I have been chasing this girl whom I am madly in love with for months and finally I succeeded last month. We began going out and decided to make love a few days ago. She is really pretty and works at investment where she is very popular amongst her colleagues. I am so afraid to lose her. We are both in our late 20s. So we first made love after a dinner and she asked me to put on a condom and darken the room in which I agreed. But for some stupid reasons I rolled off the condom and threw it to the floor before penetration. She is rather sexually inexperienced and also a bit drunk because of some wine so she didn't check constantly whether my condom was still on. We really had a wonderful time and my gf didn't realize anything afterwards. Now a few days have passed and I am feeling a bit of guilt. If she is pregnant I am perfectly willing and capable of marrying her and become a dad. I love her so much and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I can always use the " condom broke" and live with that for the rest of our lives. But I am torn in between now . What should i do?
If you are for real????? That is about the most irresposible thing a person could ever do. You should be ashamed of yourself!!!!!!
Yes your are wrong. She gave her trust to you and allowed you to have sex with her and your selfish ass decides that if you get her pregnant it is OK because you would like to be a Dad and trap her into a marriage. Grow up!
I know what I am doing is very selfish, but I cannot lose her. She is a gorgeous girl and is constantly being chased at her investment bank. If shit happens, I am willing to take care of her for the rest of her life!!!! I love her so much
The general idea is that a woman gets to choose if and when she wants a baby......Let alone any nasty diseases that you may or may not have.
I don't have any nasty diseases! I dated only one gal prior. This case happens I am madly in love with her.
i wouldnt worry...you absolutely have the right to make descisions for this girl that will affect everyones life including the new baby when she finds out she will never talk to you again and if she is pregnant you likely wont get much time with the baby either she will meet another dude and then you will spend the next 18 years watching your kid get raised by another (better) man
it would be fair if she was attempting to protect him from an std but because he was a weasal and removed the condom he ends up getting herpes 50
You realize that you could be charged with rape for this, right? Her consent was for protected sex. As soon as you took the condom off, you no longer have consent.
I'm not really buying that she didn't realize he wasn't wearing the condom. It's pretty easy to tell the difference, even if you are a bit tipsy.
Actually, no, that's not always the case. Maybe for you as the wearer of the condom you can tell pretty easily, but on the receiving end it's very hard to tell from feel alone. And if she explicitly consented to sex with a condom, and he took it off without her knowing, then it is a rape. Consent has to be informed to be valid, so if he misleads her, at that point, her consent is no longer informed, and therefore invalid, thereby making it a rape.
i'm taking a guess here but i'm thinking condoms slip off of tiny peckers more than off big peckers? explaining your knowledge on the subject? what op did was criminal and beyond creepy...he deserves this girls brother to beat the bejeebers out of him
Before you guys call me a rapist, she didn't ask me that I must wear a condom before intercourse. We had a very nice dinner before and had wine so she was more tipsy (but not passed out drunk) than I was. We then went back to her place and things went on from then. Before we actually went at it, my gf told me "there are condoms inside the drawer", but didn't say explicitly I must wear them. Both of us were on fire and very passionate about each other that night. Our relationship has been extremely good after this and I already hinted to her about getting engaged today which she didn't resist much. Whether she will become pregnant or not I will still marry her. She is the woman of my dream and I will do my part and take care of her for the rest of her life (baby or no baby)!
See above...you state she asked me to put on a condom. You asked us if you were wrong. We have tod you yes, you were wrong. And creepy. Don't go trying to alter the facts now.
