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#1 Xiaoyan

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Posted March 24 2007 - 08:52 PM

My family has always been kind of nudist or semi-nudist at home. I personally think that it is beautiful for the family to relax or even work around the house in the nude.

We began to have our reservations about it, and have not been nude as often, when our children began to be adolescents, and especially when our son (who is now 16) would frequently have an erection when he would see his sister (who is now 14) completely nude.

I personally think that we are being a little too prudish, and I honestly think that it is beautiful to see my son or husband walk around the house occasionally with an erection. I was wondering what other people thought of this, and would like to hear some opinions concerning family home nudity. :)

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Posted March 26 2007 - 11:49 AM

Probably not a good idea for a 16 year old boy to be nude with other nude family members...There could be incest. He obviously is aroused at the sight of his sister nude.

I like toi be nude sometimes, but not with my children.

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Posted March 26 2007 - 05:52 PM

My mom was always free about walking around nude. It taught me that there is a large difference between simply being naked and comfortable and sexual situations. Nude does not always equate sex. In turn, I'm not ashamed to be naked, even in mixed company. Naked is naked. Sex is sex. And as for the boy, he'll probably grow out of it once his hormones calm down and he realizes that there's a difference. You can't blame the boy really. As long as you know nothing inappropriate is going on, it should be fine, really. Erections can't always be helped. There's always that "no reason boner" as my boyfriend calls them
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Posted March 28 2007 - 12:46 PM

I agree with Kitty....its good for you kids to understand nudity and sex.

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Posted March 30 2007 - 06:20 AM

i agree aswell why worry its natural if the yougman or his sisier ,
isnt ashamed you all should be at ease whith it .

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Posted March 31 2007 - 09:30 PM

Probably not a good idea for a 16 year old boy to be nude with other nude family members...There could be incest. He obviously is aroused at the sight of his sister nude.


Im not saying incest or anything like that is right or wrong but I dont really think its anybody's business what a family does between other family members like that in their own home. Anyways if a boy gets an erection from seeing his sister like that I doubt her puttin clothes on is gonna change that a whole lot. I think its good and healthy for family members to be nude around each other it helps to solve or ease alot of the problems associated with puberty and adolescence. I wish I couldve been nude and some of my family could have been nude around me when I was going through puberty, probably wouldve helped me alot.

I like toi be nude sometimes, but not with my children.


You should be nude more around your children that way they would see you dont have any hangups about your body or being nude and thus they wont have any issues with their body or being nude around others. Its healthy for them and you. If you teach your kids the right kind of values and bring em up right then it dont matter weither youre clothed or nude around them cuz theyll always know right from wrong and know what to do.

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Posted April 04 2007 - 01:25 PM

Question to go along with this topic...

We are frequently nude around the house and have a 10 month old daughter. Recently, she's been a bit cuious about that thing that dangles between daddy's legs. As a result, when she's near, she tries to grab it. While I think it shouldn't be a problem for her to see me nude, how would one go about getting her to keep her hands off while trying to keep her from thinking that it's a "naughty place"? I want my child to have an open mind when it comes to nudity, but I also don't want to condone inappropriate behaviour. That and the last time she tried to grab the family jewels, I was in pain for a short time. Any experiences or suggestions?

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Posted April 06 2007 - 01:19 PM

Xiaoyan, I don't see a problem with your kids. Erections are uncontrollable for someone your sons age. It wouldn't matter if his sister was visable or not, he would still get an erection and he would not be able to stop it. Just the nature of the beast!
Good for self esteem too.
Keep it up, its good for your whole family.
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Posted April 06 2007 - 04:50 PM

We are a completely open family. My son is 10 and my daughter is 8. Recently, we went camping and used the family shower in the bath house. We all took a shower at the same time in the same shower. Non of us think any differently about it. My wife and I have been nude around the kids since they were born. I'm sure there will come a day when the comfort level will subside, especially with my kids. But until then, we will continue to be nude around each other.

#10 Xiaoyan

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Posted April 16 2007 - 10:02 PM

Thanks for all the nice responses!

We' have decided to go ahead and continue our nudist ways like previously did, that it is really the most honest way to be, even though our kids are now past puberty. It is really the most natural and healthy way to do things.

My son still gets occasional, complete erections (which I have to admit excites me just a little bit, even though I try not to let it). I guess what I'm trying to say is that if I was a male, I would have an 'erection' sometimes, too (actually I do have my own kind of 'erection' sometimes, the female kind, but it's just not as visible as the male type :)). So, why discriminate agains the guys when they have theirs? It's just natural and normal, and nothing to worry about. We should just enjoy and appreciate our bodies, and leave it at that!

