little bit confused

Hi,

Im a bit confused! I've had alot of sexual encounters with girls i've also had some with one guy. Suffice to say i enjoyed all of them equally so im pretty sure im bi sexual on some level. The encounters with the guy, who i've known for a very long time and is one of my closest friends, never progressed further than mutual jerking off.

I do however feel horney around him sometimes and feel sexually atracted to him however I don't feel sexually aroused in the slightest when looking at any other mens bodies or nether regions, unlike the feeling i get when i see a naked woman.

So basically I was wondering whether anyone can shed any light on this, am I a complete mess lol or just a little bit bi?

 

I always considered lust to be bi-curious, love to be bi-sexual. Consider perhaps your feelings towards your friend, and how because of your friendship you have perhaps unexpectedly garnered feeling for him. That would explain the one guy thing, rather than the whole lot of them.

It would deem you as perhaps Pansexual if anything, where it comes down to an individual case by case rather than an attraction to an entire gender.

But it's up to you to decide on what it is, only you know your own thoughts and feelings that well. I, like many others, can only try to loosen the lid just so you can pop it off.

 

who knows what it's called, just go for what you like and love and have fun

 

Like Football. Love fucking.

 

I wouldn't say a straight or a gay person is attracted to an entire gender. I don't fancy every single person in the world. Just a few, so it's definitely down each person as an individual.

I hate labels; I don't like living in a box. If you like someone of the same or opposite gender, then you like them. That's all there is to it.

 

Didn't mean every person within that gender. I meant being able to go out and think he or she is good looking, and later maybe liking somebody else. The OP is stating a case of liking one person, who he is familiar with, instead of having a natural attraction to a gender in general.

Miss Pedantic

 

Im pretty sure i dont have loving feelings for him, I've been very much in love in the past with my previous girlfriend and its not the same thing, its more lust i think. I kinda agree that one shouldn't be forced into any one particular group or label, however it make me feel a little more coherent, as opposed to a jumble of mixed feelings and emotions

 

Then if it's simply lust, and only over this one person I can safely assure you that you must be bi-curious. I don't think it's terrible putting a label on things

for now on, I decree this: a new a label for those who 'hate being labelled', it's called 'tocooltobelabelled-sexual. For all of those individuals saying exactly the same thing

 

dude..why do people fight unnecessarily

 

If you're referring to me and TG we always fight, only difference is at the moment it is in rhyme

and that is not a crime

you stupid orange.

 

Imaginary believes he is always right, with him there is no question of fight or flight. Shame, he ruins the good name of the orange.

But, yeah we love to argue. We're like an old married couple - although that would be putting a label on it. Bugger

 

We are like Hitler enjoying an orange. enjoyable to ourselves, detestable to everybody else.

 

There is, at least one person weirder than us.

 

I've drawn on fruit before, not Hitler, but we had Queen and Elvis at some point.

I still play with my food..