when you and your partner love each other but cant understand or listen anymore..... Could it be the fact that seeing each other everyday ends up the magic of love??????? What do you think? what have you done? ...............
Well, you didn't give out a lot of information so here are some thoughts (they may or may not apply directly in your case): Seeing each other every day can potentially end up the "magic of love", but it doesn't have to. The "magic" of love is not a constant thing. It's like the changing of the tides. It comes and goes. You will not always feel "in love" with your partner. You will not always feel "romantic". You will not always be "in the mood". The good news is you will not always feel "out of love", "unromantic" and "not in the mood" either. Generally speaking, you can always choose to listen. You won't always be able to understand. The problem is, are you really listening to your partner or are you just hearing what you think he/she is saying? And even if you do listen properly, you will not always understand. Sometimes a relationship cannot be salvaged despite your love. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is end it.
Even though the romance and "newness" of the relationship might go away......seeing eachother everyday should not prevent you from listening to eachother or understanding eachother. If anything, those areas should grow stronger. If the two of you no longer understand eachother or are no longer listening to eachother there are other things going on. It could be that now you know eachother better and realize the two of you are not as compatible as you thought or that you are just getting on eachother's nerves a little bit. Do you have friends that you spend time with away from your partner? Either way, the two of you need to sit down and talk about the changes in your relationship.
