ok...a few days ago me and my gf had sex for the first time....and apparently she felt it a lil...but she sait it hurt....and her cherry was preveously pop by tampons...and i tryed to finger her also..but she said that hurt as well...:S...what du i du :S
Maybe she wasn't ready for it. From what I have been told it is gonna hurt some girls the first time- we are all different! Give her time- don't try shoving 3 fingers up there striaght away!
Heck it still hurts me and I was married for 8 years. Suggestions to minimize that... Make good and sure she is thoroughly turned on before any entry. Tease her until she's ready to take the initiative. Some women take a LOT of teasing before they're really ready. Then start with just one finger only add another when she tells you she wants it. Let her tell you when that's not enough and she wants your prick inside her. It may hurt her less if she's on top too as this gives her more control of the speed and angle of entry.
