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#1 Green

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Posted March 07 2006 - 12:54 AM

So, guys have prostates. Girls don't. I assume girls can feel pleasure during anal sex. How do they feel pleasure if they don't have a prostate?
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Posted March 07 2006 - 04:30 AM

the prostate isnt the only source of pleasure.. thousands of nerves all over the place.. guys can get extreme pleasure from anal play without touching the prostate..

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Posted March 08 2006 - 05:51 AM

a woman can have more frequent, more intense, and longer orgasms anally than she can vaginally. especially if she's laying on her belly, helps to put a pillow under pelvis where her hips bend, to kick her butt up a little and put a little extra pressure in the right places if she's a thin girl. at this angle you're stimulating both the anal and vaginal areas at once. with some clitoral stimulation added in things get really interesting......

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Posted March 08 2006 - 07:47 PM

Well anal sex for me feels like Im shitting out a watermelon backwards. Its the worst pain I have ever felt. I have had 3 kids and would choose to birth over anal sex any day.
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Posted March 09 2006 - 07:25 PM

the prostate isnt the only source of pleasure.. thousands of nerves all over the place.. guys can get extreme pleasure from anal play without touching the prostate..

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Posted March 09 2006 - 07:27 PM

Have you ever had two cocks at once, one in you pussy and one in your arse. Although I've never shared a girl with another bloke, I do like watching women taking two cocks in porn movies.

I think its hott that she likes that and takes that much but i dont think id like to share cuz id be way to close to other dick etc...
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Posted March 10 2006 - 05:06 AM

Ive never had a problem with anal, I enjoy and and I orgasm.
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Posted December 14 2009 - 08:43 AM

I love anal.The feeling of my boyfriend rubbing the head of his dick on my asshole & putting in & out my ass before he goes all the way in is fabulous.He starts off pumping my ass slow, then pounding it hard pulling my hair & slapping my ass. I usually cum 3-4 times. Some of my best orgasims have been through having his dick in my ass.it feels awesome when I tighten up my asshole on his dick. Damn, wish I had his dick in my ass now.

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Posted December 14 2009 - 02:17 PM

Feels good, man.
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Posted December 14 2009 - 05:53 PM

Something I don't understand about women receiving Anal Sex. The pleasure experienced by men is easily understandable by direct stimulation to the Prostate Gland, but as this doesn't exist in women, is the stimulation to purely mental, or does the penis stimulate the 'G' spot through the membrane of the rectal wall, or what?

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Posted December 14 2009 - 09:04 PM

To be honest, I am unsure about this myself. I know from personal experience that girls can have orgasms from anal.

My wife has a HARD time cumming from vaginal penetration, she cums much easier with anal and it's hard for me to understand as well.

Some girls like anal, some do not even with proper care, preparation, and stimulation.

I have not given women pain with anal. For one, I don't have a huge cock, I have a regular sized one, and 2 I spend LOTS of time on prep and stimulation to facilitate painless anal, even for beginners.

The few women I tried anal with and didn't like it, didn't say it was painful, they just said it didn't get them off. They would still let me do it from time to time because they knew I liked it and I wouldn't hurt them.

One girl I was with who was in this category gave me anal regularly in place of bj's because she knew I wasn't into them and liked anal. I always ate her out so she said she wanted to do stuff in return for me. So a lot of time instead of having sex and having her suck me off, I would just finish the session by cumming in her ass.

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Posted December 15 2009 - 06:28 PM

My old lady says the sensation of being full in her asshole is what does it for her. Along with how "nasty" and "dirty" it is that were doing something so taboo. She likes it when Im all the way in and just stay there or only move a little. She'll tighten her poophole and "clamp down" on my dick, then relax it, then tighten it, etc, etc. Drives us both crazy... mmm, mmm!

She has joked that when Im sliding in and out it does remind her of taking a shit in reverse. I dont think she orgasms from anal it but it gets her extremely worked up and then her orgasms vaginally only take a little effort.

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Posted December 16 2009 - 04:32 PM

Yep, I like the feeling of a full cock. That's when I really start getting off, is when he starts swelling up.

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Posted December 26 2009 - 03:38 AM

Yea it's kind of the full sensation, I just love having a cock inside me, in any way. Plus it just "feels good", I don't know. And it seems to make my pussy really sensitive as well.

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Posted December 30 2009 - 01:24 AM

Well I hate to mention it but there is another theory why some women cum or cum faster with anal sex - they are faking it to get it over with ;-) No I'm not saying all do - but if you are to believe the surveys about women who fake it vaginally then you have to believe they will be inclined to fake it in the back door.

I can definitively say no woman I've had anal sex with ever faked it, but only because none of them came during the anal (not counting one who was masturbating herself furiously at the same time, but it wasn't from anal alone).

