Bi.Curious and Married

Curious but just can't cross that boundary of cheating. Would be so interesting to see what it would be like but can't hurt the one I love

 

I had to jack my clit after reading this thread.

 

The fantasy is probably a lot more exciting than the reality.
Don't cheat on your wife.

 

I agree with most here. You need to talk to it with your wife. However, avoid the 'shock' value if you can... This creates more drastic results or side affects that you do not want. Start small... A romantic dinner, a small game of truth or dare... Wait for her to ask you a truth - then tell her of your curiosity. If she is feeling special, feeling loved and cared for, and you are giving her attention, then when you are sharing desires or fantasies they do not come as such a shock. It is true that a lot of woman can not handle this... But she may surprise you and drop one of her own. You could open the discussion on - if she could, what would she do sexually that she has always wanted to do but never have... You know your wife best, so you will need to find the best way to approach it. My wife was an escort when I first met her, so there were very few secrets between us. She does not do this anymore, but it still does provide a lot of fantasy material and what if's. IF YOU DO talke to her, make sure you reassure her that you love her, it is not about her, it is a desire or fantasy you have had a long time... You two are 'sharing' desires and you are not wanting to replace her. Good Luck!

 

Yes, I agree with Fragle here... Most encounters are duds and you may be let down. Remember the nature of most men - to get off quickly and move out. You will need to find someone who knows you are experimenting, is willing to work with you and make it enjoyable for both - and it helps if your wife is there to help....

 

Still curious but been chatting to a guy on Grindr. I may meet him next week so I can finally suck dick and take it up the ass.

 

It might be a good idea to start a conversation with the wife about sexual fantasies and really listen to what she is saying. Just maybe you aren't the only one desiring same sex sex. I'm speaking from experience. Back when I was married to my 2nd wife, we talked about her having sex with another woman while I watched. She brought up the idea of wanting to watch me sucking another guy off. I told her, "I'm game if you are!" We also talked about swinging. After several weeks of these conversations, she said that her boss's wife had invited us to swing with them. That weekend both of our fantasies came true!

 

how did that go?

 

Yeah married here and extremely curious as well. Sometimes far more curious than others. Ive tried finding a decent guy to experiment things with but its tough. Some are too aggressive and some are just weird. Ive tried the phone thing and that wasn't for me. The hardest part is the cheating though. My wife is NOT into sex. The only time she ever wanted it was to get pregnant. Any time we do it she just lays there, spreads her legs and says "ok" then wonders why I have a hard time getting off. I just need more excitement and she has admitted she would be ok with never having sex again. We talk about it and she says she knows but she doesnt change and any talk of an open marriage would not go well.

 

Was great. Was everything I thought it would be and more. I sucked his cock then he done me anally. Felt great. I came buckets and so did he.

 

So I'm married and bisexual. Actually this is my second marriage. I did admit to my first wife that I was sexually attracted to men and she even let me have sex with my fantasy (my boss at the time). Me having sex with men wasn't the reason we divorced. The good part about it was that after we divorced I spent the next 5 years in a gay relationship with my boss. Eventually my need for pussy won over and I got married again. This wife doesn't know that I'm bisexual tho. That same boss calls me occasionally when he is in town and those are days that I end up "working over." I do have a semi-regular gay sex life.

 

Biodome I'd love to hear more about the time you got to have sex with your fantasy, that sounds incredible!!!

 

I'm married and more bi "curious" than bi. When my wife and I were first married 18 years ago we were sharing fantasies one night. I told her my favs.....a MFM threesome, watching her with another chic (she had said earlier that there was no way for a FMF), and that I was curious about MM sex. She found the latter hot. I then told her about some MM experiences I had in high school and college. It turned her on.

During one of our MFM I ended up blowing my friend for about 3 minutes....she had that OMG THAT WAS SO HOT look. Then she took over. She mentioned later that we needed to find a bi guy to share. We bought a strap on and she's pounded my ass a few times. 15 years ago........no mention since.

Sadly, my once hot slutty wife has shut down sexually. We haven't had sex in 3 years.

Lately, she keeps mentioning that her gay hair stylist thinks I'm hot, and that he wants to "gay me up"! I've had him cut my hair a couple of times, and after my last cut we made out in his back office. NEVER thought I'd get in to kissing a guy, but it was hot. I went down on him for a few minutes but was interrupted by a customer calling out for him. Was hoping to get together again, but his partner returned to town and they're back together. I want him..........I want to suck him until his cum is in my stomach, and I want him to cum bare in my ass. I want to submit to him.

Is my wife trying to set this up? What am I to do?

 

same but not up the ass only in the mouth

 

Like Nike's slogan "Just do it" you will not regret it one bit.

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

I agree with one on here who said being with another man was not cheating on your wife -- it's entirely different, an aspect of a man's sexuality that takes nothing at all away from her. I've been ass-fucked over a hundred times by 40+ men during the last 20 years; she knows nothing about it at all. But I've never touched another woman (I HAVE, however, pumped a lot of hot, spurting loads up & out while fantasizing about them!), and I never will. I made her a solemn promise, and I won't break it.

 

I’m in my late 50s and had these feelings for about 25 years but never did anything about them. I would never cheat on my wife but the urges are always near. About 80% of the porn I watch is gay. I don’t actually fancy men but can admire them. I fancy women, especially my wife but I feel sex with a man may be better. I wish I’d tried a few years ago when I had the chance.

 

Be honestly open with your wife, tell her of your desires and urges. Whether her response is positive or negative you owe it to her to tell her how you truly feel. She may respond as my wife did...We've had a shared boyfriend for three years now and recently his wife joined us for an awesome four-some. Our wives enjoy watching us suck and fuck each other and they both have strap-on's which really makes our get togethers blissfully satisfying.