Thinking about letting it all go.

I think there's a ride board on some of the RBF sites, but they don't seem to be very active.

 

Glad those thoughts have subsided, keep working at it man. One day at a time.

 

Yeah doesn't help any that my ex just brought her new crush over to hang out. Can't wait till I'm outta here man

 

Get out of there! I would pull her aside and politely excuse myself. If they're at your place, dang... Say you want to go out and watch a movie together or something. Anything to not have to be there!

 

Yeah I did. He hates my guts anyway so best to have just skipped out.

 

Yeah, what the hell? You'll be ok bro, like you said, things will be better when you get away from all that. You will find a woman much better than that later when you get yourself together. She's just going to make someone else's life miserable now. Drama....

 

As I said in that long ass post at the beginning it was just as much my fault as hers that the relationship went tits up. Still wish she'd at least have had enough respect for me to hold off bringing him around till I was gone. Is less than a month till my departure if the plan holds.

 

Hang in there bro, hopefully you don't have any strong feelings left for her. That can complicate things.

 

The math doesnt seem to add up. So this third child is what 1 yr old, permanently on a ventilator, and she is bringing another dude around to chill with?

 

It should've added up to his being 3 years old man. We've been together for 8 years in marriage
First kid was a year after we got married second was two years after that and this last was almost 4 years ago. But yes he is permanently on a vent & yes she has been bringing this other guy over

 

I totally agree. Do you think she could be talked into doing this?

 

No I requested that courtesy when I first found out about him. She brought him over less than a week later.

 

It's too bad it has to end this way

 

She made her decision

 

Jeez, she sounds like a piece of work

 

Well I wasn't a good husband so maybe in her eyes I didn't deserve the respect of not having to deal with the new guy

 

Your story was very touching, and in several ways very relatable.

Get out there and backpack it up. I have found a nomadic lifestyle to be very therapeutic.

 

Nah... She doesn't get the right to be disrespectful just because you weren't a great husband. She wasn't a great wife either.

 

You may be right.

Yeah plan to give it a go.

 

I can't believe her disrespect to you, in bringing him over before you left...

Never thought kitty would do that to you!

Take some time out, go back packing, see some of your dreams, she obviously has hers now.. go get it man..