My friend of over 6 months his completely ignoring me. It was a complicated relationship but to get to the point, we both knew we loved each other and she had to clear some things from her past in order for her to move on with me, so I gave her space. She didn't clear those things up, so I had to move on. She sent me a text wishing me happy birthday 10 minutes before the birthday night was over. Recently I mailed her a x-mas gift and texted her to see if she received it and also thanking her for bday wishes as well, and no response. A mutual friend says that she has a lot on her mind and has been stressed out. If it's over I can completely move on, but it feels like she can text me anytime I want to and I can't to her. She's all I think about and I have gone out with a lot of girls ever since. It's hard to forget about someone when a text pops up every 2 weeks. I feel like maybe she is not strong enough to hear my voice but why is she ignoring me? Should I really forget about her?
txt her back next time and tell her that if she's not down for it, to leave you alone and never come back. But if she is down, that she needs to go down on you like pronto before you have her number blocked. Otherwise, fuck that bitch. Seems like a teenage thing to do - girls are fuckin' nuts sometimes.
Forgive but don't forget. I don't mean hold a grudge, what I mean is.... don't burn a bridge. You never know when you may need access again.
Just ignore her texts going forward, don't speak of her to friends and if they bring her up just reply with I'm done. If you hang on the line, they think they can reel you in whenever so you lose priority status. Swim away from the bait though, and watch them start fishing.
