Ask A Pedophile thread

Free speech, huh? I'm here to answer questions and dispel myths and stereotypes associated with pedophilia. My first and most important goal is to convince people I, along with other pedophiles are not "evil" simply for finding minors attractive and that there's differences between pedophiles and child rapists. For the record, no, I've never had sex with a child. My views are very similar to this man's, Lindsay Ashford. If you have 30 minutes please watch the following interview with an open mind. I'm hoping we can all be mature about this because all I get on YouTube is "DIE MOTHER FUCKER, DIE".

EDIT: I was unsure whether to put this here or Protest so if a staff member needs to move this, my apologies.

 

This outght to go over
like a fart in church.

 

If you're implying child porn, I don't watch it and have no intention on posting anything like that here.

Wow, totally different vibe here then YouTube.

 

Skip, you crack me up!! :lol: :lol:

 

there is no differenece? that got me. there is a huge difference between looking at underage girls and raping them.

girls mature (physically as well as mentally) eariler than boys, no shit, growth hormones in food make our development eariler (before we can deal with it? that is a debate). but actually acting out on impulse is different. maybe your sick, or maybe our society isn't recognizing something in the male gender that is real, and includes alot of them, whatever, but touching and fantasing in my opinion, and law, are vastly different.

a friend of mine touched me the other day, without permission. he is no longer a friend. but understand your fucking girls mentally when you do that to them. it isn't just sex, it's so much more to them, and it hurts deeply.

 

What exactly do I do to them if I obey the laws?

 

nothing. thats the point

 

This post is about no specific individual.
It is about pedophiles in general.

Year ago, I knew a child that was sexually molested by someone that only thought of little boys, at first.

Those thoughts eventually translated into action,
and the boy ended up killing himself as a result.

I urge all parents to know your facts and be always vigilant.

The following information was retrived from Ask.com.


Pedophiles Can Be Anyone: Pedophiles can be anyone -- old or young, rich or poor, educated or uneducated, non-professional or professional, and of any race. However, pedophiles often demonstrate similar characteristics, but these are merely indicators and it should not be assumed that individuals with these characteristics are pedophiles. But knowledge of these characteristics coupled with questionable behavior can be used as an alert that someone may be a pedophile.

Characteristics of a Pedophile :

• Often the pedophile is male and over 30 years of age.
• Single or with few friends in his age group.
• If married, the relationship is more "companion" based with no sexual relations.
• He is often vague about time gaps in employment which may indicate a loss in employment for questionable reasons or possible past incarceration.

Pedophiles Like Child-like Activities:

• He is often fascinated with children and child activities appearing to prefer those activities to adult oriented activities.
• He will often refer to children in pure or angelic terms using descriptives like innocent, heavenly, divine, pure, and other words that describe children but seem inappropriate and exaggerated.
• He has hobbies that are child-like such as collecting popular expensive toys, keeping reptiles or exotic pets, or building plane and car models.

Pedophiles Often Prefer Children Close to Puberty:

• Pedophiles often have a specific age of child they target. Some prefer younger children, some older.
• Often his environment or a special room will be decorated in child-like decor and will appeal to the age and sex of the child he is trying to entice.
• Many pedophiles often prefer children close to puberty who are sexually inexperienced, but curious about sex.

Pedophiles Work Around Children: The pedophile will often be employed in a position that involves daily contact with children. If not employed, he will put himself in a position to do volunteer work with children, often in a supervisory capacity such as sports coaching, contact sport instruction, unsupervised tutoring or a position where he has the opportunity to spend unsupervised time with a child.

The Target Child: The pedophile often seeks out shy, handicapped, and withdrawn children, or those who come from troubled homes or under privileged homes. He then showers them with attention, gifts, taunting them with trips to desirable places like amusement parks, zoo's, concerts, the beach and other such places.

Manipulation of the Innocent: Pedophiles work to master their manipulative skills and often unleash them on troubled children by first becoming their friend, building the the child's self esteem. They may refer to the child as special or mature, appealing to their need to be heard and understood then entice them with adult type activities that are often sexual in content such as x-rated movies or pictures. They offer them alcohol or drugs to hamper their ability to resist activities or recall events that occurred.

