Im in this relationship with this wonderful guy and long story short im in love. He's going into the marines come september... Well lately we hadn't been talking much we live like a town apart but we get to see each other whenever we can and have an amazing time. i tried texting and calling but nothing, well one drunk night i texted him and he responded and we talked for a few.... and i was worried so i sent an "accidental text" that said something along the lines of i dont want my heart broken, but i dont think he will, but u know what we always say and its def. true. (me and my friend always say if you play with fire, you get burned, but you keep coming back for more...sucks to be a pyro) well i played dumb and he asked about it and i explained and he never texted me back. I went to see him and talk about it and he said it upset him and he was just being a dick! but other than that his phone had been dead and he lost the charger. I went to see him last night and talk some more....he said he didn't know. he had alot of stuff running through his mind..like what happens come september? he said he was going to be in all of these different countries and shit and i still had one more year of school. I told him i didn't care. I freaked out about this earlier in the relationship and he told me i was over thinking and that was a long ways away and everything would be fine, but now he is freaking out about it, and its ruining a good thing, what we have now. The thing is i dont care about waiting, i knew what i was getting myself into. im proud he's doing what he loves, im proud hes going to be a marine, i love him. What do i do!?! How can i get him to calm down and stop thinking about this so much
I may not know much, But I know when I am freaking out I just want to be hugged and held by my girlfriend. Be told everything is going to be ok. I mean when you are freaking out, what do you want him to do? I would think you want him to be there to tell you everything is going to be ok and be held by him. Maybe he just needs you. Maybe he justs needs you to be with him. I don't know much but that is what I would want.
Ok, this guy is becoming cannon fodder and you are in love, but can't give him space to put his head together about possibly dying? He might not want to have someone worrying back home.
fricking sissy.. and this guy is going to be a ?Marine.. lol.. He should be more concerned about the job he will be conducting. Not some women!! I saw alot of children(pttf grown men) overseas (wah wah I miss home, I miss my girlfreind) Guess what? that distraction cost them their life..
It's so far away still... he doesn't think about dieing or getting shot becayse the people who do get shot lol. but i did that. i hugged him and cried in his arms and told him i didn't care, and that i'd be here when he gets back i wish he would get shit together
If he is having this much problems now before even going into the marines, then how the hell is he gonna make it in the marines? I understand you want him to get his shit together, but I don't think you can calm him down about the marines. Maybe he is afraid of it, maybe now he doesn't want to go? He could be freaking out because he may in the end lose you. Have you asked him why he is freaking out? If so what did he say? I mean who wants to go into the marines, when back home they have a girlfriend that they love. In the end something could happen to him and he doesn't come home. Maybe he knows something like that may happen and he is freaking out because of the way it will be for you.
