does pulling out work

Discussion in 'Birth Control' started by jessica fischer, Jan 7, 2018.

  1. Ged

    Ged Tits and Thigh Man.

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    I see your zen logic at work there.
     
  2. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Any juvenile sex education will tell you this is a stupid method.
     
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  3. tumbling.dice

    tumbling.dice Visitor

    Homosexual sex and I can guarantee you'll never get pregnant.
     
  4. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    True dat. Unless you eat lots or pork, might get a pork belly. Oh and drinking beer. Oh and pizza.
     
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  5. iamjustme

    iamjustme Wishful thinker HipForums Supporter

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    Looks like you have got your answer...little hint Jessica... all young guys...all of them, no exceptions will tell you anything if it increases his chances of getting whatever sex he is after.
    He is not special, he is not different than everyone else despite what you want to believe.
    Use a damn condom if you are not on the pill. No matter what he says. I know he doesn't want to use it, they suck...I told girls the same thing when I was his age.

    Just like I told my daughter when she was a teenager. When it comes to sex YOU are the one in charge. YOU are the only one with a semblance of a clear mind.
    Take charge of it.
     
  6. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Tell the boyfriend to suck it up and put that rubber on. Pre-cum can contain semen as well, which means you should never take the chance. Sex ed is a good thing.
     
  7. Flashdown

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    The problem with a guy and especially younger guys, is that when they get an erection all of the blood drains away from the brain and they don't think straight. He might say that he will pull out, but in the heat of the moment and not thinking straight, the chances are he is not going to. A baby is not a toy you can just throw away, it is a life long commitment.

    Tell your boyfriend not to be silly and to put a condom on his willy.

    Have fun, be save and have kids when you are ready.
     
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  8. morrow

    morrow Visitor

    Never trust a man that says."trust me!" Cos he know nothing!!

    :)
     
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  9. Lolli

    Lolli Visitor

    rat u'r no help
     
  10. Eric!

    Eric! Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Trust me....
    Muahhahaaaaaa!!
     
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  11. Treesa

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    If pulling out worked so well most of us with kids would not be parents. Sweetheart two of my pregnancies were even though he pulled out. So if I were you either go onto birth control if you want his dick, make him use a condom if he wants your vagina or start saving because you going to be a mom soon.
     
  12. Panama Jack

    Panama Jack Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Treesa, Well said and to the point. That boy will tell her any thing to blow his nuts in her. But, he must too pimple faced to man up and buy his own condoms. That girl needs to take control of her on life.
     
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  13. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    It can work, under the right circumstances. I would use it if:

    -you are in a committed relationship with a mature person who knows their own body and who you know does not have any type of STD.
    -the thought of potentially getting pregnant is ok with you.

    Check out the info on this page, it's pretty realistic and comprehensive:
    What is the Effectiveness of the Pull Out Method?
     
  14. LuvCookies85

    LuvCookies85 Members

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    Pulling out is just a guy trying to get a chance to have unprotected sex. If you're that much into letting him have sex without a condom go down and get on birth control.
     
  15. Jamie28London

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    Its by no means 100% but if done carefully its relatively safe. I think its a bit crap though pulling out because you have sex for a orgasm, and if you need to finish yourself off after sex whats the point. Either use the pill or learn to love anal. Unless of course you dont mind him blowing his load over you.
     
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  16. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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  17. Ri666

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    Tell him to use a condom. If he refuses, he is not worth your time. Find someone who cares about you and the potential consequences. Additionally, if you can, get some birth control. That way you can take more control of your own sex life.
     
  18. iamjustme

    iamjustme Wishful thinker HipForums Supporter

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    Haha..... true story, honest to God.... I am a result of the "withdraw method".
    53 years ago my parents thought this.
    ....glad it failed! :D
     
  19. Klimax2gether

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    Never trust him. Pulling out will end in disaster. Either you should go on the pill or insist that he should use a condom. If he can't take responsibility then you as a young girl must be vary careful. You do not want to go through the trauma of unwanted pregnancy etc.
     
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  20. Klimax2gether

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    I totally agree with Candybuttons.
     
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