ive just reaLIsed im having an emothional affair with my best guy mate

argh! emotional affairs! Ive finally realised whats been going on in this head of mine. Ive been in a relationship for 3 1/2 years and love my bf to bits. BUT im telling my best guy mate everything and he tells me everything and we like each other = emotional affair. Either i need to end my relationship or cut all ties with best guy mate right?? What to do! advice please.....

 

why....sounds like you've let yourself get trapped into an either/or perception....it does not need to be that way.

 

see if they would be interested in a threesome

 

haha so i think im going to leave long term bf and not text best guy mate whats happening so i dont have them on my mind and i can rebuild my new life with a clear head

 

find a way to turn your guy mate into gay.

 

Cheating is cheating in my book, emotional or physical, it's all the same to me. When someone cheats, it usually indicates an emotional void in that person, and that person seeks understanding and companionship...which is what you have done. You have talked to this person intimately, revealed secrets, and ultimately betrayed your bf. If you're going to leave your bf, he at least deserves to know what you did, otherwise he's going to think you up and left him for no good reason. Best of luck.