Cancer woman and how to win her back
Posted April 11 2006 - 02:27 AM
As far as I know cancer are quite sentimental and sensitive in every reaction. So I guess not so easy to ruin a relationship for sthg new if she loves someone. On the other side they're quite strong and a bit selfish so an alert for me. What I'm trying to do is gradually impove comm using sentiment and actions to show how much I want us back. This comm started again mainly from an email of her recently to ask for her things back. But she didn't insist ie send her address etc, after I showed I wanna start comm again. Just a shallow reply that 'she's affraid we can only be friends' and some other words I can see through she doesn't really mean. So I guess I can still hope, just give it time.
Also cancers are famous as the marriage seekers ! But also as the best on that.
Any ideas preferably from other cancer females ? Really appreciated, thanks!!
Posted April 11 2006 - 06:08 AM
YOU AND THE CANCER WOMAN
She may appear like the photograph of that dream girl most men carry around in a hidden locket of their minds. But lurking just below the surface of that shy, sweet image is a superbly sensual woman. There are secret emotional depths to her, and like the story of the Sleeping Beauty and her Prince it takes love to awaken her eroticism. Love unlocks the smoldering fire hidden by her diffident manner.
Don't expect her to be forward, however, because she doesn't know how to be. You must pick up the subtle clue, the unspoken invitation. She may be trying to get in touch with you while your emotional phone is off the hook. If you miss that first chance, you're probably out of luck. Her feelings are too vulnerable for her to risk another overture.
As with all the water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces), the quality of trust is very important to her in a relationship. The Cancer woman is very cautious about giving her heart away. The two things she needs more than anything else are love and security, and she offers undying loyalty to a man who makes her feel secure. She has eyes only for him, and she'll cling as tenaciously as if she had pincers instead of arms. A betrayal in love is devastating, and takes a long, long time for her to forgive. In truth, she never forgives—rationally, yes, perhaps, but emotionally, never.
On first meeting Cancer woman you will find that she can be flirtatious, although in true subtle Cancerian fashion her flirting is done in a quiet way. Hers is not a flamboyant personality, but rather one of gentleness, depth, and richness. She is not only romantic, she's convinced that love, love, love is the secret of life. She wants to discover the secret with the man of her dreams. This sounds old-fashioned, but that's part of her charm: she is old-fashioned. It's a special quality that makes men feel protective toward her.
A confirmed sentimentalist, she loves to collect mementos from the past and pore over them. She frames old photographs, keeps old letters, stays in touch with old friends. She is devoted to her mate and to her family.
Affectionate, romantic, feminine, sympathetic, imaginative, and sweetly seductive, this quintessential woman can make home a place that a man never wants to leave.
Posted April 12 2006 - 04:04 AM
Posted April 12 2006 - 08:02 AM
it's over. it's done. ain't you glad?
Posted April 22 2006 - 02:05 PM
Posted May 02 2006 - 04:05 AM
beautifulnpink22 consider I totally agree with you and that I know her extremely well. Would you find her staff at my place for 2 years sthg she did to keep contact ? And if not then why she started communication by sending first an email asking them back but when I asked for delivery details she dissapeared ?
Ok I also tried to talk her back but she only replied once and since then I send her emails but no reply. It's actually a complicated thing because I don't expect her to reply, since it was my mistake and not yet the time to correct it, so she unofficially waits and officially "be as a friend" if you know what I mean.
One last thing, hope it means sthg, I used a kind of email receipt trick to find out that she reads my emails twice as soon as she goes online at work. So do you still think there's no way back ?
Posted May 02 2006 - 09:54 AM
Once hurt a cancer will take some time to heal, be patient, be loving and be kind!
After my now hubby(Gemini) hurt me once we had to "be friends" for a while before I was willing to give it another chance.
Posted May 05 2006 - 05:03 AM
Would you mind comment on her reply today ? Here it is:
"Thank you very much for your dvds. They contain all the good memories which mean a lot to both of us. However, I hope you understand, what happened between you and me has become the past. I won't forget all those sweet memories and happy days we share, but I don't think we can be the same again.
Would you please send my boxes to..."
So mynameiskc is right, maybe there's no way to get her broken heart back. What can you tell from her reply ? After reading it I thought I should call her immidiately. Still haven't. Maybe I do after I click on submit :(
Posted May 09 2006 - 02:03 PM
it's over. it's done. ain't you glad?
Posted May 10 2006 - 12:56 AM
Hmm thats not always the case for me, as the general consensus has proven that us cancers generally mull over the past, with me sometimes this can include comparing what worked in past relationships to my current relationships (if the current ones arent as good) or if im dating, i'll compare my ex to the person im dating at the time, I hate it but I always seem to do it.
once it's over with a cancer, it's over. it's how we are. we don't go back. trust and respect are number one for us. once that's gone, we won't hate you, we won't regret our relationship, but we'll never go back. in the rare instances it happens, it's never the same, totally different relationship.
Posted May 12 2006 - 11:13 PM
Posted August 31 2013 - 02:35 AM
Posted September 05 2013 - 11:15 AM
Remember the most important signs aren't the sun signs when deciding how to get a Sun in Cancer back. Sun isn't completely in control in Cancer because Cancer is ruled by the moon.
Her moon sign has to be considered, a long with the aspects to the planet moon.
What's her moon sign? Also moon rules our emotions. Please post a natal chart.
If you want to win a woman back, always look at their Venus signs. If you try her sun sign ways, you might not even be successful. Sun falls in the sign of Libra because Sun is so used to the ego and self that relationships are hard for it to express through.
The only way sun is involved is so people won't stand in our own way. But as far as love, all credit goes to Venus, the goddess of love. Venus sign, plz...
http://www.astro.com This is to get a natal chart. sign up for a free account! go to free horoscopes on the left hand side, press horoscope drawings, extended chart, edit data, you may need birth time which you can get from birth certificate or parent, or for now, use 12 noon though not recommended. Press blue button.
http://www.alwaysastrology.com A good place for all 10 of your signs, and rising sign
http://www.skyscript...sunaspects.html A good place for aspects
http://astrology-num...ogy_houses.html A good place for house placements
http://astrology-num...gy_planets.html A good place to learn about planets in houses
Edited by soratothamax, September 05 2013 - 11:19 AM.
Forgot title, adding more