Both exist, and yes you can have both. But until you meet those that possess both qualities, enjoy what you have before you now. Understand that you may be on a long journey to find it, but it does exist. I have found many women that were both mentally and intimately compatible with me when I was single, and we had so much fun!
This is a good fantasy, but I don't believe this story. For example: 'I hid behind the bushes and started to masturbate. She stopped sucking his dick, said, "Hold on a second honey," and opened the window.' If the window was not yet opened, and they were on the third story, how could he know what she was saying?