Premature ejaculation

I usually find NOT thinking about someone like Emma Watson or Maria Sharapova for an hour beforehand helps.

Seriously though, someone I knew (a transgender "shemale" like me) swore by just masturbating about an hour beforehand if she wanted to last a long time.

 

Hi. Really liked your post because this is the problem I'm having with my gf at the moment
We always did the oral thing first and i always made her have great orgasms.
Then after she was satisfied I used to enter here cos I never lasted long enough to just go right in, it wasn't fair on her.
Now though all she wants is penetration cos she says she is fed up with having orgasms just from oral. I'm finding this pretty tough and just wish she just went back to your attitude cos i have my work cut out

 

Try the Sets of Nine technique - eight shallow penetrations followed by one deep one, then seven shallow and two deep, six and three, etc. This can be repeated after a short "rest period" where you don't move.

Using a lube for masturbation is often necessary if you are circumcised, unless you have a "loose cut" like I have, which allows me to roll my remaining foreskin back and forth over the glans. If you are uncut, no need for lube usually.

 

Best lube for masturbation is olive oil - lasts a long time and good for your skin too..

 

I have some "distractions" that keep me going if my lady hasn't peaked yet.....

1 Count up from 101 in prime numbers.

2 Try to do really complex long division in my head (like 2673/39).

3 Remember Australian prime ministers in chronological order.

4 Come up with a number series (such as 12.9 adding 10% of the number, so the next one is 12.9 + 1.29, and so on).

Just don't do them aloud!

 

See, that's my problem. All I think about is sex, really. Even when I think about eating, I'm just thinking about what will feel good like sex, or be healthy so I can try to pretend I'm fit and sexy.

 

Cutted, what about PC muscle exercises (or male kegel exercises), in a short sentence?

 

Kegel exercises will help your ejaculatory control. You can exercise it by squeezing your anus muscle repeatedly, and doing it regularly. Also try edging- practice masturbating as close as you can to the point of ejaculating, and then pull it back. Do it again and again for a half hour, and you will recognize what works for you, and when you finally decide to cum, it will be a huge one. Try different masturbatory techniques - my favorite is to use olive oil, which is also good for the skin, holding the shaft skin tight and concentrating on stroking the coronal ridge and the "inverted v" on the underside of the glans.

 

Let me know of any success stories you have had after reading my 10 techniques. I have gotten a lot of positive feedback.

 

kegel exercise, it is really work?

 

Dear Friend,

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Due to processed food and poor digestive system, the goodness of the meal does not get assimilated into our cells. That's the key.
Chemicals should be a big no no. Also Shilajeet , Shilajit should be a no no because its a Herbo mineral and hs the same risk of toxicity as metallic Bhasmas.
KaamRas is a true, affordable solution. Try it and is equally beneficial for both men and women.

Important : there are persons on the net or otherwise, who would discourage you to try herbal products for sexual issues. I do not blame them. They must have been cheated by some herbalists. But if somebody practices a subject incorrectly, you cannot blame the subject.
The only way a herbalist can cheat some one in sexual issues is when they add chemicals in their medicines. But let me tell you , the chemicals shall show side effects in a single day. These chemicals including viagra work on the principle of raising the blood pressure, our does not. Our herbs work on the principle of stimulating the testicles. Also, the chemicals cannot get dissolved in liquid and if they do the color of the liquid can never be clear, as ours. Also, the chemicals come at a good cost, so they have to sell the stuff costly, ours is cheap in cost, but not in performance.
At present we are selling just 50 drops of our product, sufficient for a month or more for less than 9 dollars, so one can experience, later we shall sell with minimum 300 drops. So try it. We do not promise immediate miracle, but we promise you a sure shot solution, sooner.

Best Wishes, always.

