....id be asking for advice in the relationship im in now. Ive knwn my best friend for 2 years and dating him for coming up 7 months and he isnt romantic enough for me, im not saying it in a bitchy way but he'll go for weeks just hanging out with his friends and im on the phone with him during it and i just stay quiet, if i hung up it wouldnt make a difference to him. I beg him of a night with just me and him so I hope we're still in love but he only gives me one night and then hangs out with friends. He isnt doing it on purpose not to talk to me (i dont think) he loves going ouy...EVERY night and imn more of a home body, i dont party because i get in trouble a lot and it could ruin our relationship, so i hold back. I dont know what hes doing because hes in new york. When he does this, i feel useless and not really loved because what i dont get is that his apartment is at least 10 mins away every time hes somwhere but he doesnt wanna go home and these are DAYS again i go without him. It hurts me and then my mind starts to wonder off and think of someone else i shouldnt be thinking of but it seems like everytime my boyfriend is on his hanging out spree..i talk to one of my friends i like a lot, hes always talking to me when my bf is practically ignoring me on the phone. i dont want to break up with him because i couldnt handle myself, what would you do?
You shouldn't be in a relationship until you are completely satisfied with your own self. See, I know it's hard living without romance sometimes, but the thing is when you are in a relationship... eventually that fire dies. and when that fire dies, you're both back to being depressed again. So the thing is you need to worry about you first before you can be with anyone else. Make sure that you are content with yourself, otherwise you'll make eachother miserable. And I know how it feels to love someone when they aren't around, I'm military wife.
i dont fully understand that "being okay with myself" people have been saying it to me all the time. its just hard being romantic with him because he acts like im still his best friend and not his girlfriend-i dont mind if hes out for like 4 days but when it goes for weeks, i feel empty. and i told him that and i told him i like someone else but never in my life would i leave him for another man- i told him he has to physically, emotionaly, sexually do something to me in order to pack up my bags and i told him hes getting close to it on all 3 leaving me out like this, and hes like ill try harder...welll its stil the same. well we're on the same boat in a way and thank you for giving me advice