I'm also wondering if most women that do cum from anal alone find the one the tummy position the most stimulating - from the anatomy it would seem that missionary style or something similar would provide most stimulation of the posterior vaginal wall.

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Posted December 30 2009 - 06:35 AM

i have never had an orgasm during anal sex only when im having my clit stimulated at the same time. for me its the taboo of it the naughty feeling an his pleasure. anal still hurts after a few years of having it. and its always the first inch of penertration that is so painful. if its a pencil thin vib it feels great anything thicker then the pain can be strong

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Posted December 30 2009 - 10:08 PM

i have never had an orgasm during anal sex only when im having my clit stimulated at the same time. for me its the taboo of it the naughty feeling an his pleasure. anal still hurts after a few years of having it. and its always the first inch of penertration that is so painful. if its a pencil thin vib it feels great anything thicker then the pain can be strong


My wife never gets off from anal either but it gets her extremely worked up so orgasm is easier afterwards. Shes never complained of it hurting.

The taboo nature of it is the biggest turn on for her and I. Its "nasty" that my dick is going in the hole that she shits from. For whatever reason, thats freegin hot to me and her. She knows how much I love it since I constantly want to lick or screw her ass. Lucky for me she lets me do it a lot! :D

The first inch or so does seem to be the toughest, agree there.

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Posted January 02 2010 - 01:19 PM

Well I hate to mention it but there is another theory why some women cum or cum faster with anal sex - they are faking it to get it over with ;-) No I'm not saying all do - but if you are to believe the surveys about women who fake it vaginally then you have to believe they will be inclined to fake it in the back door.

I can definitively say no woman I've had anal sex with ever faked it, but only because none of them came during the anal (not counting one who was masturbating herself furiously at the same time, but it wasn't from anal alone).


Well I must be unusual then because I can definitely sometimes cum only from anal sex - without having my clit stimulated at all.
Best position is sat on his lap in an armchair, legs up on the arms so he can get deep. His hands usually stay on my waist or end up cupping my boobs, but I can pretty much always get there otherwise unaided..

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Posted January 02 2010 - 02:32 PM

Well I hate to mention it but there is another theory why some women cum or cum faster with anal sex - they are faking it to get it over with ;-) No I'm not saying all do - but if you are to believe the surveys about women who fake it vaginally then you have to believe they will be inclined to fake it in the back door.

I can definitively say no woman I've had anal sex with ever faked it, but only because none of them came during the anal (not counting one who was masturbating herself furiously at the same time, but it wasn't from anal alone).

I'm also wondering if most women that do cum from anal alone find the one the tummy position the most stimulating - from the anatomy it would seem that missionary style or something similar would provide most stimulation of the posterior vaginal wall.


My girl honestly cannot cum from anal alone. My girl cannot even cum from vaginal alone. With either vaginal or anal, we always stimulates her clit. You have to remember, the clit is likened to the head of a guys cock. I ALWAYS stimulate her clit either orally or manually.

It's an interesting point you bring up, women faking anal orgasms, you are probably right, there are some fakers, but you cannot fool an individual experienced in anal, like myself. Evey woman I have made cum through anal always has spasms I could feel during orgasm. I don't think a woman could fake an anal orgasm, the involuntary anal spasms. I've had my girl voluntarily squeeze her anus on my cock, which feels wonderful, but she cannot replicate those spasm they are just too erratic, strong and fast.

There are times when I am fucking my girl in the ass, and I want to cum, but I hear my wife saying, "Wait for me, I'm about to cum!" If she wanted it over fast, she wouldn't ask me to drill her ass longer. Also my wife begs for it to be hard and deep, if she were in discomfort or pain, I doubt she would want me to ream her ass even harder and deeper.

With experience you can easily tell if the girl is in pain, you just have to listen to her, and you can easily differentiate between screams and moans of pleasure or pain. At minimum if you are unsure, at least ask her if it hurts or is uncomfortable. You may need to stop, slow down, change positions, or not go as deep. Anal is about communication.

To be honest, even though I like anal, sometimes I don't feel like doing it. I could have had a bad day at work, or am just tired, but my wife wants it or asks for it, so I give it to her. I would say that SHE is the one that initiates the anal. I never ask for it, when she is feeling like she wants it, and she went through the trouble of cleaning out and washing her ass, she will come up to me and just say she wants it in the butt. So I never know I'm about to get anal until she says something. She is in control of that whole department, and we usually have anal about 4-6 times a month.

