Wow I certainly did not see that coming. I thought after all the bs you put up with his mother, you two were inseparable. In any case I hope you are really happy I'm now talking to my ex. I didn't speak to him for a month, and we've been talking since the beginning of May. We'lllllllll see how it goes. Not in a big hurry to get back together or be in a relationship.
^that's cool that you 2 are talking again after only a month. hopefully you will be really good friends one day, it's better that way i think ..
Sooooo, we're back together He flew home and back a few times (over the last 4 months) to his family farm while we worked things out. But he moved into my new place with me yeee
From what I've witnessed, there are two common extremes of how people are after a break-up. Some people take it positively as a time of being "free" and "go about" bettering themselves. Others tend to get depressed and/or angry. (Obviously not everyone reacts is these ways.). -- As for your comment about enjoying being single, I think that's great! -- I totally believe that a lot of people can live happy lives without a mate or a family. You don't need to decide right now if you think you should stay single forever.
So after about four years since the breakup, I wonder if she's still happily single and feeling free.
beyond the fact that she posted in this thread less than three months after the breakup that they were back together, in my experience every time a woman says "i'm single and i don't want to date" she is in a committed relationship within 3 days of making that statement.
Oh shit, you're right! I totally missed that post. So, I guess the question now is, are they still together? lol She hasn't been active around here in three years, so it's not likely we'll ever find out.