Strip clubs are just creepy as hell. My friends took me to one on my 20th birthday and pitched in to get me a lap dance. She was probably 10 or 15 years older than me...I could smell the perfume and cigarette smoke on her. I'm kinda of a shy, introverted person and it was just painful as hell having a naked stranger hanging off me. Thank God I was drunk or I don't think I could have stood it.
I dislike casinos too! What casinos will never reveal is the number of people that commit suicide in their washrooms after losing everything!
Yeah they do a nice job of controlling the environment and creating a certain experience for their customers, but they still make me sad
Kerri, you're really not missing much. Most strip clubs are just full of abused woman and biker girls! There are a few college girls earning money for school, but, most are just drug dependent girls being exploited. Just my humble opinion.
I'd say the guy is exploited more. The women chooses to do it and plays mind games with the guy. Lots of men blow their whole paycheck thinking they will change her and she plays into that with flirting. There is always going to a huge bouncer in the club to protect her. Yeah she probably has her own sad story to be doing it but she has all the power.
Are the men stupid enough to think they will change her? I don't think men who go to strip clubs go with that goal on their mind. They go to see women get naked. And that's pretty much that.
They fall in love sometimes and do. I saw it happen to a friend after the one time we went. He kept coming back paying this women to talk to him. He was a bit overweight and had never had a high school girlfriend. I think he was happy to get attention. Eventually we convinced him to talk to a nice girl who was not already nude.
I probably won’t actually go, it’s just been a curiosity. I’d take my husband though - he’d keep me safe ;-)
I’d feel safe from creepers. And no I’m not interested in debating the demographics of stripnclub clientele nor the psychology of my potential uneasiness ;-)
well you can't stick your finger up her butthole or anything, but if you're good looking and not creepy they'll allow a fair amount of caressing.
That's good then. I've been to back room where there's goons watching make sure nothing happens. I feel like I'm a girl, nothing's going to happen. =/
That was a great story. It caught my eye because I just gave my guy a lap dance on the weekend and we were both so turned on by it. It was super fun, I can’t wait to do it again! My question for you is, has your wife ever given you a lap Dance? If so, was it lame compared to strippers doing it?
I went to the Spearmint Rhino one time. I paid a cover I think. Then I bought a drink; probably water. Then I left. I didn't see anyone dancing. That place wasn't very busy. I didn't get the impression that it would be a very good time if I ever went back, though admittedly I probably went some time during the week in the late afternoon. Probably not the best time to go. Of course this was several eons ago, so I don't remember clearly at all!