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Posted May 18 2007 - 06:18 AM

i have grown up with my aunt and uncle and they are family nudists ,i been always naked with them and latery when they had my cousin.Being naked natural is something that we all should have to be,no clothes and live in nature,.Through erections is natural again the man to show hes errections accidently while hes with others,its up to his hormones,unlucky for us if we get erected then everyone cann see it unlikely with the women that its quite difficult to understand it immidiatly,there are ocasions ofcours the womans nipple to become very erected (she could have anyway erectd nipples ever if she was not erected)and if you are close enough and the woman likely is smooth at her vagina then you will be able to see her juice between the lips or the reflection shining from the sun on her juice.Sex and nudity are different but they can get a conection too.As you are natural and you see someone that you like to meet or know each other its more easier to have full erecting emotional thoughts about that person.

My mom was always free about walking around nude. It taught me that there is a large difference between simply being naked and comfortable and sexual situations. Nude does not always equate sex. In turn, I'm not ashamed to be naked, even in mixed company. Naked is naked. Sex is sex. And as for the boy, he'll probably grow out of it once his hormones calm down and he realizes that there's a difference. You can't blame the boy really. As long as you know nothing inappropriate is going on, it should be fine, really. Erections can't always be helped. There's always that "no reason boner" as my boyfriend calls them


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Posted May 19 2007 - 02:16 AM

Probably not a good idea for a 16 year old boy to be nude with other nude family members...There could be incest. He obviously is aroused at the sight of his sister nude.

I like toi be nude sometimes, but not with my children.

you are absolutly right that being nude infront of your boy is not right. specially when he is getting older. and specially when you also have a 14 year old doughter. Because it may creat some social problems in family. But my friend this is a free country and people can do what ever they want....
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#13 NudistMike07

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Posted May 19 2007 - 06:40 PM

you are absolutly right that being nude infront of your boy is not right. specially when he is getting older. and specially when you also have a 14 year old doughter. Because it may creat some social problems in family. But my friend this is a free country and people can do what ever they want....


So just be nude and when/if any problems arise you just deal with them like any other "clothed" problems you might have. If parents are not prepared to handle these problems then maybe they shouldnt be parents, because parents should be capable of handling any problems that come up with their children in a mature age appropriate way. Just wearing clothes doesnt solve the problem its just a cheap way around it.

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Posted May 19 2007 - 11:38 PM

well said nudistmike
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#15 NudistMike07

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Posted May 21 2007 - 07:43 PM

thanks, i just think parents ought to be parents and not run from their problems.

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Posted May 25 2007 - 01:00 PM

Well my family hated my nudist so i wanted to become one myself, so i enjoyed it through out alone in the house, and i was making tantrums too.

But it was awesome and free.

So i do indipendent nudity.

This summer is great i can wish to crease my clothes and be sure to be naked in my entire life. ^^

Staying naked at home was comfy for me but not when my parents arrive because they tolerated nudity was wrong.
Enjoy losing weight for summer holidays.


Please relax and loosen all of the fabric clothing for naked freedom.

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#17 Br1ngMeJ3lly

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Posted June 04 2007 - 05:35 PM

I live with my parents still and my father walks naked through the house every single day. Personally I h8 it. Here is this man who stands 5'10" tall, who has a beer belly and huge feet. How is it ok for me to be stood in the same vicinity as what i have just mentioned?

Lol it isnt ok!

I know I may step on a toe or two here but what can i say? The site of a big naked man is simply not what i wish to see (especially in a confined space) at any point during the day, let alone as i stomp down the stairs towards the kettle with a bad-ass hangover.

Sigh* im just saying for my own, personal taste, i would rather my father wore his clothes as a show of respect. Anyone want to tell me off now? Or better-yet back me up plx =p

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Posted August 19 2007 - 05:33 PM

Thats very beautiful if your familyan be that open,nudity and sex are nt connected,teen age boys do get arrounsed at anything and often masturbate whilst thinking about their sisters or mom nude. Its a teen.
Personally i think there is nothing wrong with that he will get over it, he may display arrousals but would never touch her and thats the difference.
When i was young my mother always would see me aroused for whatever reason.
Mothers are great,she was the one who showed me to masturbate when i was arroused and sat with me while i did it and talked me through what i should feel,i would have to tell her what my thoughts were whilst masturbating.then we would talk about what i felt and why,it was very helpful and made me open t omasturbate at home whenever i felt the need,at any time if my mom or sister was around,and they did the same.NEVER did we touch each at all though.So i think you and your family are great for this acheivent and sure it will take all his inhibitins away when he is older

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Posted August 19 2007 - 05:36 PM

Thats very beautiful if your familyan be that open,nudity and sex are nt connected,teen age boys do get arrounsed at anything and often masturbate whilst thinking about their sisters or mom nude. Its a teen.
Personally i think there is nothing wrong with that he will get over it, he may display arrousals but would never touch her and thats the difference.
When i was young my mother always would see me aroused for whatever reason.
Mothers are great,she was the one who showed me to masturbate when i was arroused and sat with me while i did it and talked me through what i should feel,i would have to tell her what my thoughts were whilst masturbating.then we would talk about what i felt and why,it was very helpful and made me open t omasturbate at home whenever i felt the need,at any time if my mom or sister was around,and they did the same.NEVER did we touch each at all though.So i think you and your family are great for this acheivent and sure it will take all his inhibitins away when he is older
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Posted August 19 2007 - 10:14 PM

I live with my parents still and my father walks naked through the house every single day. Personally I h8 it. Here is this man who stands 5'10" tall, who has a beer belly and huge feet. How is it ok for me to be stood in the same vicinity as what i have just mentioned?


