Ejaculate/Cum too fast?

Hey everybody, I need some help. For some reason whenever I have sexual intercourse with my girlfriend, or in that matter, with every girl I have ever been with, I dont last longer then usually maybe 3-5 minutes after we start having intercourse, and I hate it, Is there anything wrong with me? And how can I prevent being "done" so fast?

Please help! Its embarassing for me!

Thanks.

 

masturbate before you have sex with her (as in, earlier in the day).... tends to make men last a little bit longer

 

I tried, lol, Doesnt really work...unless maybe I did it like 30 mins before...I am a horndog

 

That works and there are creams you can buy that numb the skin of the penis a little that help you to last longer. The main thing is foreplay - if you have used your hands and mouth right she has got off a lot before you and her even start. That way any she is ready to keep having organisms and there is not as much pressure on you to last a long time. Also do not stop when you cum. Still lots of fun things you can do. Vibrators and toys are nice for both of you to use also. Do not make the penis the center of your sex life.

 

condoms? desensitizing cream? Maybe when you are masturbating, try to hold back from orgasming... build up your endurance that way

 

What about Stamina-RX?

 

of course their is NOTHING wrong with you--lots of guys cant hold thier cum, but just b/c you cum it doesnt mean you have to stop. After you cum, just keep going, your young and can go like a bunny rabbit. So next time you have sex and cum, dont stop fucking. Your penis will stay hard and you can have multiple orgasms and ejaculate multiple times with out going limp.
trust me
Have fun!!

 

It does get a little limp...but not really a whole lot, heh, I just hate cummin that fast, does anybody know about Stamina-RX? Or other things I could do?

 

I guess I'm a virgin...this is my first post. I'm going to give it from a woman's point of view...hope you don't mind

To me, what your describing, as far as fucking goes, is a quickie. A quickie is what I want
when I don't have a lot of time to devote to a good sexual encounter. First off..plan on a few hours when you start taking off your girls clothes. Just because you put your cock in her doesn't mean you can't take it out and enjoy her another way before you cum. Fuck her slow for a while...don't concentrate on anything except pleasing her. TALK to her. If she likes dirty talk, then go for it...if she likes sweet talk, then take that route. Then give her a few hard fucks and pull out. Play some more..fuck some more..draw it out until she's begging for you to fuck her hard...then you can cum. I've known a lot of guys who think that once their cock is in that its over...doesn't have to be that way and it shouldn't be unless you only have time for a quickie.

 

ummmm, try this out

there is a muscle like between ur balls and ass, its the muscle u use to stop peeing in the middle of peeing, im sure u know what i mean, ur taking a piss and when u want to stop u squeeze this muscle, it will also make ur penis jump a little, u can make it dance lol. well if u exercise this muscle enough u can stop ur cum from cuming too, i used to be able to hold myself from ejaculating and maintain my erection, and do this several times in a row until i finally threw in the towel, to exercise it just like, tense the muscle for a few seconds release, do it again and again for like 10 times, and do that maybe 3 times, and also try doing long flexes of it, for like 10 sec long, these are the ones that will matter, cause when ur about to come ur going to need to flex it strong and for a good chunk of time till the feeling passes and ur safe again. hope this helps, all else fails take anti-depressents lol, i used to be on those i could barely ejaculate if i wanted crazy side effect

 

Dude, thats hard, but ill give it a shot, haha, sounds like fun...but I just tried it, I need practice! It aint easy flexin that muscle. lol

 

nvm, ehhh

 

Whats that supposed to mean?

 

Vault, Most of those products like Stamina RX are not worth the money. The best fix is what was suggested before, and it also works for women who want more intense orgasms (Not organisms, LOL!) Keep flexing that pelvic floor muscle! :3

 

i think that like 90% of guys have that problem. i've never really heard anything to work.

spaddy, what kind of antidepressants were you on? i heard that is a side effect, but i was on some for a while for other things and it didn't change a thing sexually.

 

just ignore all sexual urges for a moment an conciously desencitize yourself, or think of cars... unless your a car person and that make u go faster then think of the marenada trench in the atlantic,... unless that reminds u of a vagina, or think of how those birds pick bugers out of water buffalos nostrils... unless your an animal lover... in this last case get off the girl bcause animal loving is how that one std got started, w/ the greek sheepfarmer... damn wat is it called?

 

just ignore all sexual urges for a moment an conciously desencitize yourself, or think of cars... unless your a car person and that make u go faster then think of the marenada trench in the atlantic,... unless that reminds u of a vagina, or think of how those birds pick bugers out of water buffalos nostrils... unless your an animal lover... in this last case get off the girl bcause animal loving is how that one std got started, w/ the greek sheepfarmer... damn wat is it called? Syphilis
yes got it... well i dont personally have it... i just remembered it

 

I just wanted to add some comfort to everyone by saying, there's no such thing as premature ejaculation, it's called efficiency.

 

lol

 

ARGH!!! No desensitizing creams! All it will do is make sex shitty for you and make you lose your erection. If you want to learn to last longer, you need to SENSITIZE yourself
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