Hey, i joined here asking to other experienced men here if doing anal hurts all the time? Me and my boyfriend started having sex for the first times. He made me a rimjob wich felt great and the saliva kind worked as a lubrificant. But then when i was bieng penetrated it hurted allot. I never putted anything besides my finger. But i'm wondering if this is because it's the first time? If we keep doing, it will hurt less in the future? Or maybe we need more then just saliva? I wanna know if anal will always be painfull. Because it just hurts in the begining because it then feels great. But when we stop it also hurts a bit. I think it's because was my first time, and it might be better from now on. But i wan't to hear from more experienced people. Sorry for my bad english.
hi marco, just go slow and first using lube play with rimming and then get your bf first with one finger to insert and relax your anus, then a second one and graduallly loosen and relax your sphincter muscle. If your partner is real big then maybe even get him to try slow with three fingers. Actual entering I always reckon is easier if you lay on your side and he is like a spoon to you; different positions suit different people but at first you do not want to start with a position where the anus is already stretched. and sure, it will get easier...............:sunny: enjoy, Simon oh, lube - ky or silicon with condoms, vaseline or something like w/o
Position is everything. Spoon Position may be easier than the classic Doggy Position, but in my own experience, Missionary Position is the only way to go - ideally with the receiver's knees hooked over the giver's shoulders. This position opens the sphincter for an easier penetration - plus it has the added benefit that the receiver is less likely to be pushed away with each successive thrust - Last time I tried the Spoon Position my partner nearly fell off the side of the bed.
On the contrary - I'm always extremely gentle in my thrusting, so as not to cause any excess pain, due to having quite a generous girth. What tends to cause the movement is the sidewards rocking motion that the Spoon Position entails.