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Posted January 03 2010 - 11:12 AM

Well anal sex for me feels like Im shitting out a watermelon backwards. Its the worst pain I have ever felt. I have had 3 kids and would choose to birth over anal sex any day.


u werent relaxed enough if it felt that bad


play with clitoris and give their nerves system chance to figure out the new pleasure from inside..we succeeded do this with 2 my ex: we done touch clitoris at all for few weeks during sex..then they suddenly get this strong orgasm from "inside" !! they said its much better than that clitoris-induced orgasm !



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You got the goods, lady - the taste, the smell, the body and the soul of sex. Be happy!


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Posted January 03 2010 - 11:36 AM

Hey guys... new to the board. :seeya:

I actually stumbled upon this place while looking for information on this very subject. I am an anal virgin and have expressed some interest in trying it with my boyfriend. I was wondering if there are any tips or things you could tell me about having my guy go through my back door for the first time.


Thanks!

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Posted January 03 2010 - 12:49 PM

Hey guys... new to the board. :seeya:

I actually stumbled upon this place while looking for information on this very subject. I am an anal virgin and have expressed some interest in trying it with my boyfriend. I was wondering if there are any tips or things you could tell me about having my guy go through my back door for the first time.


Thanks!

~Abby


Hi Abby..

Best thing you can do is work up to it slowly.. Some people need to work up to it over several (or more) sessions.
So you don't need to go all the way first time - and please don't get discouraged if there is discomfort or some pain.
If you go to fast it CAN be uncomfortable or painful, but this means you're either too tense and need to relax further or that he is going to fast/hard.

You need to be able to relax, he needs to know he MUST go slowly and listen to you. Above all you must use LOTS of lube specifically for anal.

Position can also be important, some positions (being on all fours for instance) will tighten that area and make insertion more difficult, whereas being on your back or side will make things a little easier...

Its best to start off getting you used to sensations back there, maybe him licking you if you are both up for that - or applying lube generously (take some time to enjoy this) before attempting to (slowly) insert a (well nail trimmed) finger..
Try not to tense up as it enters you - pushing against the object actually makes entry easier... Once it is inside, you must try to relax round it as this will then mean that he can try fucking you. See how this feels.
Hopefully good :) Maybe try masturbating with something inserted - it can really intensify your orgasm!

Once you have adjusted to one finger inside, you could try a second or maybe a toy you have bought for this - a nice vibe or plug is a good way to get used to being filled.. (and can feel really great) This way you can work up to something approaching the girth of his cock.

When you are ready (and well prepped), you can try the real thing - spooning is a good first position to try, get him well lubed up (and try to keep him from going in too eagerly). He'll want to get thrusting right away but he needs to wait a moment until you have relaxed and are ready...

Hope that helps hun xx

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Posted January 03 2010 - 01:27 PM

I had anal with a fuck buddy years ago that was a botty virgin. She was a surfer chick with a tight little body, curly blonde hair , she was 4 foot 11 and tiny ! Her ass fit into the palm of my hand :) one night we were having the usual out of it marathon sex and she asked me to pop her in the ass .. well i have to tell you my cock got so hard i almost passed out .. Seeing she was so small and i have a pretty good size donger we went about it like this , Lots of lube , heaps of foreplay , Good music , some relaxing type drinks and what not , and we lay on our side so she was in control of pushing her ass onto my cock, this is important , to feel in control , only you can gauge how much you want in there and when .. . i had the job of keeping erect ( no prob the prospect of being in her ass was enough lol ), kissing her neck and feeling her tight little body to keep the vibes good .. I didnt move or push at all .. after about 15 to 20 mins of very slow working it went in ... My eyes peeled back , it felt like nothing i ever had before .. She sung in continual orgasm for about 30 mins ... and i mean her pussy was dripping so hard she wet the bed .. it was so hot ! we went really slow the whole time , her ass got wet too for some strange reason .. anyway i blew in her ass and im sure it came out of her nose .. it felt like my kidneys went through the eye of my dick lol That was burned into my memory , it was a totally cool experience. The ass can strech pretty good if you relax , dont have fear , just accept it and want it from inside you . its special if you care about the person ..

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oh and make sure you have a good diet of prune juice and fruit a couple of days before , you want that ass and poop chute to be clean. Do not put the dick anywhere near your mouth or vag after , make sure the guy has a good wash and a good piss after to clear out.

Enjoy ! ass sex rocks :)

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Posted January 03 2010 - 02:09 PM

Hi Abby..

Best thing you can do is work up to it slowly.. Some people need to work up to it over several (or more) sessions.
So you don't need to go all the way first time - and please don't get discouraged if there is discomfort or some pain.
If you go to fast it CAN be uncomfortable or painful, but this means you're either too tense and need to relax further or that he is going to fast/hard.

You need to be able to relax, he needs to know he MUST go slowly and listen to you. Above all you must use LOTS of lube specifically for anal.

