Boyfriend says toys = cheating

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Wait.... what? How is that cheating? Is he insecure about his size and your toys are maybe bigger than him? That might be part of it.

 

Deathpotion5,

If the guy is incredible and treats you like a queen. Tell him you enjoy the pleasure, you get from your toys. He must have fears you will get tired of the toys and go after the real thing. But no I wouldn't call it cheating. Enjoy the pleasures in life, and he should be happy for you.

 

Tell him to pull the stick out of his ass then reinsert. He may like it.

 

If he's so insecure a toy is cheating he needs to go cause u don't complain about his hand do u? How dare he I would start cheating just out of sheer anger lol.

 

He is really messed up. I am so sorry for you. I would do what I wanted and just not tell him. If it continues to be a problem, you really must get rid of him ;(

 

My cock just can't do 10,000rpms. I am all for her having whichever toy she preferrs. I even buy them for her. I have told her that there are guys like this, but she dosn'e believe me.

I once heard a woman say that her man would screw her and be done in 5 minutes. Then he would disappear leaving her extremely horny and frustrated. I don't want to be that kind of guy. I want my partner to enjoy as much, or more than I.

 

Your boyfriend is a dickhead. I love my wife to use toys, anytime, with me, without me. Saying he is having nightmares is the beginning of controlling behaviour, just to get his way. I don't think he will change either, those guys with control issues rarely do. Ditch him. Buy more toys.

 

Got to be honest with you. Get rid of him before the toys. If they are that much of a threat to him, wow. I don't even know.

 

Were you sliding your member between the buns? :afro:

 

Not until i ate the meat in the middle.

 

Bf must have a small dick to consider toys cheating. At face value I think toys always look bigger than actual male members but I've since measured myself up to all of my missus toys and surprisingly I exceed in all dimensions but it doesn't look like it to me.

 

You can see a toy much closer at least us less bendy ppl can

 

I like picking up dildos and feeling the weight etc. woman have it heaps better with toys.
I don't get the huge motherfuckers though, like the size of a thigh. Why'd you wanna blow your box or ass out that much? How's that attractive. Queer mofos :rofl:

 

So he gave you "permission" to masturbate but not to use inanimate (sort of) objects to help with that process?

Like everyone else is saying, this obviously has more to do with his own insecurities over your faithfulness.

If an inanimate object can make him feel that way then your boyfriend has some really deep insecurities that he can deal with or find someone with a lower sex drive.

Everyone needs some alone time and you have the right to deal with your needs the way you need to.


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How jealous is he gonna be when he sees you talking to the man next door over the fence in the backyard?

 

Perhaps before she let's him go she could set up the dinning room table and place upon each stop a different sex toy?

I mean if the guy is going to place inanimate objects in the categories of real people as a real person can cheat on another but a Vibrator cannot...well...I would like to see his face! LOL!!!

TooReal

 

I use to date a man like that, he hated that I used sex toys and got into a major strop when he discovered I used them. He turned out to be incredibly manipulative and controlling so I got rid of him and kept my toys
Is you're boyfriend insecure in sex? I know some men can be and can see a toy as being a 'threat' or something they will never be able to compete with. If it is because of that then you should tell him that they are just a masturbation aid, nothing more than that and he shouldn't feel threatened by them because let's face it, us women prefer the real thing to a toy. If he doesn't want you to use them though as a form of control over you, then you should consider if the relationship is worth it.

 

I suggest you find someone with an IQ over 70.