Can A Man Manage To Never Let His Partner See Him Flacid?

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  1. slickbbb

    slickbbb Members

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    I had a partner , who i lived with, who's penis i only ever saw erect. He wasnt ashamed of his body an was open minded regarding sex.
    I asked him once ,when i realised i hadnt seen it flacid, why he was careful to let me see it hard. He said it was só i only thought of it as a sexual apendage and not also as one to urinate from. This, he believed, would keep our relationship 'hot'
    He had lived with others and had been married and said no one he had slept with had ever seen it soft.
    Any one else done this or been with someone who did? Is this common and is it effecttive in keeping the spark?
     
  2. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    Not much strikes me as weird here. This did.
     
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  3. slickbbb

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    i really did lol
    thats interesting
    but lets see if it really is só wierd.
     
  4. bft4evr

    bft4evr Senior Member

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    its definitely weird

    and unbelievable
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yeah, if this is real then you lived with a crazy person.
     
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Lol I wouldn't wanna see and flacid lil pin dicks on any man I date. Gotta be 7" uncut and full blown erect 24/7
     
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  7. Jo King

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    will 8 1/2 do?
    then I'm your man.
     
  8. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Now I know you're lying. :d
     
  9. drumminmama

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    Why do I hear Leonard Cohen?
     
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  10. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    Shhhhhhh they don't know.
     
  11. slickbbb

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    I am surprised/interested at the responses to thos post given that many posts on hipforums are quite strange and people take what has been said in their stride or infact do the same or agree with OP.
    However i am glad i asked this .
     
  12. drumminmama

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    It strikes me as a compulsion. Sort of like the couples who claim they have never passed gas in the other's presence.
     
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  13. Noserider

    Noserider Goofy-Footed Member

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    I...I...I got nothing.
     
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  14. olderndirt

    olderndirt Senior Member

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    When she was my girlfriend, she never saw me flaccid, but since we've been married, she has seen me that way many times. Sometimes she manages to correct the situation.
     
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  15. drumminmama

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    Just lazing around letting your lady see drooping nipples. For shame.
     
  16. stillinthegroove

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    Why would you do that? If a guy is that worried about his body image then he’s probably a basket case, spends too long looking at himself in the mirror, has more emotional problems then a teenage girl and clearly has no concept about relationships. I love seeing my man naked and flaccid, being comfortable around each other is what a relationship is.
     
  17. Goander

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    Errr... No. LOL
     
  18. Bryce

    Bryce A nut busting poster is a happy poster!

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    If only I was single, lol.
     
  19. Bryce

    Bryce A nut busting poster is a happy poster!

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    Two things:

    1) I never intentionally tried to hide myself from any of my partners when flaccid. However, I was with this girl once for a couple months (slept together numerous times) who apparently through coincidence only ever saw me naked while hard. We didn’t live together or shower together so maybe that was the issue. But one drunk night during a truth or dare type game with a bunch of friends, she said something like she’d never sleep with a guy who was uncut because foreskin was nasty. I was confused because I am uncut, so I responded by reminding her that her boyfriend (who she’s been sleeping with is uncut). As you can imagine there was some confusion and therefore laughter at the confusion. But basically she was trying to tell me what kind of dick I had cause she never noticed it being uncut before. Sure enough, being drunk I whipped it out flaccid and proved it.

    2) I think your partner should your flaccid dong on occasion. Think about all of the cool things you can do just for shits and giggles when it’s flaccid (like the helicopter).
     
  20. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    That does strike me as strange. Flaccid penis isn't anything unusual, nor should it automatically be linked to anything unattractive. What goes up must come down at some point, and it has a way of becoming a natural part of a relationship.
     

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