If you had to chose...

I really need an outside opinion, don't spare your thought =)

Guy #1 is the perfect boyfriend, but he's not the hottest. Sex is... not bad. I was never really too nervous around him. He is spanish, kudos for the latino boys

Guy #2 is hot and when we had sex, it didn't feel awkward, the eye contact was amazing.. he's sexy as hell. I got easily turned on. He was in love with his last girlfriend and never cheated on her, she cheated on him =( But then he helped me cheat on my boyfriend (oops.. don't worry i told him)

I'm selfish, I know.. it's horrible. I like the boyfriend because its a stable relationship... but guy #2.. i felt this amazing closeness while having sex with him that i've never felt with my boyfriend. And he's freakin gorgeous. I get butterflies when i think of him. I'm aware a relationship with guy #2 will most likely go south...

So who should I chose?? a stable kinda boring, but always gonna be there not the cutest boy? Or.. a temporary relationship with a gorgeous guy with lots of delicious sex.

 

Well it really depends on what you want.
If you want a nce relationship than choose one but if you just want sex than choose number two.

Remember looks doesn't always matter and sex is important but not the most important thing. Its about personality in a relationship.

 

Agreed, also the not so hot guy can always learn how to be a better pleaser.

 

Why not choose both?

Do they or you have a problem with that?

 

Dont be so naive

 

if you want a future with any man, guy #1
if you are more of a, "live in the present" kind of person, guy #2
fa shooo

 

You seem so hung up on sex. I don't thnk it matters much if they both have a penis

 

If it's ok with all three of you: threesome


Ummm.... I'm with weeattoes on this one: it depends on what you want.

 

Even though guy #1 is a stable relationship: you don't seem very interested if you're looking at other guys. It's not fair to guy #1 if you want guy #2.

If you already cheated on guy #1... then I don't know how that will end, even if it is more stable that the other guy.

I say go for #2.

 

I've known him for a long time, he didn't cheat on her. He was in love with her.

 

Prove it then

 

why don't YOU prove that he cheated?

 

which one has more money?

 

My point being neither of us can.

She has known the guy a long time, but she still is not going to be able to prove he didnt cheat on the girlfriend. In the end, all she has is his word


I dont know the guy at all, I cant prove he did. But by the way she has described him, sounds like the kind of guy girls throw themselves at. He couldnt have cheated cos he's such a good guy, he loves his girlfriend? Thats all about from his side, but if some girls are going to make it really really easy for him, or hell sometimes he might not even get much of a say in the matter....

 

I see your point.:cheers2:

 

If you're not looking to get hitched anytime soon then go for #2. You never know,maybe he'll evolve into guy #1

 

id go for guy number 2 live for now, have fun you can always have a relationship once you have guy #2 out of your system. It would be harder to go from guy no.1 if you get what i mean.

 

thanks. that was the best i've been told =) it's more how i feel anyway. unfortunately. and as for the other one that said guy 2 could morph into guy 1.. i was thinking it could always happen, if not.. cut my losses i guess.

 

Ahhh, so naive

Not only will none of you ever get guy No2 out of your system, 20 years and 3 kids later you'll have it quadrupaly bad for ones like him.

And half the time guy No 1 will be ringing him up so he can spice things up and watch his wife get drilled while the sister is minding the kids for the night, or the other half of the time so he can watch the footy in peace

But your parents arent like that right? Cos mommy and daddy love each other very much

 

^Ahhh, so jaded^