Sister in law messing with my marraige

I know everyone is constantly being judged on their bodies by the opposite sex but what about the same sex and I don't mean this in a homosexual context.

Last year I bought my sister in law and her equally chubby friend to the gym in an effort to get in good with the in laws.

I just wore a track suit to the gym and wasn't wearing any underwear, cause my work out kit was there and I had a clean set to wear after. my sister in law had ignored what I asked them to do and just come in tracksuits.

So they stand their looking at me in the changing room while I'm getting changed. Then she starts lecturing me about needing to wear a bra while I've got my sports bra in my hand. I'm the very model of patience. At that stage it hadn't occurred to me that I also shave my pubes and don't have a tan line.

Anywho The workout didn't go so well mainly because she was lazy and couldn't understand the need to get your heart rate up and sweat rather than bimbling on the thread mill and watching the tv.Although her friend in fairness was more interested.

In the locker room afterwards my in law discovered the shower was open plan, and didn't want to be naked in front of other people, so I said fine I'd shower first then stand outside and ask everybody to wait. although her friend did shower with me.
We were going to dinner afterwards and waiting to shower at home wasn't an option.

When i got out of the shower my in law was changing into her fresh clothes and i just flipped (i'd been the picture of calm up untill then) I told her she was walking home unless she showered and that she was getting into the shower. the words 'dirty minger' were mentioned

She started welling up and we had a bit of a barnie but she did agree to shower in the end, and i did stand outside asking people to wait.

anyway my hubby and I talked about it that night and i agreed to apologize, for a quite life, which I did.

A few days later my hubby mentions in passing about how he'd prefer if i didn't shave my pubes anymore, I put two and two together went schiz and hubby and I had our first proper arguement. I knew before that my shaving my pubes made him uncomfortable but we had the conversation and we settled it.

So i was about to make hubby an only child,but eventually calmed down. But she has a big mouth and with a smalle circle of family it didn't help my reputation any.

So has anybody else being sized up for their body or how they keep it. like that. I know women are bad but men can be almost as bitchy I hear.. or as usual is it just me?

 

It's not just you, my ex was a large guy, and so was his sister. As soon as she found out that I had tattoo's she told the entire family in a effort for me to lose the respect of the family.

 

tie her up and throw her in the closetlol i accutaly did that to my GF"S sister. not that shes a mean person quite the opposite she fun as hell. she fell a sleep on the couch her fault. it was funny the whole family loved it. she was crying laughing the whole time. her father even opened the door looked in shook his head and closed it again.