Stockholm Syndrome : It is not unusual for the child to develop feelings for the predator and desire their approval and continued acceptance. They will compromise their innate ability to decipher good and bad behavior, ultimately justifying the criminal's bad behavior out of sympathy and concern for the adults welfare. This is often compared to Stockholm Syndrome - when victims become attached emotionally to their captors.

The Single Parent: Many times pedophiles will develop a close relationship with a single parent in order to get close to their children. Once inside the home, they have many opportunities to manipulate the children -- using guilt, fear, and love to confuse the child. If the child's parent works, it offers the pedophile the private time needed to abuse the child.

Fighting Back: Pedophiles work hard at stalking their targets and will patiently work to develop relationships with them. It is not uncommon for them to be developing a long list of potential victims at any one time. Many of them believe that what they are doing is not wrong and that having sex with a child is actually "healthy" for the child.

Almost all pedophiles have a collection of pronography, which they protect at all costs. Many of them also collect "souvenirs" from their victims. They rarely discard either their porn or collections for any reason.

One factor that works against the pedophile is that eventually the children will grow up and recall the events that occurred. Often pedophiles are not brought to justice until such time occurs and victims are angered by being victimized and want to protect other children from the same consequences.

Laws such as Megan's Law - a federal law passed in 1996 that authorizes local law enforcement agencies to notify the public about convicted sex offenders living, working or visiting their communities, have helped expose the pedophile and allows parents to better protect their children.

 

What I highlighted was the stereotypes I mentioned earlier.

 

Gee, that behavior is consistant with the pedophiles I've been unfortunate enough to run in to. I daresay others who've been molested by a pedophile or have had a loved one molested by a pedophile would recognize these red flags as well.

Thank you, AncientHippie. I think many others will find the information you posted to be valuable.

 

there IS a reason for sterotypes, usually.... it's b/c alot of people follow patterns that can be catorgorized, if not individually, than in a group setting, that can be used to predict future behavior. It is an innate part of the human consciousness. Just some people excess in it to the point of justifying hate crimes, which is unacceptable, and unreasonable as well.

not that sterotypes are always right, as this person mentioned, but they can serve as a tool to uncover those people that may harm others, with or without intent.

that isn't an excuse, "it's a sterotype", unless you don't fall under it, then you can bitch.

 

I couldn't have said this better myself. It's just a fact of life that like minded people often follow similar patterns of behavior. It's neglegent to know this, but act like it doesn't exist, especially when doing so can put others in harm's way.

 

That's right everyone.

You cannot insult this person, you must respect him so he can post up the forums about pedophilia, because this is "free speech forums", yet anti-feminists all seem to get flamed, and then banned. Go figure.

 

Yup its free speech, you have mega guts for coming onto a WORLDWIDE forum and admitting your a pedophile or that you find minors attractive.
Alot of people wont find what your saying is right, And will find you pretty sick as we would if it was someone who like shagging horses.
Pedofiles arent all rapists - you only become a rapist when you have sex with someone without consent. I think we all understand that pedofiles are attracted to children - its when that attracted gets upped to the next level and they groom them, have sex with them etc.
Why is your name notamoster? thats a bit ermm wierd innit

 

Actually, everyone who has sex with a child, even with "consent", is a rapist. It's call statutory rape.

 

WTF is this all about? What is the world coming to?
Tom

 

so basically ths guy can speak freely about his desires for children, and yet i can not say that i think pedophiles should be castrated and/or sexual crimes commited against children should have the death penalty as a possible sentence in court?

 

I hope that this is a sick joke from a bored teenager looking to start drama, because I'm sorry, but as a mother, I have absolutely no tolerance whatsoever for pedophiles. None.

 

Be careful guys! Don't attack this member! Skip said not to! Also don't talk about anything anti-feminist, because this is free speech, so you can only be pro-liberal!