Im a 19 yr old male. I have ocd pretty badly...Hocd lately if you all no what that is. My questions are- Is it normal for males to notice other attractive males? It seems i have been doing this lately and it bugs me and makes me qustion my sexuality. If it is normal why do men do this. In pornography is it normal to only like the porn when the guy has a big member. I am not usually turned on to porn unless the guy does... These question are bugging me .... I have always been staright but ever since these thoughts came in to my head i have obsessed!
"ocd pretty badly...Hocd lately if you all no what that is." No - no I don't. I probably don't want to know either. Maybe you should fwy the ocd and etfwy without the Hocd. This is a wonderful time in the world's history to question your sexuality. Have a great time trying each. Life's rich!!
IMO I don't think it's normal for males to notice other attractive males really, unless you are gay or bi. No big deal though. The porn thing sounds normal enough, who wants to see a hot woman with guy who has a small cock? "Big schlongs going into little women" is my motto when it comes to porn.
Straight, Bi, Gay is a simplification of human sexuality. Getting turned on by the sight of another man doesn't make you homosexual, anymore than orgasming from a BJ given by a man does.
I don't think that makes you gay at all. I know a good looking guy when I see one, but I'm not attracted to or aroused by them. Being able to say that a man is good looking is not the same as being attracted.
Speaking from one nineteen year old to another, you seem pretty "normal" to me--i.e., confused. What is "normal", and why is it important not to question your sexuality? You say that you've been "noticing" other attractive males. You didn't say that you're having lustful fantasies about them, are sexually attracted to them, want to ask them out, or that this is interfering with heterosexual relationships. If this is the case, you might have some gay or bi tendencies, in which case the next question is: so what? I think most so-called sex experts accept the idea that sexuality is a continuum, and that having an occasional homosexual thought, desire, or experience doesn't define you as "gay" or "bi". Do you have girlfriends? How is that going for you? Do you ever notice attractive females? I think the surest way to keep struggling with these thoughts is to identify them as a big problem and try really hard to keep them from coming into your head. If you aren't getting anybody pregnant or taking risks with STDs, you're doing good--normal or not.
Anyone who says they don't "notice" attractive people are lyring. It's pretty common for males to notice it. How the hell could you not notice it? It depends on the way you notice it though. You can be aware that someone is attractive but not be attracted to that someone. But if you are actually attracted to them, that means you aren't exactly straight. There are lots of levels between gay and straight, so you might be 98% straight and 2% gay. Also, I don't know about the porn thing. It seems that there are lots of guys (on this site even) who have this kind of cock worship thing where they aren't really into guys but cocks are intriguing to them. I have no idea, I've never experienced anything but disgust looking at a cock in porn. Just know that there's really nothing "normal" about anything sexual. Everyone is different and everyone has their own turn ons and stuff.
i mean im sure any guy could notice that another guy is attractive. its kind of like if you have a hot sister. you might say you don't know if she is hot or not, but you know.
The few times I do watch porn, If the guy has a huge shlong I'm jealous cause its huge and if he has an itty bitty one I resent him cause here he is with his millimeter peter and he's still screwing a beatiful woman... I rahte just not see cock at all really, but yeah I do notice if a guy is good looking, like if he has a good physic but i'm in no way attracted. Hell no.
This is kind of a complicated one, but I'll try and explain my experience with this issue. First, I will lay out that I am an asexual male, so in this case, it's only relevant to say males do not arouse me, or really attract me. But I have a friend, Bartolomeo, and another friend, Giovanni. So one day, we were talking about how horribly it would turn out if any girl tried to have sex with any one of us (basically, we wouldn't let it happen, and she'd feel defeated), and we were talking about how Bartolomeo would have a difficult time keeping the girls off his trail. I told him that especially that ass of his, he has a nice ass. Of course, I say that from the perspective of having seen plenty of males in my lifetime (after all, I pass by at least one every day), I know that by comparison to the majority of other guys (myself included) he has a nice ass. Not that that's the first place my eyes go (they usually never go there), but You get the idea. Most guys know what makes another guy attractive, or in Bart's case, what makes another guy's ass more "attractive." I probably really butchered this explanation, and came off sounding gay, but that's how I see the issue.
Tony is 28 now, so he has either gotten past that phase, has two kids and lives in the burbs, or he is teabagging a guy as we speak
