New guy

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by stacy lulu, Nov 11, 2009.

  1. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    So after I told myself I was gonna take a break looking...a guy pops up. Oh well :)

    We hung out and talked. I find out hes 23 yr old father of 2, just got back from the army and now currently in the middle of a divorce after 3 years

    I didnt get much from why hes leaving her. all he told me was it wasnt working out

    but I figured the first meet, just a little too much to explain. Hes a gentlemen. Calls me gorgeous, pretty lady, doll face. Lol I love it. He has 2 kids. He just told me flat out. and my reaction was a smile and an "Okay"

    Hes very different from what I dated or my attraction to the assholes I meet. HE came to me this time, apparently ever since september he was asking about me after seeing my myspace at a friends house

    He works constantly and Im thinking he has school too. We want the same career oddly. Hes fighting for the kids too

    Im a little sad though right now. He hasnt talked to me in about 3 days. I dunno if hes busy or what. (yes I had it happen to me several times where they just stop talking) I asked if everythings ok and never got a respond back so I said call me when you can then and left it at that

    I have met a couple guys after him. I meet a lot of people constantly but they dont last long :p just to keep my mind busy, you know but I hate being just hung and confused. All I can do is wait, right?

    I just dont want to really blow him off. Hes a light through every dull guy I meet.
     
  2. Clouds1981

    Clouds1981 Member

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    Hmm well after not calling for 3 days could be that he is under alot of strain, divorce/fighting for the kids is a huge thing to deal with?

    Glad your keeping your mind busy :D dont wait around for anyone, your worth much more than that.
     
  3. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    they always, always come when you want to take a break/are not looking!!! :)
     
  4. natural philosophy

    natural philosophy bitchass sexual chocolate

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    so what do you want us to tell you?
     
  5. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    I wanted a second opinion to mine lol and Cloud has my opinion. I mean he couldnt be THAT busy not to tell me whats going on and leave me hangin, so im moving on lol
     

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