help me be more vocal in bed!

i have been told i need to be more vocal while having sex. so, what do you like to hear while having sex and what do you like to say to your partners. i guess my real problem is that i'm shy so it takes a lot for me to come out of my shell and relax and say things like yeah that feels good keep doing that or i'm so caught up in the action that i don't want to speak but my partner wants me to. PLEASE HELP!

 

I used to have the same problem. It sounds like all your partner wants is some feedback. I don't think you neccessarily have to learn how to talk dirty in order to please him; just come up with some phrases to let him know he's doing a good job..."that feels good keeping doing that," like you said, is simple enough and will probably please him. Anything like that..practice saying it while masturbating to get more comfortable with it. Sometimes even moaning can be enough to let a guy know he's on the right track.

 

thank you for your response! that helps a lot!

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwHWbsvgQUE"]YouTube - Johnny Weismuller Tarzan Call
try this..

 

To become more vocal, I suggest getting a megaphone and screaming dirty nothings into it

 

Just Watch A B-Grade Porn Video, All The Right Sounds Will Be Right There

For You To Choose From....



Cheers Glen.

 

shy girls start slow with
''i'm wet''
''i'm horny''
''touch my pussy''
and progress to the hard stuff
''eat my ****''
''taste my ****''
fuck my ****''
''harder''
''i said fuck me harder''
''FUCK ME HARD'':mickey:

 

I don't think you have to say anything. Just breathe fully, and let out sounds that express what you are feeling when you exhale.

Also, if you are uncomfortable with doing something, you don't have to do it just because your partner wants you to.

 

no means no

 

he might get confused when she keeps talking about her 18-year-old pussy though...

 

I can't speak for your man, but sex doesn't have to be verbal. Body language, spontaneous sounds, etc., are usually enough for both people to have a good idea what's going on. If you're not comfortable expressing yourself in these ways, try to work on them; you don't have to work out what to say, per se.

 

I totally agree with Zorba.
Don't do anything that is forced or you will sound like a B-Grade porn movie.

Body language and breathing pattern should let your partner know how you feel. I also believe the more comfortable you feel with your partner, if theres some repressed noises or movements, they will come out without you even being aware of it.

I am very shy by nature, and was always fairly quiet, but before I knew it I was making noises with my fiance that I did not even know existed. I remember telling her right after "I have no idea where those noises came from"
She had a similar response talking about herself.

So bottom line, do whatever is natural to you, and before you know it your "natural" will probably be above and beyond what your partner is looking for. (And if that doesn't happen, it is still all good-he should be able to tell (feel) your excitement.)

 

thank you all...i love being sexual and really want to make the best of it. so just go with the flow and be natural is pretty much what i've been doing but i'd love to learn how to talk nasty...anyone want to chat?

 

But What Will The Neighbours Think...........:gossip::gossip::gossip:



Cheers Glen.

 

No, don't watch porn. I could never bring myself to say much during sex. And then one day, "Fuck, that feels so good!" started everything. It just happened. He tried something and it was bullseye.

Easier said than done but 'just flow'.

Top 5 things likely to be overheard from my bedroom would be -

"ah baby, you are so hard."
"harder, god damn it" (not in an 'i'm mad at you' way but an 'i'm really desperate for you way')
"come here, kiss me."
"do you want to fuck my tits" (my husband doesn't last too long after this)
"i love doing this, i do"

 

There is a spider on your pillow.

 

Maybe it's a matter of character (?)
Getting into a persona that is foreign to you and then acting out (with vigour) within a fantasy world may well allow the explosive euphoria of expression that would be mutually pleasurable for both/all parties
eace:

 

You have to speak your mind in bed just tell how good it feels and how you just lvoe what heis doing to you. Or tell him what you liek him to do it harder faster or just right

 

i read a psychology book about cbt that spoke of a woman who was inhibited in bead, vocally and physically. the dr recommended that she actually act as crazy and weird as she could, exaggerating her orgasms and vocals and acting as ridiculous as she wanted until she didn't feel inhibited about how she looked anymore.