I'm not a big fan of it. I do it with my husband sometimes because I know he likes it, but honestly, it's overstimulating for me. When I'm giving him kisses down below, I want to be able to concentrate just on that, same with when he's kissing me below. I feel like my "technique" suffers during the 69 position. I can't get into things as much, I feel overwhelmed, I have a more difficult time acheiving orgasm that way. Silly maybe, but eh, that's just the way I feel!
I loooove sixty nine...I used to think it was like, awkward, but if you find someone that isn't self conscious about it, it's awesome.
My wife and I frequently (about once a week) do a 69. It's certainly a favorite of ours. Although, she often gets off first and then finishes me off.
with the right person it's very exciting...my husband and I are both a bit competitive, so when we are stimulating eachother orally, it's heaven on earth. We feed off eachother, so to speak. Every time I moan, I'm inspired to return the favor and so on and on until we are both thuroughly crazy....
Personally, I'd just rather have her give me head while I sit back and enjoy it. And if I'm going to go down on her, I'd like her to relax on focus on what she's feeling. Maybe I just suck at multi-tasking...?
At a risk......My experience has been that if i really am doing well, it's hard for the women in my life to keep at me. That's ok for me. They have something to play with while I send them moonward. But I usually gotta finish off by intercourse, her doin' a later hand job, or a quick and discreet wank....all of which is to say I enjoy it greatly, but I'm not a 'come together' guy.
My experience with 69 has been pretty good, but it was rather awkward at first. Because she was shorter than me by about a foot so we could only take turns sucking. It worked out rather well at the end though
I can't focus on either giving or receiving when both happen at once. Sexual ADD, perhaps? It's fun though....
