I'm thinkin I'm in need of some advice :-)

So I've been single for the past 4 years (2 of which was because I was in rehab). I moved up to St. Louis with the fam last summer after I got out of the program. Since I've been here it's been really hard to meet people, especially like minded people. I'm really desiring fruitful, loving, adventurous relationship.. but guys never seem to see me that way or at least they give off that impression. I have tons of great guy friends, but no b/f.. What's wrong with me???

 

Nothing. Life is like that. Also, Jesus, you're 17. Why does everyone think having some meaningful relationship at such a young age is so important? At that age I didn't. At that age I didn't give a shit.

You'll find someone. Just hold your horses.

 

listen i looked a your pic and you are beautiful don't worry about men noticing you and just like vana said your young I had my first meaningful at the age of 19. the point is don't rush about anything.

oh and from my general exprience if you really have a lot of male friend at least 1 or 2 of them wants you now and are shy\still considering the risk of losing you as a friend
or will be after some time

 

thanks guys, I guess it's an issue of me not being happy with myself. insecurity's a bitch. I feel so invisible sometimes...

 

know what your saying insecurity is indeed a problem but don't worry your young and things change thier be university and many more opportunities to change. and for most self-esteem improves as they get older. oh and once again you have no reason to feel invisible you can be sure that at least man take notice of you.

and most importent the fact you don't have a meaningful relationship doesn't mean you are doing something wrong, you have friends you have your health, appreciate who you are and enjoy life. the right guy will come around.

 

theres absolutely nothing wrong with you, i think you said it yourself, guys just arent taking things seriously as you are. You seem like you are pretty mature, in the sense you actually want a genuine relationship. And plus, you are at that certain age that every single human being is at when you feel really insecure about a lot of things. They are right, with time you will feel way more comofortable with who you are. And im sure pretty soon here, guys will start to see what a cool girl you are, so just be patient Stl is a pretty cool town, im heaing up there in July for the umph/sts9 show on the levee...

 

Your still young. Have fun with you friends. You a beautiful personand the right person will come your way. Just dont focus on it and have fun. Believe me when you not looking, he'll come into your life. It maybe month, most likely years. But have confidence in yourself....

 

Just enjoy your life spending time with your friends, it's great that you have friends. I don't think you need to worry, you'll eventually find a boyfriend...

 

im having a problem. i feel like im making the wrong impression to girls my age. im not really popular in my school but i do have friends and ive tried many approaches just to make a good impression on girls not for know but for later in high school. id like some advice if at all possible.