So i really like this girl who ive known for quite awile. Last night we hung out and we cuddled during a movie and later that night we kissed. But she only thinks of me as a friend. =[ How do i get around this because i would really like to consider a relationship with her. Please help.
How long is ‘quite awhile’? Has she said (those immortal words) "I love you – but only as a friend"!? Relationships can take a good duration of time (to develop). Perhaps you need to ask yourself, "do you wish to live without her, in her World – or live without her in yours"? Are you prepared to go for it, ask the question and suffer (or indeed enjoy) the consequences? Sometimes there is a case for patience – If Love is there – It will find a way – Hope this helps < Peace + Love ~ Save the Planet >
Smoking - you cuddled and kissed? So just ask her. Tell her you want to be more than just a friend. Tell her you want to make love to her.
if the girl is worth it, then maybe you should give it a little more time. make some moves on her, but not too subtle so that she is still kinda interested. work some magic! most relationships come from good friendships. but you need to be careful not to cross into the "friend zone." take her out, try and hold her hand or give her a kiss on the cheek in public and see how she reacts. good luck!
just be a good friend for now, and always act interested in the person she is. be affectionate...she'll eventually realize what a good person you are, and maybe your relationship will become something more. good luck!
if she kissed you and cuddeled with you she might be feeling something to but is scared of it give it some time(can't tell you how much this is a matter of feeling) and then tell her you feel. during the entire "waiting" time be a good friend to her and make sure to complement her (not to much you don't want to scare her off) so she would know you think she looks good and since you are already good friends with here keep on being who you are she likes you
So does she normally kiss people she only considers as 'friends'? She's sending mixed signals, she owes you a proper answer, or tell her to stop teasing you. If she kissed you, she did it for a reason, I think she's lying.
Forgive me for being confused, because I am old, but doesn't kissing someone usually you are interested in being more than friends? If I was interested in only being friends with someone and not going any further than that I wouldn't be kissing them, thats for damn sure. I mean I have guy friends that I'm just simply not attracted to and I can hang out and watch the game with them, etc, and if they tried to kiss me I'd pull away and be like WTF dude, I don't like you like that. So chances are, she likes you as more than a friends. Unless, I really am that old and people just randomly kiss everyone they meet these days. Boy I need to get back in the loop.