how do i find someone new?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by yemisdate, Sep 24, 2008.

  1. yemisdate

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  2. ThePmiester

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    :) I know exactly what you mean!
    I started a new college this year as moved (would be in second year now).
    Had a gf, but moved and now im well over 150 miles away, its so hard without her or someone there.
    Its horrible feeling lonely eh?
    Best bet, is to just try and familiarise yourself with some guys who you like the look of, tbh I dont generally ask them if they like me, it comes out as obvious after a while ;)
    Good luck with your search.
    Alex :)
     
  3. new-guy

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    just look around and be social you'll find some one. and when you do find him get a nail gun and nail him to the floor or bed your choice. :)
     
  4. ThePmiester

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    Add me on MSN if you want to talk more :)
     
  5. torz

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    try just making friends first. the best relationships are built on friendships, getting to know someone first & the love will follow.

    if you go looking for a relationship you will look needy & desperate. looking needy & desperate turns guys off & you'll never get that special someone.

    just hang out with your friends, enjoy being at college. chat with the people in the classes you take, just relax & bee yourself. the relationship will come if you dont go looking for it.
     
  6. poiuyt1983

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    I'm kinda lonely too. Girls are so hard to find!
     
  7. questing400

    questing400 Senior Member

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    I have an expression:

    Become the person you want to meet.

    If you spend time on refining and developing yourself tot he point that you would love to meet the other gender version of yourself, it's a win win.

    You'll attract better people and you'll be making progress on your own journey at the same time.

    I find when people are intentionally looking to find someone, it rarely happens.
     
  8. new-guy

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    ohh i have an idea heheh get one of those really big net guns and go out and capture the othe sex. you could be like the guy form the gego commercial.

    but look online talk to ppl.
    on online it easier to talk with ppl
     
  9. OldTroll

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    Guys and gals - - read what torz said, then read it two or three times again. Read it slowly and think about it. She has said absolutely everything you need to know ..... with one tiny addition:

    The guys think that they have the problem.
    The gals think that they have the problem.
    The truth is that the majority of us of both genders have a hard time meeting compatible people.

    Now go back and read torz' post two more times!



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