do guys grab your arse in pubs? do they think it's charming, urbane, witty? I mean, i'm not even hot, (nor is my ass) so what are they trying to accomplish? grrrrrrr, this may come as a shock to them but I came out to dance, not to have my bum groped by some pissed meat sack who thinks he's suave, and yet you can't go anywhere without you and/or your friends being felt up at least once each. it's icky and my unimpressed factor is high... where have all the men gone who prefer an intellectual conversation (or even just a conversation) to cupping stangers bums?
uhh... they/we do it because we dont think about it =D Ure wrapping your head too much around this one.
i'd prefer to have a nice conversation with a girl then trying to grab her ass. I have never done that, seeing as how i dont see why women would want men to, as you said. Many men are just horny beasts that find pleasure out of doing things like that.
oh i thought u meant, grab their own asses... now that I understand... I guess because they are assholes and are horny beasts, like penguin said...
worse yet is when they grind their crotches into your ass in an attempt to dance, drunkenly, before you've even seen their face let alone learned their name. I do not want to feel someone's genitalia without knowing who they are. I don't understand it either... I just go to the bar to dance. If I wanted to hook up with someone, I'd be batting my lashes and either motioning them over or approaching them on my own, I don't need to feel your crotch first. :X
oh i know. i went to an incubus concert once and this guy behind me 'fell' over and could only save himself by reaching around and grabbing hold of my boobs. it's just not a good start.
hehe, this happened to me the other night at a festival for the first time... I was dancing at like 3 in the morn in a tent and this guy who had introduced himself and gave me a beer thought that provided all authority to put his hand on my ass... (he was behind me while I was dancing) I was like "wtf?" and finally had to run away to the other side of the stage. Silly guys, that move is not gonna get you anywhere... if we like you, we'll approach you so quit your groping
I have my ass groped in public transportation or crowded places quite often. I like wearing sexy outfit. It seems to be an invitation for guys...I am not changing my clothes...lol
maybe they're not trying to grab your ass, but trying to grab your dirty clothes in an attempt to tell you to change into something fresh and clean.
Try turning round and grabbing his crotch, look him in the eye, and say, you hurt my feelings, the least I can do, is return the favour! Ever seen a grown boy cry?
i should hope no guy grabs my ass in a pub. but its kinda weird guys seem to like me more than girls. too bad im into girls what a waste it is
So you are saying it is okay for men to sexually assault you because you are asking for them to do so by wearing sexy clothes?