My boyfiend and I are addicted to each other. We can't spend a minute without talking to each other, and if we don't we feel very bad. We are not possessif, but it's just that we have hard times getting sperated. We are so close to each other, and we practically don't feel very comfortable with many poeple. I think it's a wonderful thing, we really have a great relationship. But our addiction makes us forget about other important things like studying for example. We really need to study in order to succeed! I don't know how we can stay away from each other, or even be close and study together since we can't stop talking,or kissing or looking in each other's eyes. We really need help!
Trust me, it all begins to dissipate pretty quickly... Not meaning to burst anyones bubble here of course. The honeymoon period is a beautiful thing.
One year, and you guys are still hot for each other to that degree... In that case, fuckin' forget studying! Haha, just kidding. Seriously though, I think what you have is a truly beautiful thing. You can't achieve that with just anyone. Have you ever tried studying WITH him? By the sound of it, not jumping on him(or vice versa) might be a big challenge for you, but hopefully you'll get used to it over time. Of course, your feelings for each other may(or may not) calm down a little in another year or two. That's alright because you may still be very comfortable and happy to be in this relationship then. If you aren't, then you break up basically, but that's not something you should worry about right now. In the meantime, consider yourselves lucky and keep on loving each other!
Yeah me and my ex were the same way... we were together from 8th grade to the same exact day 1st semester in 11th grade ended (literally). I got kicked out of my dads (basically) and moved back to my moms in PA, and im still here. I havent talked to her in a while because she hates me. All she can see is how I "left" her there all by herself. It breaks my heart, I love her more then anything.
I've been told this many many times, just like "dreams cant come true" and other pessimistic views I used to believe in that too , but not anymore! Call me existentialist, but I really believe that we decide of the relationship we want to have,we can act and change things if both partners have the same will!
We are each others first love! That doesn't mean we never had experiences before! no! we had plenty of them and we've made mistakes and learnt a lot of things. I personally screwed up a lot before meeting him, which taught me a lot and made me know how to handle serious long term relationships. One of the great things about us is our innocence, another thing is our complementary personalities. We agreed on going to libraries twice a week and studying together and preparing for the exams together as well! I hope it will work, or we will flunk!!
Playing devils advocate: This could eventually lead to self destruction, either for one or for both of you. Love can be an addiction, like a drug in rare cases. Not saying for you, but there are stories about lovers who were so infatuated that the relationship eventually collapsed under the intense fire.
sounds like you guys have some dependency issues. were your parents around much as a child? srsly people like you make me want to vomit a rainbow of hearts and puppies.
oh 2 b young & in love i remember my 1ft true love...we talked on the fon 100 times a day. we spent every moment 2gether we could. kissed till we turned blue. fond memories!!!
me & my bf are the saaame way. we just distance ourselves & even though its hard it just makes coming back to together soo much better.
Natural Philosophy are you serious? Were your parents around? Is that why you don't have a gf/bf and are 22 y.o and have 4000 posts throughout the forums? Too much time on your hands dude. and your little headline is "sup bitches"? Haha cooool shit man, that's badass. Its always so funny how people alwaysss have some way to rain on people who are big on loves parade. But... forget them!
