The Real Reason why Porn is dangerous

I was thinking recently why Porn is actually dangerous to average looking males and females ....

Im not here to discuss about religion and politics - im here to talk about something I thought about recently ...


The majority of the Internet is Porn .. and its very difficult to get away from it; you can now get alot of it completely for free on the internet without signing up to websites and paying a subscription.

The problem here is that average looking people are seeing these really good looking people having sex with each other - perfect genitals/perfect boobs/ass and giant cocks - they are seeing these people having porn-star sex. Which of course .. as everyone knows .. is not normal sex. Alot of the youth today are brung up with Porn .. so its only natural in the sense they attempt this 'porn-star' sex.

Pornstars are highly trained professionals who know how to make sex 'really good'(just like WWE Wrestlers know how to wrestle for the camera) - the average person does not know how to act in this way ... so when they try to .. they wonder what is going on and can damage the other person or themselfs.

Now we have a generation of average looking people looking for partners who are as good looking as the pornstars - The problem here is that now average looking people can be exploited big-time.

1. You join pay/free dating site if you are single/lonely and you have been programmed to search and find the really attractive looking partners - most of these profiles that people are trying to communicate with are

1)bots (80%) - the purpose of having a bot on a profile website is so that average people will stay joined to the website .. while in the meantime trying and trying to find their 'perfect looking' partner; with each click of a new page to a new profile ... you are exposed to alot of advertising e.g 'buy this dating guide - you will be very successful' 'read this advice .. and then buy this other book'.. this is how the free dating website makes money .. and also keeps average people joined to the website

These bots also fill up that number you see on dating websites (192,199,299 members) and make the websites known for having massive amounts of singles

2)Real life good-looking scam artists(15%) - these people are professionals at roping fragile lonely people .. making them think they are in love with them and evenually draining them dry emotionally, financially and all other ways - the average person is also programmed to believe that they know when they are being scammed; but the really good artists .. can keep a scam going for years and years without anybody waking up to the scam until they are completely drained of everything

3)Real life normal good looking people/average looking people(5%) - average looking people have been exposed to 95% of garbage to this point .. so when they message a real life good looking person - they expect to get rejected; write completely stupid messages(because nothing else has worked with the bots)

all the while .. keeping in mind that everyone is still brainwashed with finding a good looking partner; everyone automatically overlooks the average looking person.


NEXT - Dating

Dating is a very silly term these days; the average person is programmed to believe in this thing called 'dating' - once a person believes in the term; this leaves them open to a whole world of advertising and brainwashing into all fields of money making.

1) learning the skills to date - both average looking males and females are exposed to buying books, videos, audiotapes on how to be successful at dating - I could name some brands .... But i think you most likely already know them

2)Cinema/Gifts/Theme Parks etc - this one is pretty obvious; once you have a "date"after all your time searching thru the garbage; the next thing you do is buy gifts/go to the cinema etc


The Trick - Its in everyones best intrests to support the other - e.g the dating websites support the dating books and vice versa; the theme parks support the cinema(action movie ride?) The gift bags support the gift; the teddy goes with the jewellery etc - two for one offers at the cinema(subliminally saying get a partner .. dont come alone)

Our generation is facing a whole different world approach to sex/finding a mate - it is plagued by advertising and not so pleasant experiences.

I think we all need to bypass the programming of porn/tv commericals of extremely 'beautiful' people - as in reality; everyone is beautiful .. even the one-eyed legless fat man to the anarexic midget female ... (these are extreme examples to drill the point home)

Another thing that porn does is desensitize people which leaves them hungry for more and more .more sex .. more extreme porn.... leaving people blinded to the joy of another human-being.

There is so much more to cover on this topic .... that I will leave to discussion - the last thing I will say is that if you havent really understood what im saying here ... I can give you a example

The way animals are mass produced for consumption; in those tiny environments; feed the fattening cheap food; overcrowding; and brutually murdered with no painkiller using primitive methods of murder.

Well we are the animals in the tiny environments(the internet/bedroom); eating the fattening cheap food(porn) - overcrowded(on dating websites/local bars) and the brutal torture(the purchasing of the side products ... brainwashing ... learning to forget your natural instincts and trade them for money making ideas/cheap booze/clothing and overpriced meals)

The only real difference between us and the animals ... is that they kill the animals quickily; they torture humans over a lifetime.

 

mmks.. I just show pictures of my nuts and the chicks come a running.. so whats the problem..