Position can also be important, some positions (being on all fours for instance) will tighten that area and make insertion more difficult, whereas being on your back or side will make things a little easier...

Its best to start off getting you used to sensations back there, maybe him licking you if you are both up for that - or applying lube generously (take some time to enjoy this) before attempting to (slowly) insert a (well nail trimmed) finger..
Try not to tense up as it enters you - pushing against the object actually makes entry easier... Once it is inside, you must try to relax round it as this will then mean that he can try fucking you. See how this feels.
Hopefully good :) Maybe try masturbating with something inserted - it can really intensify your orgasm!

Once you have adjusted to one finger inside, you could try a second or maybe a toy you have bought for this - a nice vibe or plug is a good way to get used to being filled.. (and can feel really great) This way you can work up to something approaching the girth of his cock.

When you are ready (and well prepped), you can try the real thing - spooning is a good first position to try, get him well lubed up (and try to keep him from going in too eagerly). He'll want to get thrusting right away but he needs to wait a moment until you have relaxed and are ready...

Hope that helps hun xx



Well he has done it before, so I'm not worried about him not knowing to go slowly and injuring me, which I have heard many horror stories about. :eek: I trust him enough to let him do this to me and I think it will be a very enjoyable experience for the both of us.

I have been curious about this for a while now, he has licked my anus and we both enjoy doing that to eachother. :) I mentioned that we try anal after he slipped his finger in there and I reacted with such delight, haha. So he thinks it will be something that I will like very much. I know being relaxed is a major thing in all this, I never thought about lying on my side as opposed to getting into a doggy-style posistion which is what he suggested we do. But it makes sense that being on all fours would tighten the hole up too much for him to get in there. There is also quite a bit of height difference between us, I'm 5'2 and he is 6'1 so being on our sides might help us out with that as well.

Thanks for the advice! :cheers2:

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Posted January 03 2010 - 02:36 PM

Good point , Surfie Girl was 4'11" and im 5'11" laying on the side was great for alignment and she could straighten her legs more , this may have helped her relax her anooos ( from borat dictionary ) Hmm i wonder where she is today ... hmm .. aah lol

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Posted January 03 2010 - 07:34 PM

As for the position, you could do doggy if you wanted to, but unless you are relaxed it can really hurt as penetration can go much deeper from this position.

He has to make sure and go very slow and warm you up, I can't stress rimming enough. The key to the backdoor is the tongue. Have him give you a good rim job, as you said you guys already are accustom to.

I'd suggest that you get on top. From this position you can control the speed, angle, and depth of penetration. Riding in my experience is the best for anal virgins, it gives the woman a sense of confidence and security that she's in control and can stop anytime if she feels discomfort or pain.

Make sure you are clean. You can Use an enema if you'd like, you can get it from the store it's called Fleet, Wal-mart or any drug store will have it.

You don't have to use an enema if you have a good BM and thoroughly wash your self.

You plenty of lube, a lot of women prefer silicone as it doesn't dry up. It' your choice if you want to wear condoms or go bareback, the lube will work for either.

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Posted January 08 2010 - 02:40 PM

Something I don't understand about women receiving Anal Sex. The pleasure experienced by men is easily understandable by direct stimulation to the Prostate Gland, but as this doesn't exist in women, is the stimulation to purely mental, or does the penis stimulate the 'G' spot through the membrane of the rectal wall, or what?


The nerve endings around the sphincter are very sensitive, so you're still getting that sensation.

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Posted January 10 2010 - 04:05 PM

Make sure you are clean. You can Use an enema if you'd like, you can get it from the store it's called Fleet, Wal-mart or any drug store will have it.

You don't have to use an enema if you have a good BM and thoroughly wash your self.

You plenty of lube, a lot of women prefer silicone as it doesn't dry up. It' your choice if you want to wear condoms or go bareback, the lube will work for either.


Hmm I heard that enemas can cause irritation and even tears when you use one before having anal sex. Is that true? Cause... ya that's not a good thing. :eek:

We have a lube that we use, it's waterbased and it's always worked well for us. I cant use the tingly or warming ones cause Im too sensitive.

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Posted January 10 2010 - 06:49 PM

Hmm I heard that enemas can cause irritation and even tears when you use one before having anal sex. Is that true? Cause... ya that's not a good thing. :eek:

We have a lube that we use, it's water-based and it's always worked well for us. I cant use the tingly or warming ones cause Im too sensitive.


It's essential that when you use enemas that you wait before using them. I would suggest waiting 1-2 hrs. The water in the enema strips the internal mucus from your rectum, which can make your ass sensitive to friction can can cause irritation, soreness, and possibly fissures.

If you wait 1-2 hrs. then the mucus in your anus will hopefully be replenished and this will not be a problem.