my boy in through it (unless maybe he suprises himself when he's soft, but then he'd get stuck like on a cock ring lol, but then i spose he could fuck me with it! lol if it didnt hurt him too much??)

darn i cant find it on the net, its like a buttplug but with a hole through the middle. taperred on the front end so it can slide in. I think the biggest one is only 1.5" hollow though :/

if anyone finds it please post!

 

I can imagine a butt plug with it completely hollow & open at both ends so air passes in & out. It would take a well lubed & gaped & penetrated butt to stay open for a few minutes so you could see it thou after withdrawing the penis or a giant sized plug?

 

as for gaping, everyone says push out - i dont, i relax instead actually - this keeps your insides from being pushed against your ass, which in the videos with the pros produces prolapses (which i think are kinda gross, personally...). Instead when im on all 4s with my abdomen below my back hole, my insides are being pulled down away from my hole, and if i relax, i open up and air sneaks in hehe. sometimes this makes me clamp up again, but evenbefore we start playing I can do this and open up like 1/2 an inch! Id love to open up like 1 1/2" inches for my guy, show him that im super ready for him without any touching yet, just cuz im.. iguess a butt slut lol! but 1/2 inch is still nice, he can get his little finger in without touching the sides, but sometimes i clamp shut around him hehehe start the game all over again

saw a girl in some porn vids that could do that.. katy heart i think or something? old school vids (older anal vids are better, less violent/forceful, less frantic, hotter.)

can any other girls do this? how wide can you gape without having been touched yet?

 

I didn't used to be able to gape (although I'm not sure I ever really tried). My sphincter would begin close even before he pulled out.

The more I have had anal the sooner and more relaxed my sphincter has become, that's for sure. After I have been penetrated for a while, I just seem to open up and stay open, particularly if I'm on all fours. I know this is directly related to practice and muscle memory. Also using dongs and not plugs will help as well. Plugs encourage the sphincter to want to close.

Lastly, this is not something you can make your girl do. It has to be something she wants to do. Everything in bed needs to be consensual. No matter how far out there.