 

Dear Friend,

India is the land of KaamSutra and Ayurveda. Here, for hundreds of years, the Kings directed their Hakims to formulate natural medicines, to make them 'ready', all the time, and at any age. Most of the products thus invented, had purified metallic powders like that of Gold and diamonds, and thus were very costly. In todays day and age, these metallic powders, being purified without character, still maintain some level of toxicity. Since, digestive problems are prevalent now a days, these toxicities can accummulate, apart from them being costly. We belong to a 105 years of family tradition of Practising Herbalists in India, locally called Hakims. We have created an affordable, purely herbal product, for all sexual issues. we have recently placed it on the eBay. It can be searched by the name KaamRas. Since we are new on eBay, when it sells, the product gets off the list for 24 hours. So if you do not to find it, you try the next day.
Due to processed food and poor digestive system, the goodness of the meal does not get assimilated into our cells. That's the key.
Chemicals should be a big no no. Also Shilajeet , Shilajit should be a no no because its a Herbo mineral and hs the same risk of toxicity as metallic Bhasmas.
KaamRas is a true, affordable solution. Try it and is equally beneficial for both men and women.

Important : there are persons on the net or otherwise, who would discourage you to try herbal products for sexual issues. I do not blame them. They must have been cheated by some herbalists. But if somebody practices a subject incorrectly, you cannot blame the subject.
The only way a herbalist can cheat some one in sexual issues is when they add chemicals in their medicines. But let me tell you , the chemicals shall show side effects in a single day. These chemicals including viagra work on the principle of raising the blood pressure, our does not. Our herbs work on the principle of stimulating the testicles. Also, the chemicals cannot get dissolved in liquid and if they do the color of the liquid can never be clear, as ours. Also, the chemicals come at a good cost, so they have to sell the stuff costly, ours is cheap in cost, but not in performance.
At present we are selling just 50 drops of our product, sufficient for a month or more for less than 9 dollars, so one can experience, later we shall sell with minimum 300 drops. So try it. We do not promise immediate miracle, but we promise you a sure shot solution, sooner.

Best Wishes, always.

 

Sometimes I think because we tend to get so turn on during foreplay or intercoure, we just let ejaculation happen & enjoy the moment it does.
Regardless if it's too soon or not?

 

I hate to admit it but this is bar none my biggest problem when having sex with my gf. I also perform better when I'm not sober but this takes away from the intimacy and its a totally different experience. I would be really interested to know if the herbal remedy that you were referring to actually works has anyone tried it?

 

No I just saw a giant text wall and went...NOPE not reading that.

 

Forget about herbal remedies...

 

PLEASE READ!

I haven't read everything on this post but I did read your tips and they haven't really helped me. I have been experiencing this premature ejaculation only recently and it really bothers me. My girlfriend and I have been together for some time now and we have sex around 3 times a week. Its perfect. Out of all of the times we have sex I have only had a premature ejaculation experience happen twice. Once from our first time not using a condom, and another after being away for about a week so no sex and no masturbation. Aside from this, every time we'd have sex it would last anywhere from 5-45 minutes. Average time being around 10-15 minutes. So there has never really been a problem. Although some of these days, actually most of these days, I would masturbate before seeing her because that usually helps me to control myself. However, about 2 weeks ago, one night that we spent together was very intimate and shared things about ourselves that really opened each other up and it was a very night and pretty emotional for her. The sex was amazing. Most intimate and best sex we've had. Wasn't the longest, lasted around 20 mins of penetration not including foreplay, but definitely the best. BUT... ever since then, I have been getting too excited too early and finishing too quick. The first time was when we were going to have sex one day and during foreplay she gives me a blowjob for like a minute but during this I was getting excited and finished within like 30 seconds to a minute... I was so embarrassed because we both couldn't wait to see each other that day and have sex. We did later but it ruined the moment. It happened again the next day, and the time after that. I even masturbated one morning, then again in the afternoon before going to her place and we had sex and it still was very quick. I've stopped, squeezed the head, distracted myself, and tried masturbating (TWICE!), but nothing helped. We had sex again that same day and although it lasted a little longer, but I still couldn't control it and finished too early. It has only been since that one night and even she says it feels better since then. She says she doesn't really care that I have been finishing too quickly but she has admitted that it isn't as fun. I just want it to last as it did and hopefully longer so we both could enjoy it more. What advice could you give me? Thanks.

 

Businessman - it does not sound like you have a real problem. Having PE once when not using a condom, when you usually do use one, and again after being away for a week does not amount to a problem. If it happens again, try some mental exercises to free your mind from thinking about your penis and what is happening down below.

 

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Edging, or orgasm control, is the practice of maintaining a high level of sexual arousal while delaying ejaculation.