Hes your father and youre his son thats all that should matter. Even though he might not necessarily be asthetically pleasing you should still treasure the time you can spend with him because one day it will be gone and it will not come again. People need to learn to accept the sight of the nude body in all forms.

I know I may step on a toe or two here but what can i say? The site of a big naked man is simply not what i wish to see (especially in a confined space) at any point during the day, let alone as i stomp down the stairs towards the kettle with a bad-ass hangover.


Just dont focus on it as much and think about something more to your likeing.

Sigh* im just saying for my own, personal taste, i would rather my father wore his clothes as a show of respect. Anyone want to tell me off now? Or better-yet back me up plx =p


Requiring him to wear clothes would be disrespectful to him probably more so than him being nude in front of you, would you want to do something like that to your father? He is comfortable being nude and im sure he loves you very much and im sure he respects you a great deal, as his son thats all you should expect from him. He doesnt need to give in to your every whim.

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Posted August 22 2007 - 06:30 AM

we are a nudist family, my girls ogten see me aroused, I dont hide it and they just treat it as a normal occurence. My wife has shown the girls (15 13 and 10) how to masturbate and they have also seen me masturbate. as long as its kept in the family and no-one gets hurt then you should carry on.

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Posted August 22 2007 - 04:47 PM

Hmm... wondering where this convo is going. I do support nudism and naturism in the home and think it's healthy. I also see the difference between nudity and sex. Sure, you'll see an erection on occasion, it's normal. But now a few people are talking about masturbating around family members. Some of which are in their early teens or preteens. But isn't masturbation a sexual act? I don't necessarily have an issue with incest, but I do have an issue with sexual acts involving young children. Masturbation is a grey area, I understand. It's what people do. But knowingly masturbating around your children or letting them knowingly do it around you? Doesn't that seem questionable?

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Posted August 22 2007 - 10:56 PM

In answer to the previous posting, I can understand where you are coming from, but my wife taught the girls how to pleasure themselves because they asked. as for me masturbating in front of them, they walked in on me one day while was doing it and since then I see no reason to hide it although I dont go full out to do it in front of them for any gratification. i suppose we are just a sexually open family. I must stress however that one thing we will not get involved in is sex with our or other peoples kids

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Posted August 24 2007 - 10:36 PM

i have no problem with your wife teacthing the kids to masterbate, that perfecally fine becasue they are both female, and a long as they dont touch its fine, but as for you masterbating in frount of them, i just dont feel that they should be exposed to that
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Posted August 26 2007 - 04:15 PM

Probably not a good idea for a 16 year old boy to be nude with other nude family members...There could be incest. He obviously is aroused at the sight of his sister nude.

I like toi be nude sometimes, but not with my children.


Who is to say that he won't get aroused if he sees her in a swimsuit? Should mom and dad say that he can't go swimming with his sister?

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Posted August 27 2007 - 06:13 PM

My sister has seen me naked a few times and ive seen her topless once. BTW shes a knockout for 44..looks 30.

After me and my now ex wife split I moved in with my sister at her invitation and she walked into the bathroom as I was getting out of the shower. "Still looking good there" she said as she glanced down. I was speechless and turned red. She said "Come on ive seen it before" then left the bathroom giggling.

Last spring me and my gf and her daughter(20) went camping in the mountains and after a long hot day we all needed a shower. Her daughter suggested we all use the communal shower together and while i normally dont just get naked in front of anyone i was too tired to argue and we all stripped and showered.

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Posted August 27 2007 - 08:33 PM

I personally think that if youre a parent and youre masturbating and your kids come in and you stop then youre sending them a bad message because it will seem to them that masturbating is wrong because if it wasnt then why would you stop when they walk in? I think the best thing to do is just keep doing it and treat it like nothing is wrong.

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Posted August 28 2007 - 05:49 AM

Nudistmike is quite correct. masturbation is a totally natural act and we should get rid of our hang ups about it. I do it, so does my wife and so do the girls. We dont touch them, they dont touch us, although i think they help each other sometimes.


Chill out and remember that if its natural....it shouldnt be a problem !

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Posted August 29 2007 - 09:38 PM

me and my sister hang out together nude all the time.it frees a person from insecurity and deffinatley is a positive form of liberation.

basically it takes awhile to get used to being comfortable with nudity around others and their nudity around you. it helps you appreciate what you were given..

idk i thnk its positive.. i just could not do it in front of my father and i am not sure how i feel around males just yet (unless ofcourse we are close)

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Posted August 30 2007 - 10:03 PM

Okay, I just threw up in my mouth a whole lot.