Well im pretty tired of waiting for girls to talk to me, but it always seems too hard for me to speak first.. What would you do or did do that helps you to speak to other women? How did you improve your game? I know they're just other people, but i just go blank sometimes and then the awkward silence just steps in.. Any tips?
practice practice practice .... i too was 19 and had the same issues you mention. I think most young men do. for the most part men (especially the ones with all the hormones racing around) only think about getting laid. this becomes you main focus, your main drive. Get that out of your head and you will be able to talk to any woman anytime. Just try to carry on a normal conversation much like you would with a friend of your. If fact, try the things you might do when wanting to make friends with someone. Talk about the weather, about what's happening in the news... sports even. She may hate sports or likes a sport other than what you like. No matter what you talk about be interested in what she has to say... genuinely interested. try your hardest here. it is most important. When anyone speaks they like to be listened to so do that. Primarily, keep sex off your mind and you will be fine. When a young woman thinks that is all you want, you won't get anywhere ... good luck.
just TALK whats so hard about that. be a little be relaxed. and think of easy things to start off like a class you two share or a move. and STOP staring at her tits that may help lol (i blame sugar rush).
TheWhoRocks, was right on the money about practice, practice, practice. Try to find a job selling door to door, it forces you to speak to strangers, you could even try selling stuff at flea markets, basically the same thing, if you don't speak you don't make money. It worked for me. Peace
... ^^^ ... These guys don't know what they're talking about. Just walk up to random strange (and not so strange) women and say, "I'm horny. Let's go fuck." Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Have fun and play safely!
