Ladies which do you like in your BF

Like them Straight, bi or don't care?

 

can guys post the other way around?

 

Sure but I guess you should say I am a guy first.

 

So, you're bi I'm guessing?

 

Actually no I am straight. Just curious about the issue.

 

Things are sure more simple with a straight guy. Aslong as the person was an open communicator, completely honest and was only interested in having sex with me (I'm monogamous) sexuality wouldn't matter...But I tell you, I've been there with a bi guy, and it generally just made an already unsound relationship even trickier.

Ps. I thought this thread was going to be about inserting things in places

 

We live in a heterocentric world where sex with men is polarizing. No matter what you feel or do, if you have sex with men, you're gay if you're a man and straight if you're a woman. I agree that really it doesn't matter, but it's easier, and therefore I would prefer a straight man.

 

I guess it depends on the mindset of the people around you. Personally I've seen more of an acceptance of bisexual men as just what they are...bisexual. My ex husband was bisexual, and I never thought of him as gay because he liked sex with women, too. Many things, but not gay. But I agree with you, I can't be doing with that complexity anymore, it's a pain compared to it being just a straight relationship, although again it depends on the person and their other qualities like honesty and ease of communication about sex.

 

But you're an exceptional person. I'm speaking in generalities. So many gay men have the irritating habit of misrepresenting themselves as bisexual, and in many ways, ruined it for everyone.

 

if a guy is with a guy, he should be gay, and if he is with a girl he should be straight, and if he is with both, he should grow up and pic 1 person

 

Are you saying you cannot be sexually attracted to both sexes?

 

The number of bi guys vastly outnumbers the number of gay guys.

Those misrepresenting themselves, maybe they are bi just suddenly turn very gay around you, for which you then blame the group known as 'gay guys'

We cop this kind of stuff from all sides, which is why we have a tendency to close ranks and just interact with our own.

So all these gay men you have known, werent gay, they were this first lot I was talking about bi - and picky

No use blaming a group that you never really get to see

 

Turn very gay around me? I don't think my own brother "turned very gay around" me, nor did his ex-fiance and before that his now ex-boyfriend. I don't know if you're trying to insult me and say I repulse men, but if so, that isn't very nice at all.

To clarify, I'm talking about men that initially identified as bisexual and presently identify as gay. I know a fair number. I should add I've never dated either a bisexual (that I know of) or gay man.

 

No, i'm just saying that at the point of being with someone, you need to decide, no switching and no doubling up.

 

That's for the people in question to decide.
If said people don't find switching, doubling up, or whatever, a problem, then it isn't, and that's that.

 

Why do people have to be monogamous?

I like monogamy, because it works for me. What other people do is none of my business unless I sleep with them.

 

That's like me asking you whether you prefer tea or coffee, you suggesting both, then me calling you a bastard.

 

you know a bf with benifits isnt all bad male or female

 

Dont take it personal, I just mean they'll revert to their gayness so as to not lead you on or when actually called on it - get near a situation where than supposed bisexuality is tested for real.

Its a two way street an it operates on all different levels.

I catergorise the females into 7 main types:

1. The Handbag Mafia - They want the gay male friend mainly as the fashion accessory. Usually the ones with way too much makeup on

2. The Cleopatras - dont give you the time of day unless you flirt with them or give them constant affirmations. Usually pretty face but no curves to be spoken of yet

3. The Super mums - my favourite, cos they usually dont give a fuck about anything else but sticking with the husband and spitting out babies, so the least amount of bitchiness. Hubbies love me once they work out I take the wife and kids off his hands on the occasional Sat Afternoon - He'll tell the wife he'll use the time to fix stuff around the house, but he'll do what every hubby will do once hes got the house to himself, download some porn and spank the monkey all day long

4. The Every other Mums - or in the process of becoming, anywhere from just getting engaged through to 6 birthday party for the 2.1th kid. Kid looks likes a little Rodney Dangerfield in a blue jump suit but you still have to grit your teeth and say "Oh, what a cute baby"

5. The Jan Bradys - dont really care if you are gay, your a guy, you can help them meet guys

6. The Kryptonians - grown boobs and discovered sex, use me to get her current fling angrier

7. The Medusas - the scariest of them all to us, stare you down like the most aggressive guys. She thinks you are straight, just another notch on the belt, She thinks you're bi, she'll just want a show. She thinks you're gay, then you're fucked, froths at the mouth at the thought of objectifying / humiliating a guy. The only defense is to "Run, Forest, Run". Just about always has like 5 older brothers. Just about always at least one of those brothers plays for our team (usually the youngest, most defenseless one)




Now after saying all that, I do get on a lot better with girls than guys. I only use two catergorys for guys. And those categories are sorted by the parts of the brain that are furthest south

 

to me, it doesn't matter, just so long as he is monogamous...