alright so I dated this girl about 3 years ago going on four, we were freshman/sophmores in high school at the time. when it ended she hated me and we did not talk for a long while. we both went off and found new mates for a while and so on. over the years we kinda grew to be acquittance's again and then friends to the point where we talk probably about 5 days a week for the last few months. she has been at college so we have not actually hung out for a while. a few days ago she came home from college and us and a few other friends ended up hanging out. we ended up having a few drinks which somehow end up with her in my arms remenising and kissing. we ended up in my bed fooling around however before we had sex she started crying saying she wasnt sure. I told her it was fine and consoled her so we just spent some time laying together talking. the other day she came over again supposedly to ( get her jacket that she left) and we went out riding around town for a bit, and then she came back to my place to hang out which was a lot more talking and so on. regardless we laid in bed for about 3 hours and eventually ended up making out and fooling around to the point where we actually had sex. but half way through or so she stopped me and started crying again and once again told me she doesnt know what she wants. now i thought she was talking about relationship wise, but when we talked about it later she tells me it will never work. im not sure what to think about the situation because I feel like we could have a good shot, theres obviously still some sort of attraction but i dont know how to go about this
you're comfortable for her...that's why she screwed you...doesn't necessarily mean there's feelings there, she just knows you well enough to feel ok screwing you. I've been there and done that...don't take too much into consideration if she doesn't want a relationship.
Yeah, what malia said. I've had exes come looking for me when they got out of bad relationships. I think it's because I was comfortable for them. You have to remember that you broke up for a reason, and that reason probably still exists.
so if you want to get back together with her, sounds like you need to talk to her about why she thinks it will never work. And the reason why she thinks it will never work could be related to why you broke up in the first place and her hating you for it. You didn't explain that part. This thread is falsely advertised, btw. I was expecting it to be about how she had just gotten out of jail after 3 years in the joint.
because you were comfortable for them, or maybe because they were horny and figured they could score?
Well, maybe, but they seemed to want to talk about old times. One of them admitted that he had hoped I was single, but this ship sailed a long time ago...
it's simple, she is single and you have a cock. i've had this, the girl bolted as soon as she found some new guy - not before she pushed me to the ground and kicked a good amount of dirt in my face. avoid her, ex's are such for a reason.
