Hi Ricki. First of all, yes, a guy should be honest with his girlfriend or wife about this but it’s not always easy for him to be as we’re sometimes afraid of rejection and or ridicule, especially from a loved one. I myself was honest about this from day one with my woman and it was, still is and will always be all good. Secondly, no you shouldn’t feel inferior at all. Just because a guy is sexually curious or enjoys sex with guys doesn’t mean he’s seeking something you can’t provide. It just means that he enjoys the best of both worlds. I’m not quite sure exactly how to explain this but I’m doing my best. I for instance love the hell out of my wife and could never compare or compete with the sex she provides. It’s incredible and special but I also enjoy dick, lol. I don’t know how else to put it. It’s a completely different and unrelated thing. She gives me all that I could ever want or need as far ascsex with women goes.
Every guy like you talks like you do though You are tired of labels, yet you feel the need to take the time to re-enforce to us you are masculine and rugged You adore women, but you cum harder with guys Women are absolutely essential emotionally? What the hell does that even mean? You can watch rom coms together? Or if you want to be a big sissy and have a cry a female will at least pretend to be supportive, whereas guys wot really give a shit. .....or does it really mean you can have physical contact with a girl and it wont always lead to her wanting to pull down your pants and you two 69ing each other like it would with guys Girls that are with guys like you longterm always come in two types: 1. Ok with your bi-ness from the start, because they think it means they wont have to have sex as often / hubby wont be perpetually cranky if she is his only outlet 2. Get turned on by two guys getting it on more than anything else. A small subset of the female population, but you have to work out how they got to be like that in the first place You are never really hiding anything
men are obsessed with their cocks nothing more so obsessed by being blown they wanna try it themselves so many guys wanna bj but funnily enough don't wanna be bummed too gay for them
My first thought is that both of them would have the same desires to keep things secret. I have several gay friends (strictly friends), but I could just imagine that if things did ever go too far, they would be around banging on the door a few days later and expecting more than just a cup of coffee and a chat. LMAO.
I've experienced shared oral with a number of other married men and personally find nothing wrong with it. I've always had sexual relationships with women and always will but occasionally I enjoy sucking on another mans cock. I don't consider myself gay but others may. I find certain men's cocks to be quite sexy and if two married men (to women) like to suck each other off from time to time, which I've done many times I see nothing wrong with it.
LOL..... It's Called "Being In Denial".......I Suck Cocks.... BUT.....Because " I" Think I'm STRAIGHT..... Therefore I Am...LOL.. A Thousand LOL's Would Be A Gross Understated Response To This Drivel....... Cheers Glen.
seriously, gay is not an insult. it's just a word to describe something. i don't understand all these people who feel the need to say "i match the definition of gay perfectly, but i'm not gay."
Straight guys do not have sex with straight guys... Gay guys have sex with gay guys... pitcher or catcher if you do that you're still gay
I'm sorry that you see your life in only black or white, no greys, even though there are millions of shades of grey. You are looking at male sexuality in the same way: straight or gay, no men who are bisexual. Many, many men are Bi. Whether it's 99.99% straight and only .01% gay, that's Bi. Or 50% straight and 50% gay, that's Bi. Or .01 straight and 99.99% gay, that too is Bi. I have no doubt that of the thousands and thousands of "straight" men (men who have never been with another man sexually) who are New England Patriot fans and think Tom Brady is the reason that the sun rises every morning, many, under the right circumstances, (drinking too many bottles of Samuel Adams at Tom's house with his wife, Gisele Bundchen, out of town) would get down on their knees and give Tom the best blow job of his life. Or give up their butt to Tom, Broke Back Mountain style. Would that make them Gay? No! It would make them ever so slightly Bi. You put forth 2 different theories in your post. #1 - "Straight guys do not have sex with straight guys" Absolutely true. As long as you are talking about men who are 100% straight. #2 - "Gay guys have sex with gay guys" Once again, absolutely true. As long as you are talking about men who are 100% gay. #3 - "...pitcher or catcher if you do that you're still gay" Absolutely NOT. Sounds like you are homophobic and have little understanding of sexuality.
The only people that give a shit about such distinctions are bi guys on the down lo. One cock in your mouth, thats all it takes, then you arent straight anymore. And, well, the gay guys wont touch you cos most of you dont look after yourself