Really really worried about having sex with my girlfriend

So I've been going out with this girl for about 2 months now. I'm 19 and she's 18. I've basically been in love with her from when I first met her and I know she feels the same about me. I'm a virgin but she isn't. We haven't had sex yet. She wants to but every time she starts to initiate it, I stop her because I'm worried I wont be good enough for her. She's told me to not worry so much and that it'll be fine and she'll like it and even if it were shit, we would just have an excuse to have more sex. But it's not the performance I'm worried about. It's my size. I'm only about 5'3 inches long and maybe about 4'8 inches around. That's why I've never had sex before. I know that she would stay with me even if the sex was shit and I know if it was shit, she would still say it's good. I'm just so worried about her seeing it. Any advice?

 

1) get over it
2) become a monk

 

5 Foot 3 Inches Long, And 4 Foot 8 Inches Around....

That's A Bloody Big Dick Mate....



Cheers Glen.

 

unless she was an incredible whore she couldnt possibly have the experience to think one way or t'other about your unit...besides which it is plenty big enough for a teen girl...i dont think mine is that thick and i do ok

 

Stop watching porn, and get out there and fuck this girl!

It's like riding a scary roller coaster. You'll be nervous at first, probably a bit awkward. But after its over you're gonna want to do it over and over again.

Most women are turned on by confidence more so than a big dick. Remember that. Be proud of your little buddy, let him have some fun. You're the only one having an issue with it and you're missing out on what could be some amazing sex...

 

Obviously I meant 5.3 and 4.8 haha.

 

You have to think about it from her point of view. Penis size is a male problem, not a female one. Girls don't care about things like that. She wants to have sex with you because she likes you, and she doesn't care how big it is. Being nervous about first time sex is perfectly normal, but if she cares about you she will understand and sympathise, and try to help you enjoy it.

Also, don't think of it as a performance. Sex isn't entertainment, it's expressing your feelings for your lover. Sex with someone you love is wonderful, so don't delay it any further. (I gather she is sensible enough to ensure she doesn't end up with an unwanted pregnancy).

 

Don't over think it so much! That will only cause more problems when you do have it. There is so much more to being a good lover then the equipment you bring to the show. Don't forget you also have a tongue and two hands. Learn how to use those things as well and the size of your unit is not going to be a big deal. The only way you are going to learn how to use these things of coarse is by practicing so get in there and get busy.