 

Perhaps the web is full of porn..but the only time I find it is if I am looking for it...I do this by typing "porn" or "sex" into google.
I do, however, believe porn gives off the impression sex is easy and everything goes smoothly...plus women want to do it porn star style all the time. I imagine most women don't feel the need to go "ass to mouth" all the time. It also isn't healthy for some people; it affects their minds.
But you can't really regulate it and you should not prevent it from being made. As I am sure Barny the dino' makes some people unhinged too.
I know it does me.

The majority of "kids" don't ultimately take advice from porn - in their long term outlook on sex, imo.

 

Hmmm, uh huh, ok

 

what i think is more pathetic is local tv stations that claim to have some kind of morals, broadcast all those fucking stupid talk line #'s at night.. call now, live sexy women willing to talk to you right now. the no stop viagra commercials.. and the viagra commercials are always some yuppy looking motherfuckers you just wanna punch in the face ..

 

I think the problem is that a lot of "weak" people like Ted Bundy get hooked on it and it twists their minds...most people look at it a little and move on...but some are weak and get hooked and turn violent.

 

who the fuck would complain if they had a erection for over 4 hours?

 

Porn is only dangerous if you believe it's real.

 

Honestly, I've been an avid hardcore pornography viewer since I was 9. With a computer and the internet you can satiate your natural boyhood curiosities with a mouse click.

While I'm sure porn has done alot of harm to me psychologically (high expectations, low respect for women, etc) it's also got me through some tough times where the pleasure of coming home from school and masturbating to porn was really the only thing I could look forward to or that made me feel happy in my life at that/those times.

 

I think that many people, especially radical feminists, greatly exaggerate the dangers of porn. However, porn is changing society and individuals and not always in a good way. Sebastunes has mentioned some of this.

First I'll mention some good aspects of porn. It helps lonely people have orgasms. It has lessened the shock value of nudity. It has weakened the censorship based on "community standards", altho I still think that censorship is one of the most undemocratic institutions in our society. It has encouraged a lot of people to improve their sexual techniques, mostly in a good way.

The bad aspects include the promotion of unprotected sex, unhealthy practices such as "ass to mouth", and unnatural acts like facials and money shots, which we see so much only because it sells porn. It has also caused more men to feel inadequate about their penises and caused a lot of women with perfectly fine breasts to get surgery.

 

someone with a broken wrist...
someone with no woman...
someone with no man...
someone with two broken wrists...
someone with arthritis in their wrists...


i could go on and on.

 

:smilielol5:

 

The internet is simply an unnatural place to look for sex.

Porn is great if taken as what it is. entertainment. Like fuck it is real like, anyone who believes any plumber will drop their pants upon entering a house will surely become an agoraphobiac in no time at all, barricading their doors and windows in the process.

I would never try and meet anyone online, I spend most of my time talking nonsense on this lovely forum or taking the piss out of someone somewhere else.

 

yeah it's unnatural but some people just can't get any and they don't have a good imagination, so they can wank to their computer. think of those people.
personally i don't dig porn, but really some people would be so tense.

 

as in my other post, these things generally recede into nastiness.

 

This isn't really a porn issue. Hollywood has been inflating people's expectations since the first movies and movie theaters. There has always been a learning curve in terms of what you can get in the dating market.

This happens because people confuse fiction with reality. Do they have anyone to blame but themselves? Porn videos are not marketed as documentaries. Viewers need to wise up and start figuring out how the world works.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's the truth.

 

I disagree with the OP in so many ways that I won't attempt to rebut point-by-point. It's like blaming guns for murders and blaming alcohol for alcoholism. I think the majority of people understand that porn is a fantasy and has no real application to themselves.

Does anyone even buy that the women in those vids are actually having orgasms? Are you actually saying that average-looking people will only accept beauty queens in real life b/c of watching porn? If it feeds sexual desire, wouldn't people be more likely to hook up with an average-looking person? Maybe I'm the unusual one, but this seems like a sunday school lesson. I think if a person is so easily effected by porn, it would've happened with or without porn.

 

(LMAO) i'm sorry, but this has to be the most funny thing, i have read on porn since the meese commission, back in the mid 1980's!
this is all just so goddamn goofy!
(ROFLMAO!)

it never ceases to amaze me, no matter how much this stuff is disprovern, that people hold on to their blinded faith no matter what.

 

I'm considered "below average" and porn doesn't make me want only perfect "porn star" looking woman. I just need something to do with these erections I keep getting!

 

That's one of the dumbest things I have ever read on these forums, and that says a lot.